Wife caught cheating on me!!

[farukabdal]

Hi everyone, I'm very confused right now and i have to share it.

My wife and I have been together for over 12 years. We have four kids and we live a pretty boring life that everyone is busy with their careers, not having much sex and mostly watching TV together.
I recently noticed that something is different in my wife, she is back to being horny, wants more to fuck and our sex life has really improved miraculously.
I don’t know why, but something make me install a hidden cameras in our bedroom and our living room.
For the first two weeks, I watched the recordings every day right after I got home from work but there was nothing interesting.

One day, when I got back from work, my wife was waiting for me in the living room with a sexy lingerie, she said that the kids with her parents and she jumped on me and started undressing me, start to sucking my cock really hard and making me cum on her face (for the first time ever!!!).
I touched her between the legs and she was so fucking wet in a way I can not remember and it drive me crazy. she didn't want to fuck, she went to take a shower and than to bed.
after she fell asleep, I decided to look at the cameras to see what she did before I got home.

Then I was just amazed at what I saw.
Twenty minutes before I got home, our neighbor from the next door fucked my wife on our couch and cum inside her.

I couldn’t believe my eyes to saw it, not only my wife cheating on me with our neighbor, she also let him cum inside and let me touch her with his sperm.

While watching the video I masturbated and I was really horny. But I don't know what to do with it at the moment, on the one hand I am really happy that my wife surprising me, love me, and wants more sex with me but on the other hand she cheated on me.

any of you that caught your wife with another guy feel the same way I do?

btw
I'm afraid to upload photos or videos right now but I might do that later.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Hi everyone, I'm very confused right now and i have to share it.

Hi Very Confused. Welcome to the forum.

My wife and I have been together for over 12 years.

Congratulations!

We have four kids and we live a pretty boring life. Everyone is busy with their careers, we're not having much sex and we're mostly watching TV together.

Sounds like your and your wife's sexual desire for each other has tapered off. There's nothing unusual about that for a couple in your situation.

I recently noticed that something is different in my wife, she is back to being horny, wants to fuck more and our sex life has really improved miraculously.

If you suspect this means your wife has found an additional source of stimulation, you're obviously a beneficiary.

I don’t know why, but something made me install hidden cameras in our bedroom and our living room.

Congratulations, if you managed to do that without your wife noticing.

For the first two weeks, I watched the recordings every day right after I got home from work but there was nothing interesting.

Congratulations again, if you managed to do that as well without your wife noticing.

One day, when I got back from work, my wife was waiting for me in the living room with a sexy lingerie, she said the kids were with her parents and she jumped on me and started undressing me, then started sucking my cock really hard and made me cum on her face (for the first time ever!!!).

Your wife gave you a nice surprise.

I touched her between the legs and she was so fucking wet in a way I can not remember and it drove me crazy. She didn't want to fuck, she went to take a shower then went to bed.
After she fell asleep, I decided to look at the cameras to see what she did before I got home.

You decided to treat yourself to some after-hours porn video....

I was just amazed at what I saw.
Twenty minutes before I got home, our neighbor from next door fucked my wife on our couch and ejaculated inside her.

Nice. Your neighbor treated your wife to what she needed. If she's on birth control (after 4 children, I would think she might be), you needn't be concerned that he ejaculated in her pussy.

I couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw it.

Hey — seeing is believing.

Not only was my wife cheating on me with our neighbor, she also let him cum inside her.

On the plus side, your wife had the hots for you when you came home.

While watching the video I masturbated and I was really horny.

Good. That was the right thing to do.

But, I don't know what to do about it at the moment. On the one hand I am really happy that my wife surprised me, loves me, and wants more sex with me.

All of those things are positive outcomes of your wife fucking your neighbor.

But, on the other hand she cheated on me.

I would say, view that as positive. Women, including your wife, are sexual just like men are. Your wife's sexuality may, in fact, be stronger than yours — meaning, she needs more sex than you have been able to give her.

It sounds like your wife fucked your neighbor at a time when she was able to take her and your children to be cared for by her parents. If you encourage her to do that more often, she will be able to increase her sexual satisfaction by fucking your neighbor more often, which may also enable your wife to maintain an increased sexual interest in you — and thus an increased interest in remaining married to you.

 

[farukabdal]

Thank you Custer Laststand for your detailed reference and response.
The very fact that my wife is fucking with the neighbor without a condom just tells me it has been going on for quite some time.
Maybe the surprise she did to me was her way of dealing with remorse cheating of me.
I don't know, every time I see the video, it makes me insanely horny but it also angers me and I want to give my fucking neighbor a punch in the face.
I enclose a censored image to still maintain privacy.
Look how he cupped her breasts and her aroused nipple, I'm fucking jealous.

 

[2wheel]

You are the beneficiary of her infidelity. Before you do anything 'rash' with her, think of the consequences, run each scenario in your head, the REAL scenario not the FANTASY scenario.

 

[Jaandaj]

Thank you Custer Laststand for your detailed reference and response.
The very fact that my wife is fucking with the neighbor without a condom just tells me it has been going on for quite some time.
Maybe the surprise she did to me was her way of dealing with remorse cheating of me.
I don't know, every time I see the video, it makes me insanely horny but it also angers me and I want to give my fucking neighbor a punch in the face.
I enclose a censored image to still maintain privacy.
Look how he cupped her breasts and her aroused nipple, I'm fucking jealous.

It can be a very confusing time. That's what is hardest for most people. If u can except that she loves you an it's just sex with him then u can make the lifestyle work.

There will still be times that the emotions get high. But for those who love thier wife with others, the horniest side wins.

Myself I would stop by neighbors house with the video. Let him know u found out. Tell him if it's going to keep going on then he needs to respect u enough to send u pics and videos of it.

It really is a double edge sword. If she finds out about u hiding the camera then she looses the trust in u that you lost in her

 

[2wheel]

Remember "it's only sex"

 

[Custer Laststand]

Thank you Custer Laststand for your detailed reference and response.

You're welcome, Farukabdal.

The very fact that my wife is fucking with the neighbor without a condom just tells me it has been going on for quite some time.

Could be.... although you had to watch your secret recordings for some time before you managed to record your wife and your neighbor in bed with each other, so apparently they have not been fucking frequently.

Maybe the surprise she did to me was her way of dealing with remorse cheating of me.

Sounds like speculation. I'd say it's more likely your wife has been fucking your neighbor (albeit infrequently) because she needs more sex than you're able to give her.

I don't know, every time I see the video, it makes me insanely horny.

That's a positive feature of being your wife's cuckold.

But, it also angers me and I want to give my fucking neighbor a punch in the face.

This is a negative feature of being your wife's cuckold. It would be best to resist the urge to physically assault your neighbor. He might be anticipating that will happen at some point, and have a weapon on hand, or otherwise be prepared, such that you could end up losing — perhaps badly.

You'll almost certainly be best off if you view this on the plus side: that your wife's taking a lover has enabled her to have a greatly-increased interest in her sexual relationship with you. It may help you see the desirability of a "hotwife / cuckold husband" marriage with your wife if you read:

A married woman's guide:
The cuckold husband / hotwife phenomena
The Cuckold Husband / Hotwife Phenomena

(or enter the title in your preferred search engine, if you can't link to it from this forum).