When did you know it turned you on the be a cuck?

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When did you know you was a cuck? I myself have only dated cucks I can pick them out in a heart beat.I have talked to many and one thing that always is intriguing is the moment you figured out that your woman getting the big cock she deserves is a turn on for you and made your little dicklet stand up.I would like to know what moment that was for you.

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Interesting, I'm hung like a mule, but I thoroughly enjoy watching my wife take a new cock into herself and gettting strange load of cum deposited. She enjoys the variety, I enjoy the show, and the clean up is just desert.

Of course this may not qualify me a cuck in the strictest sense. I do have a huge cock and I do encourage her to fuck anyone and everyone. Most of my friends have been between her legs at one time or another.
 
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stretch, exactly how big is your huge cock?
Thank you for allowing so many of your friends to get between your wife's legs.
The more you encourage her, the more cream you she collects for you. Win-win-win.
 
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The shaft is nine inches long from stomach wall to the end of the head. I'm eight and three quarter inches around both at the base and at the rim of my cock-head.

I enjoy watching her get a hard cock buried in her, ideally I get to guide it in and lick both clean afterward. We have done a double penetration many times, using various two out of three hole situations and found we both greatly enjoy it. We have discussed triple penetrations but so far at least have never found a third man we wanted to have join us.

My next goal is to videotape myself and another man about the same size doing my wife in various positions and in various places.

Yes, it is certainly a win-win-win sutuation.
 
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when i got really turned on while licking her and she fantasized out loud about other men and cumming saying their name!
 
ooo i could say allot here but wont bore you with the details. but the long and short answer is when she made it clear she will be sleeping with other men and that turned me on
 
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During our courtship my wife told me she was also fucking a friend of hers and had been for the past five years. I simply told her I found this to be a great turn on and I'd like to watch--or even better to join them. She brought it up with Al who was more than a little disbelieving at the time, he did however finally agree to my presence in bed with them.

Al is black, uncut, and about three quarters as blessed by Mother Nature in the hard cock department. He lost most of his reservations when I held her pussy open and guided him into her, he probably lost the rest when I used my tongue to clean them both afterward. By way of paying me back he returned the service a few minutes later after my (then) fiancee's vagina was stretched around my hard cock.

Al and I have been friends for several years now and happily share our wives with each other on a regualr basis. Both wives have used me as a very open minded bull for friends who want their pussies stretched a few times, and Al and I have teamed up for a couple of them. I hate to admit it, but Al is probably a better lover--if I had his moves and my meat I'd probably be able to work professionally. LOL
 
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If u keep Al in your social circle, you will learn a lot off him (a mentor).
Thank you for such full answers. My mind was fascinated by the girth of your cock, I saw it in my mind and imagined it stretching me wider than I have ever been stretched before. I hope that you do become a professional in the future as a lot of women deserve what you have between your legs.
 
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I started to realize I was a cuck back before I was married when I would jack off to the cuckold and wife-swapping letters in Penthouse Magazine.

My first wife cuckolded me early in our marriage. The idea was hot until I finally confronted the reality that she had no interest in me anymore.

My fantasies continued and I admitted them to my second wife (Susan). She did not believe me at first but through pillow talk and acting out fantasies she began to believe me. Eventually she did cuckold me without telling me, but she did leave me lots of clues to see if I would notice. Eventually she came out and told me. This time my relationship was strong enough that it was a huge turn on. She has acted on the fantasy three times and I wish she would do so again.
 
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Saraha--The four of us have been friends for long enough, and are certainly close enough, that I doubt much could come between (or among?) us. Now cumming between (or among) us is a very common and regular thing that we all treasure. LOL. And yes we all learn from each other.
 
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Becoming a cuckold

I became a cuckold during my first marriage, when my wife threw it up to me that she was fucking with other guys. My options were limited, because we had three kids. I knew if I divorced her, it would be hard for my kids, so I hunkered down and took my punishment, of knowing other guys were helping themselves to my wife's pussy!

But after a period of anger and grief and desperation, it finally dawned on me that the fact other guys were fucking her too didn't keep her from being a good fuck for me. So I went back to fucking her and I also asked her to tell me about the other guys. I was surprised, even shocked, to know that hearing her tell about them fucking her made a fucking tiger out of me. As I fucked her, she would be telling me what some other guy did to give her pleasure, and I would cum like I never did before. In very short order I became completely dependent on her narratives about the other guys who had fucked her to allow me to perform.

From there, it was only one short step to the point of cooperating, and even encouraging her to meet with other men. And always, when she came home from being with one of them, I would fuck her too, preferrably with their cum still in her cunt! From that point on, the dye was cast and there was no turning back. After that, I had to know that other men were fucking her, and I needed to know the details before I could fuck her and cum in her pussy.
 
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I have known I love being a cuckold since I was in my late teens or early twenty's. When I was very young I married to my first wife - she was the love of my life, and I was hers (I thought). She was fucking around on me almost from the beginning of our marriage. She (unbeknown to me) actually bought me home the first creampie I had ever eaten, and this happened on numerous occasions. I did not let on that I suspected, but when she was a LOT juicier than usual, well it didn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out - I was eating some other guys leftovers. In stead of really being pissed off I found I really loved the taste of another man's love cream. I would like very much for my current wife to cuckokd me too, but she refuses to be with another man. Does anyone know what I can say to her to convince her that I would not consider it cheating if I knew what was going on, and gave her my permission as long as she told me about it first. Hell I would LOVE to be in the same room as them, so I could clean them both up, then suck his dick until he cums in my mouth or he is ready to fuck my wife again.
 
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I think I started having these feelings when I was a teenager, soon after I entered into my first serious sexual relationship. I have only had three long-term monogamous relationships; one in high school, one in college, and one that started right after college. That last relationship is still going strong after ten years of marriage. In each of these relationships, within about six months of starting them, I would begin to have fantasies of seeing my girl having sex with other people...occasionally women, but usually other men. When I was between relationships, I would have more traditional fantasies, although I would occasionally still fantasize about one of my ex-girlfriends being fucked hard by some other man - in fact I can remember a few jack-off sessions that were very exciting where I tried to imagine what lucky guy was fucking my ex and thinking explicitly about what they were doing. The fact that I remained friends with my ex-girlfriends helped, because I actually got to meet their new boyfriends and once or twice even heard about some of their sexual exploits. I remember hearing from my college girlfriend soon after we broke up that the next guy she was with was not nearly as good as me in bed, and the news cheered me up, but also made me feel a little sorry for her - and left me wondering why she wouldn't let me have another go with her, since I was so good. Then a couple months later she told me about a one-night stand she had with a guy who was very good in bed, and who I found out after a little prying she fucked with no condom. Hearing this hurt a little bit, because I was still getting over our breakup, but it also left me extremely turned on. Before I started dating the woman who is now my wife, we were already friends, so we already knew many of each other's former lovers. I was a little bit of a player in my early twenties, but my wife was a bigger slut than I was. Which suited me just fine, because by that point I realized that was the type of woman that really turned me on. We remained pretty monogamous in our first ten years together, sharing our desires in fantasy but not acting on them, but over the past few years that has started to change. I know now what I had suspected all along, that seeing my lover being pleased by another is a big turn-on. I'm lucky to be with a woman who is a willing and enthusiastic partner in this lifestyle.
 
As soon as I learned about sex, I started fantasizing about my wife/gf sleeping with other men.
 
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stretch said:
rest when I used my tongue to clean them both afterward. By way of paying me back he returned the service a few minutes later after my (then) fiancee's vagina was stretched around my hard cock.
Wow
 
When did i know I was a cuck?
Very good question. And Im not sure. I 1st came across cuckolding in my teens reading Penthouse letters. Even then I noticed the ones that turned me on the most were the wife sharing, mfm ones. Especially the ones writen by the "husband". I didnt know the term "cuckold" back then tho.
I did think it strange the there were men out there that enjoyed their wives having another man and I wasnt sure why it turned me on. i remember that I was worried that I might be one of them but I didnt really think that I would allow another man to have sex with my wife. At 1st when a girlfriend flirted with another man jealousy ruled and I put a stop to fairly quickly.
It wasnt untill a few years after I married Amy and we got our 1st VCR that the subject was raised again. We discovered we both liked watching porn and the ones that turned us both on the most was the mfm ones. Amy for the obvious reasons, being pleasured by 2 men intrigued her. Me, wel I liked seeing someone cuckolded. Sharing a wife was the most erotic thing for me. We talked a little about it but both agreed that the fantasy was nice but the reality was probably a lot different.
So, even tho I was turned on by the thought of cuckolding from an early age I didnt know I was meant to be a cuckold until it finally happened. We didnt discuss it before hand and it definitely wasnt planned. On that night things progressed down a road that would change our lives. I just sat back and watched as another man took advantage of the situation and took his pleasure in my wife. This time I couldnt stop it. Seeing my wife respond to him, seeing how she turned him on, seeing him enter her sent me to heights of arousal I didnt know were possible. As for Amy, well in her words, "it was the best sex she has ever had".
The next day, after a long discussion, we both agreed we wanted to feel that again. That man became our bull and continued to pleasure Amy physically and me emotionally for the next 12 yrs.
So, in conclusion, I probably knew in my teens that i was meant to be a cuck but it wasnt until my early 40's that it was confirmed that I was a cuck.
 
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stretch said:
Interesting, I'm hung like a mule, but I thoroughly enjoy watching my wife take a new cock into herself and getting a strange load of cum deposited. She enjoys the variety, I enjoy the show, and the clean up is just desert. Of course, this may not qualify me a cuck in the strictest sense. I do have a huge cock and I do encourage her to fuck anyone and everyone. Most of my friends have been between her legs at one time or another.
Thanks for confessing you are a cuckold with a huge cock. There are women who have wondered in this forum whether all cuckolds have teeny weenies. (When I come across such queries, I tell them "no.") You have answered their question.

And, please note the definition of a cuckold, which is short and simple, is unrelated to cock (or weenie) size. It is: cuckold — a man with an unfaithful wife (meaning, a wife who fucks other men). Note also the definition says nothing about whether a cuckold's unfaithful wife fucks other men with or without his encouragement and permission, or even his knowledge.

Thus, there's no reason to feel anxious about your identity. You are the cuckold in a "hotwife / cuckold husband" marriage.
 
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Hi Ms. Sassa,
Miss Sassa said:
When did you know you were a cuck? I myself have only dated cucks. I can pick them out in a heart-beat.
Interesting. You date only men you identify as actual or potential cuckolds, I gather, because you know they will accept — and even be turned on by — you fucking other men, thereby exerting your sexual and psychological dominance over them, while at the same time they provide you with their (relatively) long-term personal and emotional support...?
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I have talked to many, and one thing that always is intriguing is the moment you figured out that your woman getting the big cock she deserves is a turn-on for you, and made your little dicklet stand up. I would like to know what moment that was for you. — Mistress Sassa
That would be the first time I began sleeping with a woman. At the time, I was sharing a rental-house with 7 other men (mostly early- to mid-twenties) near the campus of a large university where she and I were students. The other men and I shared the rent and had a "food club" in which we rotated buying groceries and preparing dinners (and cleaning up), so we had meals every day. A couple of food-club members did not live in our house; they included the woman I asked out.... she made it clear she wanted to be quiet about it.... then, that same night, she and I went to her place, which was nearby. Once in her room, she asked me to move my car so I wasn't parked outside, before we.... well, ya' know.... proceeded further.

We spent the night together, then.... the next morning.... she admitted she was fucking one of the other men who lived in "my" rental house. She went on to say she would break up with him. (This surprised me, because they always argued when they were together. I thought that meant they disliked each other, and hadn't realized that meant they were lovers.) I said "OK," or something mild to that effect, and we continued our relationship.

At some point early-on in our relationship.... I can't recall when, exactly.... I told my new lover that if she wanted to sleep with other men (not just me), I would be OK with that. She obviously had other choices, at least potentially, while I didn't — at least, not without initiating another search, which... not being outgoing, particularly... I was not eager to do.

I did not tell her that, however, because of any realization that I would be turned-on, either secretly or openly, by the idea or the reality of her fucking other men. Those were the early days of women's liberation (aka women's lib) (we're going back a ways in history, here), and I identified rather strongly with that movement. For reasons of my own, which I'm not sure I understood all-that-well myself at that time, I felt that women should have all the same rights and privileges in society that men had (and have). Also, it was what's generally thought of as the time of the sexual revolution. The pill had been invented and was available, so a woman could fuck whomever she wanted to freely, without fear of consequences any more than might be felt by a man. (Our first night together, as I fumbled with a condom while trying to maintain my erection, she told me not to worry about it — she was on the pill.)

My woman never said anything about accepting (or not) my comment that it was OK to continue fucking her previous lover. But, gradually I became aware she was almost certainly.... then later, certainly.... doing that. She was always very wet when she and I went to bed. Being quite naive in those days, it took quite a while for me to realize what that meant. Rather, I assumed she got hot-and-horny rapidly.

After a while, we broke up.... but not because she was fucking other men. And, she never said anything about the size of my cock vs. other men's cocks. From my experience in jr. high and high school gym-class showers, I had no reason to think my cock was anything other than about average. I didn't even realize that was supposed to be an issue.

Rather, we ended our relationship because she was very assertive and dominant. Being young, I found that difficult to handle. And, there were work-related reasons (we found jobs in different places).

—Custer
 
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Hi everyone,, New guy here. This is my 1st post of any kind.
For me & my 1st experience with my Wife was a cheating thing. I was working the graveyard shift & only live d a 100 yards to our house. I thought one night I would surprise my Wife & went home early. Well, I was the one who got surprised!! She was in our bed with one of the neighbors. They had just got done fucking & heard me come in. Moving on, after yelling & screaming & fighting he left. I was broke, just started working & had nowhere else to go.
I left & she went back to bed. Then I went back, sat on our bed. She asked what I wanted to do? I had no answer.
Then I stood up, looked at her. She sighed deeply then threw back the covers & said,,, do you want to fuck? I just thought to myself,,,, why not. I got undressed & crawled in beside her. We started kissing & immediately smelled & got my first taste of cock & possibly cumm on her breath. I was rock hard & asked her if she sucked his cock? She didn't say anything at first. But as I felt her cumm filled pussy & fingered her clit she really started to get into it! She started moaning & begging me to fuck her but I wanted to know more. I kept fingering her, teasing her until I asked her again if she sucked his cock. She hissed through clenched teeth,, yesss, yes, I sucked his cock!! Please fuck me now!! I'll tell you everything!! So I did!! I have to say it felt amazing!! I slid into her & her pussy was hot & full!!! We both were extremely turned on!! THAT'S when I knew I was hooked!!
Since that night, we did all sorts of sexual playing. Including me driving around while she ducked two guys in the back seat!! I'll never forget the sights & sounds of my Wife sucking & fucking in the back seat. Once we stopped at a red light & there was no one near us, I turned on the dome light & was treated to a nice view of her bobbing in a nice thick cock. She stopped halfway down & froze. Offering me & the other guy a nice view. They took turns on her as I drove. It was an awesome night. I still JO to that one!!
Anyway,, that's how it all started. It was a very sexual discovering time in our lives. Once I watched her seduce, suck & fuck one of my friends. Until she traded me in on a younger model. Oh the memories.
Sorry this was so long. My bad.
 
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