wife is discouraged
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ive heard of this new type of "tattoo" that is just her natural skin color ,it seems to cover scars very well ,i forgot what its called but i seen it on the news a while back, its not something a tattoo parlor does its done at a doctors office and they said in some cases is covered by insurance i would call a skin doctor and see ,they would probally know what its called
Hope she feels better soon...
Desert,
I guess you must mean your wife's (as opposed to your) cuckolding days may be over. Anyway, you might suggest she concentrate on carrying out the exercises every day prescribed by her physical therapist for recovery. Chronic pain causes depression, but as she gradually recovers her chronic pain will decrease and, one hopes, go away (certainly relative to the pain she was experiencing prior to her hip replacement).
Others I've known who have had hip replacement surgery, including my late father, have said (as I recall) it takes about 6 months to recover.* An important aspect of it in my father's case was, he was very persistent about doing the physical therapy exercises every day. In your wife's case, as she gradually gets over her chronic pain she should feel less depressed and, I'll guess, her sexuality will likely return.
As others have suggested, your wife... assisted by you... should find a cosmetic surgeon to advise her on the feasibility of masking her scar and when that should be done. The MD who did her hip surgery should be able to suggest a good one. But, her priorities (IMO) should be: recovery via physical therapy first; cosmetic surgery to mask the scar second.
*Maybe surgical methods for hip replacements have improved so the recovery time is now less. I would hope so...
Good luck to your sexy wife!
—Custer
Desert,
desert said:
I guess you must mean your wife's (as opposed to your) cuckolding days may be over. Anyway, you might suggest she concentrate on carrying out the exercises every day prescribed by her physical therapist for recovery. Chronic pain causes depression, but as she gradually recovers her chronic pain will decrease and, one hopes, go away (certainly relative to the pain she was experiencing prior to her hip replacement).
Others I've known who have had hip replacement surgery, including my late father, have said (as I recall) it takes about 6 months to recover.* An important aspect of it in my father's case was, he was very persistent about doing the physical therapy exercises every day. In your wife's case, as she gradually gets over her chronic pain she should feel less depressed and, I'll guess, her sexuality will likely return.
As others have suggested, your wife... assisted by you... should find a cosmetic surgeon to advise her on the feasibility of masking her scar and when that should be done. The MD who did her hip surgery should be able to suggest a good one. But, her priorities (IMO) should be: recovery via physical therapy first; cosmetic surgery to mask the scar second.
*Maybe surgical methods for hip replacements have improved so the recovery time is now less. I would hope so...
Good luck to your sexy wife!
—Custer
There are also topical creams that can help reduce the appearance of scars, stretch marks, etc. If you'd like the name of some (that I have personally used) shoot me a message. 
Like others have said, just keep reassuring her that you find her attractive, and that men don't really pay attention to such things as scars. I also agree with Custer, she should focus on recovery first.
Like others have said, just keep reassuring her that you find her attractive, and that men don't really pay attention to such things as scars. I also agree with Custer, she should focus on recovery first.
