Nothing gives me greater pleasure than seeing my wife with a guy's cock in her mouth and another one in her pussy. I don't have the slightest idea why I enjoy this, I just know I do and my cock got hard the first time I thought about it. I would love to hear from anyone that knows why they love to see their wives fuck other guys.
Why Do We Like To See Our Wives Fuck Other Guys ?
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I don't think of myself as a pervert or that sex is dirty. I do know that I find it erotic to watch my wife take cocks and to think about her taking cocks and thinking about cocks she has taken and right now, about cocks she is planning to take. I do recognize that most married guys are not on the same page, I wonder why I am what I am. Obviously , no regrets.
old fred said:
Yeah I was kidding and being light hearted about the being erverts part. I think the reality is that there are literally 100 different ways that men are lured to this. There is no one path. Nor a right or wrong one. I sometimes wonder why I am what I am...but then for me many many years ago, I was in a relationship with a woman that I couldn't really fully be with due to my own situation and at night as a way to deal with the stress i'd often jerk off when she was out and living her life and with others, especially when I knew she was out with men (friends/acquaintances) that were let's say more available. No I dont believe she ever cheated on any level. She wanted to be with me, but it was complicated. However I was often worried someone would seduce her. Jerking off relieved it all but that reward and stress reduction while having thoughts about what she may have been doing and the worry and jealousy created this in me. Now it's literally second nature and an automatic reaction in me, and something I always want. You could say I actually inadvertently made myself a cuckold in the truest form . Now i am one. A cuckold. And i am in relationahp number two of living that very life in reality. Not hoping for it. What can I say
No regrets.
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Thanks for your insightful answer, I had some experiences where I ended up thinking about a lady I cared for being fucked by another guy while I was jacking off and I conclude that it paved the way for my present day enjoyment.Lamont said:Yeah I was kidding and being light hearted about the being erverts part. I think the reality is that there are literally 100 different ways that men are lured to this. There is no one path. Nor a right or wrong one. I sometimes wonder why I am what I am...but then for me many many years ago, I was in a relationship with a woman that I couldn't really fully be with due to my own situation and at night as a way to deal with the stress i'd often jerk off when she was out and living her life and with others, especially when I knew she was out with men (friends/acquaintances) that were let's say more available. No I dont believe she ever cheated on any level. She wanted to be with me, but it was complicated. However I was often worried someone would seduce her. Jerking off relieved it all but that reward and stress reduction while having thoughts about what she may have been doing and the worry and jealousy created this in me. Now it's literally second nature and an automatic reaction in me, and something I always want. You could say I actually inadvertently made myself a cuckold in the truest form . Now i am one. A cuckold. And i am in relationahp number two of living that very life in reality. Not hoping for it. What can I say
I wouldn't worry too much over things, especially how you may view yourself.
It's all about what you find sexually exciting,and ultimately satisfying using the excitement as the catalyst.
Supposedly that stuff is all pre-programmed before we are born, and there's not a lot one can do to 'change' what appeals to them, so just relax, love and nurture each other, and enjoy the satisfaction that you provide for each other.
I can't explain it myself, but most men (including myself!) find it exciting to watch their wives being penetrated by another man's cock, For me, it's not just the visual stimulation, but also the emotions involved. How taboo it is; we were generally taught marriage is a monogamous relationship, "only sex fiends do that stuff", and the like, only to find out it's mostly not true.
But the thought of a wife submitting herself to a lover that's not her husband, allowing herself to feel the pleasure and arousal of those moments, and sharing the same with her husband......yes, please!
And the thought that husbands are thrilled to accept that other men CAN give his wife sexual satisfaction and find pleasure in that is just as stimulating.
So I don't worry about why. I'm just grateful that I do.
It's all about what you find sexually exciting,and ultimately satisfying using the excitement as the catalyst.
Supposedly that stuff is all pre-programmed before we are born, and there's not a lot one can do to 'change' what appeals to them, so just relax, love and nurture each other, and enjoy the satisfaction that you provide for each other.
I can't explain it myself, but most men (including myself!) find it exciting to watch their wives being penetrated by another man's cock, For me, it's not just the visual stimulation, but also the emotions involved. How taboo it is; we were generally taught marriage is a monogamous relationship, "only sex fiends do that stuff", and the like, only to find out it's mostly not true.
But the thought of a wife submitting herself to a lover that's not her husband, allowing herself to feel the pleasure and arousal of those moments, and sharing the same with her husband......yes, please!
And the thought that husbands are thrilled to accept that other men CAN give his wife sexual satisfaction and find pleasure in that is just as stimulating.
So I don't worry about why. I'm just grateful that I do.
For me I never knew what a cuckold was, not sure I'd even heard the term at the time. But when she told me "her number" I came in my pants. That was a revelation for me. From that moment I knew my place and what turns me on, unfortunately she won't yield. She won't tell me details of her past nor will she make new stories of the present and future. water water everywhere and not a drop to drink
2wheel, I feel for you man. One of the things that I enjoyed most with my first wife was her ability to tell me about her "adventures" with other men after we were into the life style. When she was working at the retirement complex and being "entertained" by some of the men there, I only ever met 1 of them and I never got to see her with any of them, so if she wouldn't have told me about them I would have been terribly disappointed as you must be.
As to the subject this thread is about the why do we like to see our wives fuck other guys, I haven't really tried to analyze it too much, I know that I became real comfortable with "open" sex when my roommate and I started sharing our dates during the 3 years that we were sharing an apartment and then when we started including 2 other guys (1 is black and well hung), it became a sexual norm for us for a young and very willing woman to be well fucked by the 2,3 or 4 of us, it was sort of like our own private sex show. As it turned out my wife to be knew about what my roommate and I were doing and after she and I were married she brought it up one night in bed during foreplay when she asked me "Don't you want to watch me get fucked like you guys did when you had your apartment?" and her next question before I could come up with an answer was "And why haven't you ever introduced me to Darnell (the well-hung black guy)? At that point she wrapped one hand around my cock and sucked me as I lost it completely.
My feeble answer was that I didn't think that she would be interested , but I am was her response and that was the very beginning of our journey of me getting to watch her fuck other men. GTR
As to the subject this thread is about the why do we like to see our wives fuck other guys, I haven't really tried to analyze it too much, I know that I became real comfortable with "open" sex when my roommate and I started sharing our dates during the 3 years that we were sharing an apartment and then when we started including 2 other guys (1 is black and well hung), it became a sexual norm for us for a young and very willing woman to be well fucked by the 2,3 or 4 of us, it was sort of like our own private sex show. As it turned out my wife to be knew about what my roommate and I were doing and after she and I were married she brought it up one night in bed during foreplay when she asked me "Don't you want to watch me get fucked like you guys did when you had your apartment?" and her next question before I could come up with an answer was "And why haven't you ever introduced me to Darnell (the well-hung black guy)? At that point she wrapped one hand around my cock and sucked me as I lost it completely.
My feeble answer was that I didn't think that she would be interested , but I am was her response and that was the very beginning of our journey of me getting to watch her fuck other men. GTR
Actually, I didn't have much porn as a kid, the movie "Indecent ********" started the conversation with my wife and I and when my dick died, it was a no brainer to go the the swingers club. Once I saw her in action, I was hooked, we both are. It is way better than porn.edtheguy80 said:
I told my wife it was a live sex show with my favorite actress. I'm a voyeur and enjoy watching. I get to watch her have sex with someone else plus I get to have her myself. It's a win/win for me. She generally stays horny for awhile. On one of our playdates I had sex with her 4 times all told, lol.
I believe it is about love and control over us. Our men want us to be happy and thy know we will do the extra role play and do what ever they want, so we fuck other men and women. It is pleasure and live to enjoy life. I was a virgin at 21 whenI married my hubby cuckold. He has over 8 inches and is a prize. I met at lleast 15 girls in college whom he had fucked. I refused him to fuck me I did let him roll his cock over my pussy lips while wearing panties. Our wedding night he had my cherry and rolled over saying he wanted me to fuck a lot ov men and very soon in 60 days and he arranged it. He loves watching me with other men.
