When was the first time you realised cuckolding existed?

[Ronnewman]

When was the first time you remember realising what we know as cuckolding was something men and women enjoyed? I don’t just mean ‘when did your wife make you a cuckold’ that’s been discussed lots of times, I mean when did the penny drop that people got a kick out of their partner having sex with someone else?
Was it a movie or a song ? Or was it a comment about a wife ‘putting it about ‘ and her husband not minding or a personal experience -something someone introduced you to? Or was it a discovery of a whole genre of porn and discussion forums that explore this subject.
Personally my eyes were opened by an older lady. I was 16 buying my first pair of jeans and she came into the changing rooms. My cock was hard in a millisecond and she soon realised I was a virgin and gave me my first blowjob- I reckon lasted all of 20 seconds!! She told me to come back for a second lesson and I was back the next day! She took me upstairs to the stock room and I had my first proper fuck. She was a big breasted blond in her 40’s and wasted no time showing me how to fuck get hairy Pusey. I was in heaven and came twice without even getting soft. Her pussy was absolutely dripping with my cum. She pulled her panties up and hurried downstairs. When I followed a few minutes later I asked the other shop assistant where she had gone. She told me she’d gone home to her husband- I was panicking, I thought I was in trouble but she said ‘don’t worry, he loves it, the fuller and fresher the better. He’ll probably want to watch next time!!’
It was the first time I had ever heard of such a thing but the erotic charge it gave me fuelled an obsession for the rest of my life.
How about you?

 

[franklyhorny]

When was the first time you remember realising what we know as cuckolding was something men and women enjoyed? I don’t just mean ‘when did your wife make you a cuckold’ that’s been discussed lots of times, I mean when did the penny drop that people got a kick out of their partner having sex with someone else?
Was it a movie or a song ? Or was it a comment about a wife ‘putting it about ‘ and her husband not minding or a personal experience -something someone introduced you to? Or was it a discovery of a whole genre of porn and discussion forums that explore this subject.
Personally my eyes were opened by an older lady. I was 16 buying my first pair of jeans and she came into the changing rooms. My cock was hard in a millisecond and she soon realised I was a virgin and gave me my first blowjob- I reckon lasted all of 20 seconds!! She told me to come back for a second lesson and I was back the next day! She took me upstairs to the stock room and I had my first proper fuck. She was a big breasted blond in her 40’s and wasted no time showing me how to fuck get hairy Pusey. I was in heaven and came twice without even getting soft. Her pussy was absolutely dripping with my cum. She pulled her panties up and hurried downstairs. When I followed a few minutes later I asked the other shop assistant where she had gone. She told me she’d gone home to her husband- I was panicking, I thought I was in trouble but she said ‘don’t worry, he loves it, the fuller and fresher the better. He’ll probably want to watch next time!!’
It was the first time I had ever heard of such a thing but the erotic charge it gave me fuelled an obsession for the rest of my life.
How about you?

Wish I had met a woman like that when I was in my teens. Wish to God I could go back to my youth and start over with what I know now.

 

[Jozyxt]

There were "letters" in Penthouse that introduced me to many strange things in highschool and college. We had a mixed sex group of friends in college where we would read the letters aloud.

 

[Ronnewman]

There were "letters" in Penthouse that introduced me to many strange things in highschool and college. We had a mixed sex group of friends in college where we would read the letters aloud.

Was that a turn on for you or anyone else in the group especially? On one of the first jobs I had an older guy used to read the letters out and show us the readers wives. He was a real old perve and I know he persuaded some of the apprentices to get their cocks out

 

[Debshusband]

Spying on my parents when they would have friends over and tell me to stay in my room.

 

[susanscuckold]

There were "letters" in Penthouse that introduced me to many strange things in highschool and college. We had a mixed sex group of friends in college where we would read the letters aloud.

Same with me - as a teenager reading Penthouse letters about shared wives and cuckolded husbands. About 20 years later I started to want it to become real

 

[Ronnewman]

Spying on my parents when they would have friends over and tell me to stay in my room.

What did you see when you were spying ?

 

[Debshusband]

What did you see when you were spying ?

One time I saw my mom bent over the coffee table with a man pounding her from behind. I thought it was a funny game and he was just bouncing on her. My dad was sitting in a chair off to the side, no pants and stroking his cock.

 

[Ronnewman]

Wow how old were you?

 

[Debshusband]

Wow how old were you?

Around 8 that time. They started going other places when I got older. I know they were still active.

 

[Nazareth]

As a young boy, when I had to accompany my Mom to her hairdresser's appointment (as one example), I would overhear the ladies talking about "adult" stuff.
Of course, I was way to young to know what most of it 'meant', but still, you hear things. They mostly centered around one of the ladies that worked there, who just happened to have BIG titties, and her husband bringing other men home for her to entertain for his pleasure.

At an even younger age, I can remember a friend of my Dad and Mom visiting the house. and I didn't know when he had arrived, but he was there early in the morning. Just a bit later, Mom was playing at my toy pool table, and Dad said something about her ass was showing, and that friend happened to be behind her.
Again, I had no idea any of this meant, but when revisiting these memories, and knowing what I know now, it's not far-fetched to imagine what could have happened.

Now, I think it was likely he had came over sometime during the night, and was on his way out when we found out he was there.
Just about everyone knows you have to wait 'til the kids are in bed before any fun can happen!
It's clear my Mom was naked under her (short) robe, and was bending over that pool table, flashing her ass (maybe pussy too?) to that friend based on their positioning and what Dad said. I doubt it was innocent or accidental.

Then, when I got to my pre-teens, I had uncles and older cousins who would started ******** me to Playboy and Penthouse and you learn a little more.
I got married very young (18) and sexual education started exploding, and I learned a lot in a hurry.
We were friends with a couple, and a lot of weekends we would get together to play cards, drink, and carry on. This graduated to turning out the lights and making out. Not necessarily in front of each other, but it was same room, and within eyesight. Soon followed by getting naked and fucking under the same circumstances.
And before I knew it, we were openly discussing swapping and figuring arrangements with them.
It never happened, but that's when I realized that things like being naked with other people, wife sharing/swapping, watching each other fuck, and so much more definitely existed, and was likely a lot more common than I thought.
Now, I still didn't know or had even heard of "cuckold", but I knew I had a desire to watch my wife fuck. We would talk and fantasize aloud about it during foreplay and fucking, but it wasn't anything I pushed for. I mostly tried to suppress my feelings and jacked off a lot.
Then I found out she was cheating. I had suspicions, but no idea how much, or for how long... until one of her cousins told off on her. I raged against it at first, but when I would think about it during private moments, I would get rock-hard and had to masturbate. She quickly reached a point where she no longer wanted to keep it a secret, and told me she wanted to fuck a coworker of hers. She asked me to approve, but she was going to do it no matter how I answered. I did, thinking she meant a one-time thing, but when she left to go to his house the second night, I was crushed.
Yet again, it made me very hard, and I couldn't wait for her to get back home so I could get sloppy seconds. And this repeated several nights a week for a few months, but she didn't stop after him.

 

[LikesMMF]

When I read a story about it in Penthouse. I was addicted to it after that.

 

[littlecucky]

When I read a story about it in Penthouse. I was addicted to it after that.

Looks like Penthouse is the winner. They got me hooked too.

But there used to be a TV show called Dr. Ruth. My wife and I listened every week. At the end of the show, should would take calls. One caller was a young wife who asked the Dr if it was okay that her husband would bring home his friends to fuck her. The Dr said yes, but just wanted to make sure the young wife was using condoms. That show made it real for me.

 

[mywife4blkncolorado]

We got married at 19 for me and 18 for her. She'd had sex with others, I had not when we started dating 2 years prior to marrying. The first time I recall thinking about being a cuck, without me knowing what that was, was when we were playing a drinking game with my cousing and his wife, all of us about 22 or so. I remember being on the floor of their house, the game being of sexual nature and booze. You'd have to remove clothing or take a drink if you lost a spin or something. I remember us playing until we were all naked and not recalling how things progressed, whether it was part of the game or just how things moved along, but I ended up eating my cousins wife's pussy as my cousin was between my wife's legs sliding his dick into her pussy. I wasn't really all that interested in fucking my cousin's wife as much as I was wanting to watch my wife get fucked. I remember thinking, " I like this, but me being with another female was getting in the way of watching my wife get fucked." I think that was the first time I knew I wanted to see more and more of my wife getting fucked, that I wanted her to have all the pleasure she could and I wasn't jealous, but more proud than anything else. From that point on, I was more interested in setting my wife up with other guys then us playing with other couples so I'd have a female to interact with. It wasn't about me getting off, though I did after thinking about it while looking at pictures and vids of my wife fucking, but rather about getting guys between my wife's legs. There were many guys and couples we played with, even though I'd rather just see my wife having fun, I was always willing to sit back and observe her with whoever she was with. At one point, we stopped playing with couples, my wife didn't want me with other girls, as we seeked out guys for her. It was many years later that I came to realize what being a cuck was and what it meant. I guess all those years I was one, but didn't know what it really meant. When I came to call myself one, was when my wife had a Black guy that she loved pleasing and did anything to make him happy, He really owned her and in hindsight, me too. I didn't care what he told her to do or who he told her to do it with, I was all for anything he wanted her to do. I was there to assist and help him use her as he wanted. That's when I put the term cuck with my lifestyle of who I was.

 

[Ronnewman]

I’m interested that quite a few of the replies say they were aroused by this before they heard the phrase ‘cuckolding’.
I’m pretty sure it’s a very old term, but does it seem to have become more commonly used in the last 25 years or so?
I seem to remember, although there was quite a lot written in penthouse letters, forum and ‘I confess’, I recall it was usually called wife sharing or a hotwife story, and was often lumped in with swinging. Or maybe the internet just enabled the more specific ’kink’ we would call cuckolding to become distinct…
Either way I know I’m not alone in being able to trace my interest back to one of those old letters or hearing that a man enjoyed his wife ‘playing away’

 

[stubbyhubby]

Honestly it was years after the wife was already fucking other guys. She started fucking other guys in April 1993 (yes 30 years this month) but I had never heard of the term until around 2001 or so. Nearly all of my girlfriend cheated on me and I was OK with pretty much all of them doing it, so when I learned what a cuckold was it hit me that I had been one for decades and never knew.

 

[Helgaforyou]

April 1, 2023

 

[Helgaforyou]

April 1, 2023

 

[lnohhnvm]

very interesting answers.

 

[johnmasters]

At school in the 6th form studying Chaucer. There is one character who climbs into an apple tree to watch his wife being fucked by another man. That was in my teens and may be one of the reasons I sometimes fantasised about watching my wife having sex with other men. I was not the first to enjoy her but she did't cuckold me until we were in our early 40s. I still haven't watched her having sex and have had to settle with using my imagination.