When I came onto this site 3 years ago, I was facing the possibility of being what I would call a “voluntary cuckold” since my wife (and I), had become ‘frustrated’ with our sexual relationship.
My wife became Intrigued by the promise of a friend to help her “renew” her interest in sex, she went to his home, with my permission, to learn what he had in mind. He gave her a ‘sensual massage’ and oral sex, but was interrupted by a phone call from his wife. My wife then left and never went back to him.
That experience caused a lot of ‘angst’ for me, but changed our sex life’s for the better, and is still working for us. My full description of what transpired is in my ‘thread’ “New Experience”
Much earlier, I was qualified for the literal definition of “cuckold” by my first wife, We called it adultery then.
Although, I experienced only a small portion of the cuckold lifestyle (where I was in support of what she would do,) I read in these pages of many who have years, and years of experience with this diversion of the traditional ‘western marriage.’
I understand my quiescence to my wife’s activity, because it had a calculated reason, To revive her sexual interest, and that when that was accomplished there would be an ‘end-point.’ Yet I find it hard to understand married couples that have moved on from that point and participated for several years in this ‘lifestyle’ with increasing involvement of the wife with her lover, (or lover’s) and especially when her husband’s sexual roll is depreciated and sometimes eliminated.
So I have some questions for those who are married and in this lifestyle for a longer period of time, say 1 year to ?
If you go into this for the purpose of “spicing-up” your marriage, and it works, what causes it to continue beyond that point?
Where is “Doc. From Cleveland”? Maybe he could answer these questions!
What causes a man to encourage his wife to have ‘extramarital sex’ with another man?
What happens within a man’s psyche, that he prefers his wife to have sex with another man, (or men) rather than him?
What has happened, and what has changed in their relationship, when a wife begins to enjoy ‘denying’ her husband of ‘marital-promised’ sexual intercourse, in preference to her ‘extramarital’ lover?
What causes a man, that is healthy and virile, to encourage his wife to take all control of his sexual expression to herself, and dole it out only when it pleases her?
What causes a wife to choose to receive her lover’s sperm rather than her husbands, and to make him “waste” his sperm by masturbating to his wife’s amusement, and to make her more desirous of her lover?
My wife became Intrigued by the promise of a friend to help her “renew” her interest in sex, she went to his home, with my permission, to learn what he had in mind. He gave her a ‘sensual massage’ and oral sex, but was interrupted by a phone call from his wife. My wife then left and never went back to him.
That experience caused a lot of ‘angst’ for me, but changed our sex life’s for the better, and is still working for us. My full description of what transpired is in my ‘thread’ “New Experience”
Much earlier, I was qualified for the literal definition of “cuckold” by my first wife, We called it adultery then.
Although, I experienced only a small portion of the cuckold lifestyle (where I was in support of what she would do,) I read in these pages of many who have years, and years of experience with this diversion of the traditional ‘western marriage.’
I understand my quiescence to my wife’s activity, because it had a calculated reason, To revive her sexual interest, and that when that was accomplished there would be an ‘end-point.’ Yet I find it hard to understand married couples that have moved on from that point and participated for several years in this ‘lifestyle’ with increasing involvement of the wife with her lover, (or lover’s) and especially when her husband’s sexual roll is depreciated and sometimes eliminated.
So I have some questions for those who are married and in this lifestyle for a longer period of time, say 1 year to ?
If you go into this for the purpose of “spicing-up” your marriage, and it works, what causes it to continue beyond that point?
Where is “Doc. From Cleveland”? Maybe he could answer these questions!
What causes a man to encourage his wife to have ‘extramarital sex’ with another man?
What happens within a man’s psyche, that he prefers his wife to have sex with another man, (or men) rather than him?
What has happened, and what has changed in their relationship, when a wife begins to enjoy ‘denying’ her husband of ‘marital-promised’ sexual intercourse, in preference to her ‘extramarital’ lover?
What causes a man, that is healthy and virile, to encourage his wife to take all control of his sexual expression to herself, and dole it out only when it pleases her?
What causes a wife to choose to receive her lover’s sperm rather than her husbands, and to make him “waste” his sperm by masturbating to his wife’s amusement, and to make her more desirous of her lover?