Sowrong said:
Last night, while I was out with my wife in town, she spent all night sitting in a corner being chatted up by an older guy.
Cool. Where were you during your wife's flirtation? Sitting elsewhere in the same bar, pretending to be disinterested and nursing your drink...?
Sowrong said:
He clearly wanted her, and she knew it.
Sounds like you played your cards right. Your wife's "prospect" wasn't aware she and you were together, and you are her husband...
Sowrong said:
She flirted like mad, but sadly, did not invite him back.
Um... back where? Back to your and your wife's home to become... ahem... more closely acquainted? Or, back to meet her again at some later time in the same bar...?
Sowrong said:
On the plus side, she was that horny after I took her anal cherry.
This sounds like a strong plus. If your wife lets it be known... discretely, of course... to other men that she likes being fucked anally, she will never be without lovers.
Sowrong said:
[This may seem tame,] but I will be wanking for months about it.
Hey... why beat your weenie by yourself while thinking about it? Why not confess to your wife that watching her enjoy flirting with another man, and thoughts of her being pleasured by other men, especially by better-hung men, are turning you on so intensely that you can hardly resist playing with your weenie multiple times every day...?
Why not ask your wife to order you to take off your clothes and lie down on your back, then sit on the edge of the bed and fondle your weenie, while telling you made-up stories about her imaginary adventures in bars, her flirting with other men and letting them feel up her tits while dancing (her, of course, wearing her wedding rings), while you are ****** to sit elsewhere in the bar and watch, showing no signs that you know her...?
It sounds like you've discovered something that appeals to both of you. I suggest moving forward with it...