What do you think?

[SleeplessinSeattle]

So I have always enjoyed cuckold porn and such. And in theory I Am really turned on by it. But in practice it left me with an awkward feel. I'm pretty much a sap so I have lots of emotional investment with relationships. The girl I have been dating is pretty much a slut and sucked off one of my best friends. With my knowledge and consent. And she told me last night that she can not remain faithful. She told me it just physical with the other guys. So Im at the crossroads here.

So I don't know if I'm a cuck or should just have an open relationship. I would like to think scientifically, but I am emotional with relationships - mommy issues

I'm not trying to tie her down and am open to just ending it. But I rationalize that if I can get through this perhaps I could fix some mommy issues.
Does it sounds like I'm ready for this type of relationship or I should jump ship? I'm 27 btw - Thanks

 

[tomas]

Nothing to be scientific or emotional about. Its as simple as it should be: if you still have deep feelings for her and she does for you, and you don't mind her indulging in what she's after, then keep being with her. It all comes down to what you feel about her.

 

[vladdy]

Of course no one can answer these questions but you. However, I may point out that you will probably not have a chance like this in the future, so maybe give it a shot? If she isn't for sure going to stop cheating. Then it isn't as if you have the choice to not have her be a cheater. She is a cheater, now do you accept it? If so then like I said try it out, assuming she uses protection than you have nothing to lose really.

Decide what you want to know, I would think most guys would want to know what their girl is doing with these other guys. You guys should set up some sort of limits, although you should expect her to break some of them, so realize that and set them appropriatly before hand.

If you are not having sex with other females than you are a cuckold right now.

Keep us posted

 

[tyrone25]

just go with the flow. you'd be a mess if you broke up and she'll still be out acting the slut while you mope around. embrace it and try to find out more what she does.

 

[Saraha]

just go with the flow. you'd be a mess if you broke up and she'll still be out acting the slut while you mope around. embrace it and try to find out more what she does.

Neither of you is ready to get married YET, so carry on and get her to tell you about the guys she is having flings with, so you can study your own emotions and decide whether you could cope inside a marriage.

You should probably have some hugs and cuddles with other girls as well, to see where your heart is pulling you.

 

[hopefulcuck]

Like Saraha said, you should take it as an opportunity to explore your feelings and discover what you really like.

When you say it left you with an awkward feeling, I would think this might be quite natural in discovering this situation for the first time.

It also appears you are lucky enough to be in a position where you can figure out whether you like being 'a cuck or in an open relationship'.

I would suggest letting your girlfriend do what she likes, especially as it sounds like she will anyway, and consider your feelings as this occurs and go from there.

If you break it off now you may always wonder about cuckolding/open relationships and whether you like them or not. Keep going now and you will find out one way or the other.

Either way good luck with it all.

 

[Tanboat05]

Use your GF to experiment with how you feel. Dont let yourself get emotionally tied to her, just let her be your kinky fuck toy. She has probably been doing this more than you realize anyway so you have been mixing the flavors and wet spots already. Go with it and see if you enjoy it. From a pure sex perspective, it is fun to play like that.

You know, you can always do the same thing back to your GF. Fuck some other chick then come home and have her suck your cock. Dont tell her, but notice how she will get into it a little more than normal.

 

[QUAKE!]

So I have always enjoyed cuckold porn and such. And in theory I Am really turned on by it. But in practice it left me with an awkward feel. I'm pretty much a sap so I have lots of emotional investment with relationships. The girl I have been dating is pretty much a slut and sucked off one of my best friends. With my knowledge and consent. And she told me last night that she can not remain faithful. She told me it just physical with the other guys. So Im at the crossroads here.

So I don't know if I'm a cuck or should just have an open relationship. I would like to think scientifically, but I am emotional with relationships - mommy issues

I'm not trying to tie her down and am open to just ending it. But I rationalize that if I can get through this perhaps I could fix some mommy issues.
Does it sounds like I'm ready for this type of relationship or I should jump ship? I'm 27 btw - Thanks

What you have to figure out is if you gain more pleasure from her fuckin around on you than heartache or vise versa. If you know she out suckin some guys dick when you at home, and it turns you on, but at the same time makes you feel like shit, than you probably just a cuck in fantasy. not in real life. You like the idea of bein a cuck, but thats all you can handle.

If you put a lot of emotion in your relationships, you need a woman whos there for you when you ain't horny. Nothing wrong wit that! Now if she a skank and cant be faithful, then that makes the decision pretty clear. As soon as you figure out of you a true cuck or not. Hope dis helps.

 

[SoonToBe]

Quake has it right - you say you were left with this awkward feeling. That can be normal at first knowing your partner is enjoying other guys. But Quake's question is the key one - did you enjoy knowing it for real? And does that enjoyment outweigh the awkward feel now and the mixed feelings you are bound to have - it can take a while to accept what she's doing.

The thing that struck me about your first post was that you other than enjoying the porn, you didn't mention any enjoyment at what she's done. You need to figure that part out.