What Level of Cuckold are You?

[ron_fakdfw]

You may skip a level (you may be a level one and a level 5 but not 2-4) Level 0 – Cuckold Wannabe This is for the sub-hubby who wants to be a cuckold. The couple may role play being a cuckold but no outside people are involved in the relationship. At this point it may be beneficial to the sub-husband to use sex toys to introduce the concept of cuckolding to the WANNABE Hot-Wife.

Level 1 –Cuckold with out involvement This is for the husband who’s wife is playing around on him with or with out his knowledge or consent. But other then being aware (or not aware) the sub-husband is not involved in the cuckolding at all.

Level 2 – of The six levels of Cuckolding, as I see it. Mostly the levels are consecutive (a cuck who is at the 3rd level is also at the 2nd level) but in most cases level 2 is the level for a sub-husband whose wife is playing around on him. At this level the husband has knowledge but no involvement with the cuckolding.

Level 3 – Cuckold Involved at this level the sub-husband is involved with the cuckolding. He is eating cream pies and may or may not watch as his HotWife is taken. He may setup dates for his wife. He also may serve drinks and snacks to both his wife and the bull.

Level 4 – Cuckold Involved Bi We add in the fact that the husband is now servicing the bull (orally or anally). The Cuckold may substitute for the HotWife to service the Bull if she is not available…out of town for instance. The HotWife may or may not watch as the husband is taken, but definitely watches as hubby “fluffs” the bull.

Level 5 – Cuckold Pregnant The bull has knocked up the HotWife and the cuck is the one stuck being the dad (but not the father).

Level 6 – Bull moves in----this is where the bull moves into the bedroom with the HotWife & the cuckold moves out----maybe to the couch or guest room.


Real cuckold couples are rare

Real Bulls are rare

 

[greymaster]

Everyone has their own level of viewing cuckoldry - I was interested which is why I created this thread:

http://www.cuckolds.com/forums/general-cuckoldry/17411-what-kind-cuckold-you.html

Have a look ron_fakdfw and see how it matches your analysis

 

[Custer Laststand]

There's something missing here...

Ron,

Sorry if this seems like criticism... but given the 6 progressive levels of cuckold you've defined, and your concluding comment:

Real cuckold couples are rare; real bulls are rare.

you neglected to define what constitutes a "real" cuckold couple. Also, you neglected to define what constitutes a "real" bull.

—Custer

 

[desert]

This is interesting

 

[slaved]

you neglected to define what constitutes a "real" cuckold couple. Also, you neglected to define what constitutes a "real" bull.

I was thinking the same thing. Seems like there's a level or two missing there as well. Also there seems to be an implication that these "levels" are progressive...that one leads to the other. I don't think that's how it works. I guess it's just the word "level" that gives me pause.

 

[BlkCuck912]

I am a new Cuck but I am at Level 3. I am involved in getting dates for my wife and she lets me watch. I think at this point I am fine right there but I am sure if she wants me to move up I wouldn't have a problem. Hell, I don't have a choice.

 

[ou812rich]

A cuckold is a husband who's wife has screwed other men during their marriage, plain and simple. A lot of people on here like to confuse B/D, S/M, bi-sexuality and gayness with cuckoldry. Submissive wimps would be submissive wimps whether married or not. Bi-sexuals would be bi-sexual whether married or not. I have never had a desire to suck a dick or be dominated by my wife but she has fucked other men during our relationship so I qualify as a cuckold. Under my definition there are many more cuckolds out there than even know they've been cuckolded. I admit that once I got over my shock at learning she'd fucked others I found the thought of being able to fuck her used cunt exciting. I'd love to play with her pussy when it was full of another mans sperm and then slide my cock into her while she wet and open. Hopefully it'll happen some day.

 

[ron_fakdfw]

pretty close

 

[ron_fakdfw]

good points

 

[ron_fakdfw]

Cuckold Definition Part II
Watching Or Waiting?

There is a lot of discussion about which is more erotic: watching your wife in bed with another man, or waiting at home (or anywhere) while she goes off with him. Generally, the cuckold has little say in this; his wife will probably be more comfortable with one than the other, and that is what she will choose. Seeing sex happen in front of you, and realizing - over and over again - that the woman you see in the throes of passion is your wife, is breathtaking. Even when you engage in sex, you don't get to witness it; seeing a man's penis slide in and out of a vagina is stimulating enough, but when it is your own wife's vagina, it is overwhelming. And watching (and hearing) orgasms... the same thing, in spades!

On the other hand, if the mind is the most powerful sex organ, there is much to be said for the cuckold who sits at home and masturbates, wondering what his wife and her lover are doing now (and now, and NOW, and...). If you thought teenage boys jerk off a lot, I assure you that they are amateurs compared to cucky in the sixth hour of waiting!


Cream Pie

I would say that this has been talked about too much, if it weren't for how much it turns me (and most every other cuckold) on! Whether it is submission or humiliation, licking another man's semen from your wife's pussy is #1 on the hit parade. Why is that? I believe it is a combination of every male taboo rolled into one:

- Men aren't supposed to eat cum (well, straight men aren't...)

- Men are supposed to guard their wives' chastity/purity with their lives.

- Ejaculating in a woman is a strong symbol of possession, and seeing another man's semen in your wife's most private, intimate place is a clear sign that you are not the sole (or even primary) person in her life... or at least in her body.

- If there is any single thing that "proves" that your wife was unfaithful, it is the sight of semen dripping from her vagina, when you know you didn't put it there. Pornographers may be able to substitute liquid soap in pictures, but when you're face to face with the real thing, you know it.

- The only way for that semen to get in your wife was for her to bring him to orgasm. A creampie says, "Not only did she cuckold you, but she did it very well."

- Semen does not taste good; if you're lucky, it does not taste terrible. Licking it up - especially if it is a large amount - is very, very difficult, and emphasizes the humiliating nature of what your wife is doing to you.

- If you have to do it in front of the lover, while your wife is holding and kissing him, you will have your "place" made perfectly clear to all involved - especially if the two of them laugh at your difficulty swallowing all of it!

For all these reasons, most cuckolds find creampies to be among their most powerful fantasies and most erotic experiences.


A Note About "Slut Wives"

There are those men who want their wives to be "sluts"; to sleep around to be indiscriminate, etc. I've seen very few cuckolds who express this wish, and I believe it has to do with our absolute respect for our wives. We don't mind being humiliated, but don't mess with our wife - that will turn us off faster than anything at all. So, again, correct me if I am wrong, but I think that very few cuckolds will ever refer to their wife as a slut (and if they do, it'll probably be a cold day in hell before they "get any" again!)

Pitfalls

So, with all this good stuff, what's to worry? Plenty! First of all, the couple had better have a wonderful, positive, open relationship. You are going to be playing for real here, and both of you have to be able to say what you are feeling, and to "bail out" at any point that it becomes unworkable or dangerous. In the words of one cuckold, "You and your wife must love each other very much. That love, trust, understanding and willingness to be open and honest must be there, or neither of you, nor your marriage in whatever shape it may take, will survive."

Sex is powerful; there's a reason advertisers use it! You cannot expect your wife to have sex with someone and not develop feelings for him (unless it is a terrible experience; see below). In fact, cuckolding is even more dangerous in this regard than "hot wife-ing" (is there such a phrase?), because the ultimate fantasy of the cuckold is that she will like her lover more than him! So, take it step by step. I have corresponded with many couples for whom it was a powerful fantasy, but as they took the first baby-steps toward making it real, they realized that they didn't like where it was going. I applaud them - we've got enough divorces.

"What are our limits?" is a question which should be asked and asked again. If you both love each other, and you are doing this to find a new kind of experience, then you should both be overwhelmed with concern for how the other is handling it, and whether the latest step is over the line. Women, there is a nearly-foolproof way to tell: it's called the Peter Meter! If you talk about actually meeting a man for the first time, or about going away with him on a cruise for a week, your husband's cock will tell you whether this is A Very Good Idea, or moving too fast!

Remember, especially, that once the wife has a lover, he does not "go away" like turning off a VCR. He is real, and his presence in your lives is real, too. As one cuckold said, "The humiliation is very real. It doesn't stop after you've jacked off three times. Her lover is still in the picture." So, folks, this is one you can't "take back"; you can stop, but you can't undo what you have done, or what you have said. If hubby doesn't want to live with the knowledge that his wife's lover is better, or that she longs to be with him, or that those three extra inches really do matter to her, then don't start.

Men, I can only give you the one suggestion which I've told Sally from day one: she has absolute veto power over anything, at any time. She can get up and walk out of a restaurant, or a hotel room, or a conversation; she can say she's done seeing someone; she can say something makes her uncomfortable; and in every case, I'll agree instantaneously. Once she understood that I really meant that (she was afraid she'd "disappoint me," but I explained that it's not my fantasy if she's not enjoying), it gave her the freedom to test her own limits.

Finally, let's be real: the Internet is wonderful, but all the dangers which apply to kids online apply to grownups, too. People are not always what they appear to be, and some are downright strange. Talk lots - lots - before agreeing to meet someone! Start with email, progress to ICQ or IM, and then talk on the phone. If you're worried about the other person having caller ID, buy a phone card and call from a pay phone! We strongly suggest a first-meeting dinner (remember, cuckolds always pick up the check!), with the absolute understanding that nothing other than dinner is going to happen that evening. This gives everyone a chance to meet and talk face-to-face, and gives wifey the chance to consider whether she wants to share her bed with this man. Making it a no-touch evening gives her the opportunity to say yes or no on her own, without him (or hubby) breathing down her neck.

And as they used to say on Hill Street Blues, "be careful out there." Cuckolds and cuckolders are usually regular people, with lives, jobs and children. You don't want your exploits on the front page of the local paper, do you? We strongly suggest using pseudonyms and false-everything until you get to know the other person very well. Hotmail, Yahoo, etc., offer anonymous email, and though we'd never want to be accused of suggesting anything dishonest, there isn't anything that actually requires you to tell the truth in signing up for your Hotmail or Yahoo account! We won't tell, if you won't.


Best Quotes From Cuckolds

"Being a cuckold doesn't sound like something most men would be proud of."

"It is sometimes difficult for [my husband] when he has had to be sociable with a man he knows that I am sleeping with."

"There is nothing like the sounds my wife makes when she is in bed with her lover."


In Conclusion

So, kids, that's the story! If you're interested in learning more, or if you want to correspond with a genuine cuckold (either for more information, or just for laughs), feel free to contact any of the people listed below. All have given permission to include their email addresses here

 

[ron_fakdfw]

What Is A Cuckold? PART I - A

The word "cuckold" probably comes from the practice of the cuckoo bird. The female cuckoo mates with an alpha-male, who then moves on to encounters with other females. The female then returns to her mate, and the two of them raise the babies which resulted from mom's "night on the town." Traditionally, a (human) cuckold was the object of scorn and derision; when it was discovered that a man's wife had found fulfillment in another man's bed, she was an adulteress and he was her cuckold. It was often said that he "left with his tail between another man's legs."

The dictionary defines a cuckold as "a man with an unfaithful wife."

In the context of alternative lifestyles, the cuckold occupies a position somewhere between the traditional definition and that of "swingers." The difference with the first definition is that today's cuckold is both aware of his wife's "infidelity" and is sexually excited by it; the difference with the second definition is that "swingers" are mutually involved, or at least approach the sex bed as equals, which is not the case with a cuckold.

In plain English, a cuckold is a man who stands by and accepts his wife's infidelity, being sexually excited by her actions. He may have normal sexual relations with his wife part of the time, or he may accept that his wife has chosen another man to replace him completely in her sexual bed.


Why Would Someone Choose To Be Cuckolded?

Having read (and written) extensively on this, I have found the following themes. Any combination may exist to explain a specific couple's relationship.

Submission

Being cuckolded is often a display of total submissiveness, with the added element being that at least one other person (the lover) knows of the cuckold's role. Cuckolds may take pleasure in serving their wife and, in some cases, her lover as well. If a person wishes to experience submission, bringing breakfast in bed to his wife and her lover would surely fit the bill; and if he wants to feel dominated by his wife, having her tell him to leave them alone so they could make love undisturbed would be almost unbearably exciting! In addition, the knowledge that she can do whatever she wants with regard to sex, while he is restricted to only what she approves for him, is probably the ultimate in submission: he turns over his genitals to her, while she offers no such commitment in return.

Humiliation

Many swingers and alternative-lifestyle adherents draw the line at humiliation, and reject it with disgust. Yet these same people will accept s&m as understandable! Humiliation is, in my opinion, simply mental s&m. Why would someone choose to be "disciplined," and find it to be sexually exciting? If you can understand that, you can understand the lure of humiliation as a sexual stimulus. And if a man seeks to be humiliated, what could be more humiliating than seeing, or hearing, or learning of his wife choosing another man to bed? If the experience includes the wife acknowledging that her lover is better endowed, or a better lover than her husband, the humiliation is complete.

Jealousy

Yes, jealousy is a turn-on for cuckolds. In fact, it is probably one of the greatest ones, though few cuckolds have written about it. After all, look what he has lost: his wife's faithfulness, his wife's body (temporarily, if not permananently), his equality as a sexual partner, his dignity... and all these have been given to another man! Personally, when I began to feel jealous, I began to feel truly cuckolded - and very excited!

Voyeurism

Though I think this is secondary to the two reasons above, it is true that there are not many opportunities in life to watch two people having sex. This is why home videos are so popular! But nothing can equal the real thing, life and in front of you... and so, inviting another man into your wife's bed will undoubtedly give you a front-row seat for the festivities.

Fear

One cuckold explained his excitement as "caused by the duality of being both afraid and excited. Fear is a powerful aphrodisiac... maybe my body requires a certain amount of adrenaline, which can only be generated by fear."

What is there to fear? A cuckold can fear (while being turned on by) the thought of being humiliated in front of his wife and her lover; he can fear being told he cannot cum for a specified (and lengthy) period of time. He can fear hearing sounds of pleasure from his wife that he never heard when she was in bed with him. Or, he can just fear the unknown...

The Unknown

Many cuckolds acknowledge that they have no idea why this turns them on, but for most of us, it is a sexual fantasy of the most overpowering variety. As I told my wife, I would rather watch her in bed with her lover than have sex with any woman on the face of the earth! So, like most sexual fantasy, we may be able to explain elements of the attraction, but we cannot explain it completely. Many cuckolds relate that they had no idea this turned them on, until their wife discussed a good looking man, or related the story of a man making a pass at her. Suddenly, the husband gets a distinct message from "another authority," and wonders what the hell is going on. THAT is a cuckold in the making!


Why Would A Wife Choose To Cuckold Her Husband?

While there are women who simply cheat on their husbands, this is not part of our discussion, as it is not a mutual decision. If you find out that your wife is cheating on you, don't read this get to a marriage counselor, or a lawyer! Many cuckolds describe years and years of asking their wife to have sex with another man. Usually, the wife opposes this, for several reasons. First, it goes against everything that was promised in the marriage vows, and she cannot believe that it will do anything but ruin her marriage. Second, it is often threatening to the wife, as she assumes it is a pretext for the husband to have sex with other women (if you both want to do that, have fun; you're back in the "swinger" category, and this site is not about you). Third, many wives especially once they are out of their 20's and no longer look like Barbie worry that no other man will find them attractive, and they do not want to set themselves up for a disappointment. Finally, they worry (with good reason) about all the mean, nasty stuff out there: bad people, bad vibes, bad diseases.

So, why do wives say yes? While some do it simply because their husbands are not satisfactory lovers, I believe that most begin (note that I said begin; the reasons change later) to satisfy their husband's burning desire to try this. Also, if they had few sexual experiences before marriage, they may be curious as to what else is out there, and if their sexual experiences have been somewhat tame, they wonder what all the talk is about!

 

[ron_fakdfw]

What Is A Cuckold? PART I - B

Once the wife begins to see other men, it is another step and often, not an easy one to cuckold her husband. After all, she loves the guy! (If she does not love him, it's time to head for the marriage counselor or the lawyer again...) It is hard to believe that her husband really wants her to like her lover more, or at least to like sex with her lover more; it is even harder to believe that he really wants to hear that from his wife. Usually, this part begins very slowly, as the wife hesitatingly relates the pleasurable details of her tryst to her husband. She notices his outstanding (!) reaction to what she says, and notices that the more explicit she is, and the more she talks about her pleasure, the more hubby goes crazy. If her husband watches her in bed with her lover, she will be very hesitant to display her pleasure, until he makes it clear that he is very turned on by it!

So, why go through all this? In my wife's words, "I can have my cake and eat it, too." What could be bad for a woman who realizes that her husband will do everything he can to make sure she has great sex with her lover, and will welcome her home (often to a completely cleaned house ) when she is done!

And, back to the wife's initial worry that no other man could possibly find her attractive: imagine her surprise and delight when the nice looking, intelligent guy she meets is very turned on! Seeing him hard, feeling him get excited as she undresses, as she touches him, as he touches her... brings her right back to high school, but with an adult's understanding of what sex is all about. Does absolute wonders for a woman's ego!


What Is The Difference Between A Cuckold And A Man With A "Hot Wife"?

Though you could certainly describe the cuckolder as a "hot wife," the difference, IMHO, lies in the original dictionary definition, "a man with an unfaithful wife." A woman crosses over the line into "unfaithful" not when she has sex with another man with her husband's consent, but when she prefers sex with her lover to sex with her husband and tells him so.

Major Cuckold Themes

"He's bigger than you"

In spite of all the ads in men's magazines, we haven't found a way to change what God gives us. Few women marry a man because of the size of his penis, but much has been written about how good it feels to many women to be "filled completely." So, wifey goes searching (or the well-behaved cuckold searches for her) for a man who can measure up. Some women find a large penis to be painful or uncomfortable, but if she finds the experience to be fulfilling , hubby must recognize that there is no way on earth that he can offer her what her lover does. In our society, in which "bigger is better," it is truly humiliating for a man to see less between his own legs than he sees on the man between his wife's legs! Not to mention the conversations with her lover, who tells him how good his wife feels "deep inside," and then laughs at the fact that hubby can never, ever know what that feels like. In other words, this man feels parts of your wife's body that you can never touch so go sit in the corner, and listen to her make me cum with those places you can't touch!

"He's better than you"

Why wifey would want this is obvious what a surprise, after 5, 10 or 20 years of marriage, to learn that sex is more fun than you knew! And for cucky, the embarrassment is even greater than if her lover is bigger: at least if he is bigger, you can claim that there is nothing you can do about it. But if he is better especially if he is about the same size as cucky, then the plain truth is, "You are not such a good lover." (Actually, that's the diplomatic truth; the plain truth is that you're a lousy lover!)

Sally's lover the man who made her decide to cuckold me permanently is almost exactly my size. But when I asked her to give us each a grade, he got an A plus ; after making sure that I really wanted to hear the truth about myself, she said I am a C plus . Now, when she and I make love, she will often sigh and tell me she wishes Ty was inside her instead. I would be very hurt by this, if I wasn't busy cumming!

"Don't Touch Me"

Here is a major difference between a Hot Wife and a cuckolding wife: Often, I read of husbands fucking their wives before they head out on a "date." Cuckolds hardly ever get to touch their wives before a "date," unless it is to clean her, dress her or apply her makeup! And, of course, this makes sense: if her husband really isn't much of a lover, then why would she want to ruin the mood, or take the edge off her anticipation? In my case, about four days before a "date," Sally stops allowing me to touch her or even to see her undressed; in her words, "I'm saving it for him."

In more extreme cases, where the wife has replaced her husband with another man (or men) on a permanent basis, her body may simply be off limits to him at all times. In these cases, the occasional glimpse of a breast or pubic hair can trigger spontaneous orgasm!

"Clean Up the House While I'm Gone"

If the husband acknowledges his sexual inferiority, he may feel compelled to try to make it up to his wife in any way possible. Therefore, he may be among the most obedient husbands on the planet! Remember, hubby gets off on his own sexual failings; therefore, cleaning the house, etc., only serves to remind him that he's doing this because he's not very good in bed. This may be one of the few times you see a man vacuuming with an erection .

Again, in my case, Sally only has to preface any request with, "Hey, C plus ...," and I jump to comply!

"I Want to Have His Baby"

I tend to believe that the vast majority of cuckold stories in which the lover impregnates the wife are fictional, though I could ut. be wrong. After all, the couple will have to live with that decision for the rest of their lives. But certainly, if you want to feel that you have "lost" your wife to another man, having him impregnate her would probably do that in spades! I do not judge here, so I mention that a number of cuckolds are very turned on by finding their wife's birth control sitting on the dresser when she goes out.

 

[ron_fakdfw]

Explaining Cuckolding
(A Wife's Perspective): I got this from a similar thread. No author was postred.


Last weekend was a really fun Saturday afternoon. My husband came home
from grocery shopping to find me in our bed with my latest lover, Earl,
pounding his thick seven inch cock bareback into my wanton pussy.

This peeved my husband to no end as after having had a son that we were
both pretty sure he was not the father of, I had promised the next baby
I had would be his. To that end, I had stopped fucking other men for a
six month period and was letting him fuck me once and sometimes even
twice a week. The result was an increasingly tedious sex life for both
of us.

The lack of competition from other males and greatly increased access to
my pussy had allowed my husband slip back into his selfish and lazy
ways. Going to the grocery store, something he would have gladly done
just for the chance to lick my well fucked pussy, was now instead
greeted by whining about how he always had to do all the chores around
the house.

Clearly I needed to reassert my dominance over Cucky. Hence Earl
banging me doggy style on our matrimonial bed. Clearly my husband was
surprised at seeing me suddenly reverting to my slut wife ways. "Holy
fuck Cassie," said Cucky, "what the hell are you doing?!"

I threw Cucky my most aggravated look as Earl continued to pound my
pussy. God he felt so huge after months with my wimp dicked husband!
"I'm getting fucked by a real man," I replied, "and, if you loved me
you'd be happy for me, instead of being so fucking rude to our guest!"

This made Cucky speechless. Earl being a hulking 6'4" guy who kind of
reminded me of a tougher and slightly darker version of Vin Diesal
ignored the conversation and just kept fucking me. Being a petite 5'1"
Asian woman I loved the feeling of his huge muscular and tattooed body
using me as his personal fuck toy.

I could tell that Earl was building, but my heart still fluttered when
he asked, "do you want me to cum in you?" "Yessss!" I hissed wanting
him to shoot his load into my unprotected pussy. A minute later I felt
his hot spunk splash deep inside my convulsing pussy. My resulting
orgasm was so intense I saw stars!

I then felt suddenly empty as Earl pulled out of me. I laid there
feeling his cum trickling out of my swollen pussy. Then with my eyes
still closed I heard Earl pad away as he headed for our ensuite shower.


"Cassie, you are such a fucking slut," I heard my Cucky husband say.
The tone of anger in his voice surprised me so I opened my eyes and
then laughed as I saw the front of his pants tenting out from the stark
erection he had while at the same time he had hot tears of anger and
shame streaming down his face.

"Stop whining you bitch," I replied, "get over here and clean up this
mess." Cucky then moaned and, as if in a trance, he walked towards the
bed. Seconds later his face was buried in my messy freshly fucked
pussy. In between the licks I could hear him sobbing.

"Don't worry baby," I said as I stroked his thinning hair, "if you do a
good enough job I will let you fuck me as well tonight." He looked up
at me and I could see tears of shame and anger still running down his
face, "okay" he replied patheticly.

"Yes!" I thought excitedly, "I have my cucky husband back!" I then
flashed him a cruel smile. "You're not good enough to be the sperm
donor four our children, just accept it." He sobbed a little more and
then I moaned as he tried even harder to suck all of Earl's cum out of
my pussy.

From my other stories I have got a lot of guys who wish their wife would
cuckold them and a few jerks who hate these kind of stories yet still
feel compelled to read, criticise them and I suspect jerk off to them.
But for those who are open minded enough to want to know what the
appeal is of cuckolding for both the husband and the wife, let me try
to explain.

A cuckold as everyone should now know is a married man whose wife cheats
on him usually with his knowledge but only sometimes with his consent,
and in my case whenever I damn well feel like it!

Cuckolding can grow out of a dominant and submissive relationship where
the wife is dominant and the husband submissive. This can include the
wife denying all sex to her husband. I know a lot of wives who do
this, its not that they're fucking other men but they are so sick of
their husband's bullshit and selfishness that the thought of giving it
up to them anymore just make them want to hurl.

I was at one point pretty close to that point with my husband but what
good does that do me? If I am denying him sex and being monogomous
then I am ****** to be celibate as well. Let's face it ladies if
fucking a vibrator or rubber cock met all our needs we wouldn't have
bothered getting married in the first place.

I need a real man to possess me, to fuck me. My husband is to much of a
geek to fullfiill that role. Besides, I know that in some sick twisted
way my pathetic Cucky is deriving some sort of sexual arousal through
being humiliated. I derive sexual arousal from knowing my pussy is as
free as can be to be pleasured by whomever I want whenever I want,
while his little dick is most of the time is locked up in a cock cage
begging for release while one or more guys is pounding my pussy and
making me cum hard.

I also love the feeling of having a guy cum in my pussy and then my
husband being made to clean it up with his tongue. I never fail to
gush hard when he does this. To me it is the ultimate act of love and
subserviance and it is often the only reason I keep Cucky around.

Even before we were trying for a kid, every once in a while I let my
husband fuck me. I always make sure it is as memorable an experience as
possible for him. I talk about how much better all my other lovers are
and how he better remember how good it feels to be inside of me because
who knows when I might ever let him experience my pussy again.

My cucky hubby never fails to have a huge orgasm which I of course then
make him clean up with his tongue. I then make a point of having a
shower and douching so perhaps that is why he has had such trouble
impregnating me, LOL

The fact is ladies when a guy knows you have been slutting around it
affects his brain. Anyone who has seen the documentary sperm wars
knows the guy will cum way harder and shoot way more sperm into you if
he knows you have been an unfaithful little *****.

The plus for me is whether it is with my Cucky or a bull, the fact I am
being a slut means any guy fucking me will thrust harder, deeper and
longer to try and remove the sperm of the guy from my pussy.

That's why a cock has that ridge on it not just for stimulation but to
help scoop another guys cum out of my slutty pussy when a guy is
pulling out of me before slamming it back in. See evolution knows that
women are meant to be sluts. It is society that keeps most of us from
actually being one.

Although my husband hates this, I love the high I get from entering into
a new relationship with another lover. I get all the excitement,
euphoria and romance of when I was first dating my husband. He gets
the torment of watching me falling in lust with my lovers and on
occassion even in love.

Bottom line I think my husband knows I settled when I married him. I
could have had a way hotter guy with a much bigger dick. But he was
making good money and at the time I was kind of into nerds. I grew out
of that phase but by then I was now newly married. So rather than lose
me, my husband loves me enough to want to see me happy, and to have
kids with superior genes (even if none of them will likely ever be
his).

Being a manager in an engineering firm means he has people that must
kiss his ass at work. But when he gets home he knows he has to kiss
(and lick) my ass. If he ever truly wanted to have me be faithful to
him, he knows our marriage would likely eventually end as so many
others do in divorce. This way I get to have my cake and eat it too
and he gets to have me as his sexy hotwife for the rest of his life.

 

[ron_fakdfw]

What Type of Cuckold are You?

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I would like to start this discussion on the different types of cuckolds and their relationships. First a little background on me and my interest in this subject. My wife and I have been practicing the cuckold lifestyle for over 3 years now. Before that my wife was a Hot Wife and dabbled in swinging and some Domination and submission.

I have been active in many cuckold forums, cuckold groups and run my own cuckold group. I actively chat with other cuckolds, Hot Wives and wannabe cuckolds. My lovely Hot Wife and I have met 4 other real life cuck couples. One aspect that I have observed is the confusion between a Hot Wife relationship and a cuckolding one. It is my opinion that the main difference between the two is in a cuckolding relationship the wife controls the relationship sexually. She makes the decisions about the lovers that she will meet and play with. The cuckold may or may not get to participate in the wife's illicit affairs. In a Hot wife relationship the husband often makes the decision or it is made jointly. The husband always participates is some aspect of the affair. In both types of relationships the wife is referred to as a Hot Wife. Lately, Hot Wives in the Cuckold lifestyle are being referred to a Cuckoldress.

Below are some general thoughts and comments from my experience and what I have observed. They are in no way put forward as fact, they are just put forward for purposes of discussion. I would love to hear from other Hot Wives and cuckolds as to their opinions.


In general there tends to be 3 types of cuckolds in my humble opinion:

Cuckold Type 1 - The traditional cuckold
The cuckold may have come to the lifestyle by finding out his wife is cheating

There is a certain aspect of deviance by the cheating wife

The cuckold can seem almost tortured by the cheating wife's behavior

The cuckolds say they enjoy it but if you really read what they're saying in their posts or comments it's almost as though they do not have choice and they lack of choice excites them

At some level the cuckold does enjoy the emotional torture, much like a masochist

They enjoy the humiliation aspects of cuckolding (wimp factor, knows his place, small penis)

The slut wife sometimes includes him and sometimes she ignores him

The cuckolds tend to be more submissive in all aspects of the relationship and the hotwives tend to be more dominant in all aspects

The cheating wife may practice sexual denial with the cuckold

Cuckold Type 2 - The non-traditional cuckold
Came to the lifestyle after talking the wife into it

They love their hotwives having sex with other men

Their hot wives enjoy teasing the cuckold and letting him be a part of it somehow (the cuckold is not necessarily always physically present with her and her lover, but she makes sure that he is a part of it by calling or telling him all the details when she arrives home)

The cuckold and the slut wife are open about all aspects of the wives sexual activity, no deviance

The cuckold enjoys the hotwife's sluttieness and her sexual power over him

The cuckold tends to have more desire and passion for his wife after she has been with another man

These cuckolds tend to be only sexually submissive

In all other aspects of the relationship the cuckold and wife are equal partners

Cuckold Type 3 - The Fem or Wimp Cuckold
The cuckold enjoys feminization brought on by the hotwife

The cuckold enjoys the ****** feminization by the hot wife, made to wear panties, make up, bras, etc.

The cuckold enjoys the humiliation of not being man enough to handle his wife

The slut wife tends to be dominate in all aspects of the relationship

The hot wife may or may not include the cuckold in her sexual activities

The cuckold has definite bi-sexual tendencies

The hot wife may use a strap on dildo on her fem cuck

The hot wife may include the lover in using the cuck for her pleasure (oral and anal)


The following tendencies seem to be present in all types of cuckolds
Cuckolds tend to be highly educated and rely on their minds a lot

The difference between a strict hot wife relationship and a cuckold relationship is in the cuckold relationship the hotwife is always in sexual control, she is the one who makes the decisions about other men and often controls the sexual behavior of the cuckold. In a strictly Hot Wife relationship the husband will be in control of who the Hot Wife meets and fucks.

Cuckolds tend to enjoy masturbation and fantasy

Cuckolds are not necessarily very physical in their loving making skills and tend to be more mental and emotional

Cuckolds are not easily turned on by just the physical aspects of sex itself, they tend to need more mental, visual and aural stimulation then the average male

Cuckolds may have less testosterone than say a Bull who can get excited by physical aspects of sex

The act of being cuckolded is appealing because of its mental and emotional aspects and it is often long and drawn out over a period of time with the wife dating and such

The cuckold loves feeling cucky angst for hours upon hours until the slut wife comes home and allows relief

The cuckold my be fixated on the idea of his penis is not enough to pleasure his wife and take pleasure from her getting a larger cock for her lover

It is very difficult to define a cuckold relationship, we are all different and ultimately if you call yourself a cuckold and your hotwife has sexual activity with other men and she controls it, then I guess you are one

 

[ron_fakdfw]

The Role of the Bull in the Cuckold Relationship

What Is A Bull?
Cuckolding is becoming quite popular and more acceptable than ever in our society. A cuckolding couple consists of the cuckold husband who is referred to as the cuckold, or the beta male. He may have a tiny dick and almost never is able to sexually satisfy his wife. The wife in a cuckolding relationship is often referred to as a hotwife and gets to pick and choose who she has sex with. The person that she picks to have sex with is often much more well hung than her cuckold husband and is able to satisfy her sexually, unlike her husband. This person is referred to as the bull, stud or the alpha male. In this article, I would like to elaborate on what a cuckold bull is, who he is and how you can become one.

What Is A Cuckold Bull?
The bull is the lucky man that the hotwife chooses to be unfaithful to her husband with. The wife and cuckold bull may date regularly by going out to dinner, clubs, movies, etc. Or the wife and the bull may just meet once at a cuckold party and go into a room and...you know the rest! He is almost always extremely well hung and knows how to satisfy the hotwife so that she can have endless orgasms. He is usually much better looking that the cuckold husband and in very good shape (who wouldn't be with all that sex he is getting?). He may come around the have sex with the wife quite often, even daily, or he may only have sex with the hotwife once at a party.

Who Is A Stud in a Cuckold Relationship? The Younger Man
Many older cuckold couples may be looking for a younger stud that can outlast the beta male husband. Young studs may really enjoy having sex with an older, more experienced woman while her cuckold husband is at home waiting for her; or in bed with them watching all of the hot, steamy action. They are much better than the older cuckold husband because they can last forever, in order to bring the hotwife to multiple orgasms and satisfy her in ways the inferior cuckold cannot.

Cuckold Stud: Black Male
Many white cuckold couples really enjoy a young, hung black stud to satisfy the hotwive's needs. The black male stud is usually very well hung; much more than the cuckold husband. There are many cuckold parties with all successful, young, black studs for older, white cuckold couples. For the most part, black men love fucking white women and will do this with great pleasure when given the opportunity.

Cuckold Stud: The Pool boy
Ever here stories of the rich housewife having an affair with the pool boy, gardener, etc? Well, it is true! Many cuckold studs are the young, sexy men who would otherwise be considered "inferior" to the successful cuckolded husband. This stud may have hot trysts with the wife during work, or later in the evening when the cuckold is able to watch and possibly participate by getting the wife ready, fluffing the bull, or being the clean up boy later.

Cuckhold Stud: The Ex-Factor
Many cuckold husbands really enjoy watching their hotwive's enjoy previous husbands or lovers who can satisfy the hotwives needs adequately. It may turn him on to see that his wife is enjoying a man who had her before the cuckold did, and who still has her even though the cuckold is married to her. The cuckold husband is only being used to pay her bills and take care of her financially, while the ex-husband is the one that gets to have sex with her all he wants.

Why Be A Stud for a Cuckolding Couple?
Why not be a stud? The stud gets to fuck a hotwife without having to wine and dine, date her, or worry about any sort of long term relationship and feelings with her. The cuckold husband oftentimes pays for the bull and hotwife to go out to dinner and other events, so the stud never has to foot the bill for anything. He is most often single and just does not want a long term relationship or any of the problems that come with trying to fuck women casually. With a hotwife, the stud can fuck her whenever they are both available without anyone ever having to worry about mixed feelings or relationship drama. It is a win-win situation.

Is The Cuckolded Husband Ever Involved?
Whether or not the cuckolded husband is involved depends on the individuals in the cuckold relationship; and most importantly, to you! Sometimes the husband must suck on the bulls dick in order to get it ready to have sex with the hotwife. This is referred to as "fluffing". It does not necessarily mean either of the parties is gay or bi-sexual, but may be something that is necessary in the dynamics of the relationship. By forcing the cuckold husband to do this, the alpha male is establishing complete dominance over the beta male. After the bull is done having sex with the wife, the cuckold may also have to "clean up" both the wive's pussy and the studs cock as a sign of respect. Generally, however, the stud does not fuck the beta male, but it all just depends on the couple's and the stud's desires.

 

[Cucktail]

ron_fakdfw, some interesting reading. Where did you find it? You spent a lot of time posting all this info, I'm sure, and we appreciate it. You might consider just providing the links to these in the future to save you time. But, definitely interesting reading, particularly for those trying to get a handle on cuckolding.

Possibly I just missed it, since there was a lot of reading here, but most of what I read seemed to make the assumption that the cuckold was strangely enjoying the unfaithfulness of his wife. That may be the case when the husband & wife are into cuckold, fantasy play, but it isn't the case when it is true cuckolding. True cuckolding is very stressful to the cuck, in that usually his only alternative to tolerating his unfaithful mate, is to leave the relationship altogether. I can use myself as an example of TRUE cuckolding, since I've experienced it a few times. Certainly the strangest part of cuckolding are the mixed emotions (rush) felt when the cucked male finds out his female is cheating on him. One particular time, I actually masturbated on her front door while she was with one of her lovers. But, it was a mentally painful event to me, resulting in my being medicated for a while.

We discuss cuckold play much more often in these forums, because its fastly becoming a new adventure of sex play for couples to spice up otherwise boring sexual relationships. And as women are becoming more liberalized, they're finding this a fun adventure as well. Afterall, how could they NOT find getting to have sex with all the men they wish while their primary mates are restricted to the confines of monogomy.

I often discourage guys from encouraging their wives/GFs to have sexual relationships with other men in private (dating & having sex away from home) ... at least initially. Many women (particularly the older women) still tend to desire an emotional bond and sex together, and it can have a devastating impact on the marriage/orginal relationship.

Thanks for sharing ... Mac

We will have to agree to disagree on cuckolding being stressful on the cuck ... IMO, that would only be the case when there is a lack of communication between all parties involved.

I totally disagee with you on "its fastly becoming a new adventure of sex play for couples to spice up otherwise boring sexual relationships." In my experience it is just having fun, knowing that there is such a strong bond and trust between my husband and I, that we can have these types of relationships outside the marriage. There is a huge difference between sex and love ... and that's where communication and honesty comes in. My sex life with my husband is anything but boring ... I guess this is where you tell me a true cuckold gets denied sex.

 

[indicuck]

can anyone tell me, whats the point when the hubby is having good size cock, can perform well, still want to be cucked and has done it happily.. whats the turnon he gets in it

 

[al01]

can anyone tell me, whats the point when the hubby is having good size cock, can perform well, still want to be cucked and has done it happily.. whats the turnon he gets in it

I would put myself as a level one on the scale at the start of this thread, I have no problems with size or prowess and almost always give my wife an orgasm when we have sex. I know that she has cheated on me with at least two guys, almost certainly with two more and maybe with another two on top of that. She may be having, or may have had, a lasting affair with two of these men, I'm not totally sure.

As to why this turns me on I guess it's just a fetish of mine. Knowing that another guy desires what I have just does it for me, and I'm willing to share it because I feel secure enough in our relationship to do so. I just love the idea of her being with another guy, maybe learning some new tricks but it always comes back to me and her in the end.

 

[ron_fakdfw]

Thanks - MacNfries

MacNfries
"ron_fakdfw, some interesting reading. Where did you find it? You spent a lot of time posting all this info, I'm sure, and we appreciate it. You might consider just providing the links to these in the future to save you time. But, definitely interesting reading, particularly for those trying to get a handle on cuckolding. "



Thanks for reading & I do like the comments. I have copied & saved variuos cuckold info over the years & decided to post for everyone's benefit. Several I cannot remember the exact source. I have been a bull in cuckold relationships since before college and currently I am looking for another LTR with a cuckold couple. I enjoy the whole cuckold lifestyle and will continue to post my musings on here. Thanks again for the comments. Ron

 

[greymaster]

A great answer there for Indicuck from Mac. I've already commented in Indi's own thread.

My wife & I are, to some degree, into the swing scene ... but I can say the sex that she and I have, for weeks after a swing with another couple or person, is much more exciting and stimulating. But, she and I don't swing alone ... its almost always together. Our favorite is MMF, and I prefer going second. Mac

I suspected the above was the case, and I'd love to fill her up for you to second after me