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Wife Kissing

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SharesLatinWife said:
Hi all -

First post here. Love the site just haven't been using it much. But I am 36 wife is 34 and have been sharing her with my friends for over 2 years. She has been great to me and I find it so sexy to watch her with them. But recently, she started kissing them. I don't get why but not a big fan of that when she does. I know she does more with them but kissing seems to not go well with me. Is that normal? Do other cuckolds feel this way? And why kiss?
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So hot.
 
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Custer Laststand said:
Hey.... you're welcome, SharesLatinWife.

If by "this" you mean the site, "Real Women Don't Do Housework" — yes, I recommend that (as I mentioned above). Lady Misato's approach is quite psychological, and has good potential, I would say, for increasing the closeness of your relationship with your wife and making it more intensely erotic. I'll also note that the author, Lady Misato (a pseudonym), does not explicitly recommend a married woman take lovers. The approach she recommends, however, in her series of chapters, is well suited to a hotwife / cuckold husband marriage such as yours.

Maybe that's because your wife is a busy woman....

Could be. There seems to be a fairly large, and increasing, online literature about hot wife / cuckold husband marriages and relationships, in which the woman is free to date, seduce and fuck whomever she wishes, while her husband pledges to remain faithful to her (and actually does so). You might get your wife started by suggesting she read, in addition to "Real Women Don't Do Housework," the following:

The cuckold husband / hotwife phenomena, by Dr. Cherry Lee, Ph.D.:
The Cuckold Phenomena

The Science of Cuckoldry, by sex therapist and relationships counselor Susan Gower:
The Science of Cuckoldry

Both articles are well-written, relatively short and easy to read (and are non-pornographic). I suspect your sexy wife would find them quite interesting and informative.

Good. I like that.

Yes, you have it right. A married woman who expands her sexual horizons by taking lovers also tends to increase her self-confidence and psychological well-being, since it becomes obvious to her she is capable of attracting the physical attentions of men other than her husband.

That's natural. It's easier for a married woman to fuck men she knows, who are thus likely to be her and her husband's friends, than men she doesn't know, whose responses may be unpredictable. This increases the psychological difficulty for the cuckold husband (you, in this case) by making it necessary for him to live with the knowledge that his friends, and often his co-workers, are fucking his wife — or want to, and probably will. Some... perhaps many... cuckolds, however, find that this is an aspect of their wife's promiscuity that turns them on.

Good.

I agree, passionate kissing is an important aspect of you and your wife expressing your love and your emotional connection with each other. Another way to express your emotional connection, whenever your wife comes home after fucking a lover, would be for you to clean her pussy with your tongue. Your wife could accomplish this by mounting your face while you lie on your back on your bed, and riding your face while you suck and lick her lover's cum from her pussy (and swallow it). Alternatively, you could kneel between her legs while sucking and licking her lover's cum from her pussy, giving her (one hopes) another orgasm in that way.

Yes.... kissing appeals to your wife and her lovers for the same reasons it appeals to you. It's an aspect of her and their sexuality.

I wish you and your wife continued success with your relationship. It appears to me that both of you are on the right track.
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Really appreciate your response
 
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SharesLatinWife said:
Really appreciate your response.
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Hey.... you're welcome, SharesLatinWife.
 
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Custer Laststand said:
As I said, SharesLatinWife: your wife kissing her lovers is a natural expression of her affection for them. Please get used to it. I, and others on this forum, would appreciate it if you wold verify that your have become accustomed to accepting this natural expression of your wife's love for her lovers.
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Custer Laststand said:
Hey.... you're welcome, SharesLatinWife.
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I'm getting much better at it now, thanks to COVID lol
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SharesLatinWife said:
I'm getting much better at it now, thanks to COVID. lol
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Very good, SharesLatinWife (re. learning to accept that it's natural for your wife to kiss her lovers). It sounds like you're making progress as your wife's cuckold.
 
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It depends on the situation and the bull, but kissing is often part of the game.
It's definitely very intimate (also for me, when I see my wife being kissed by another guy).
Sometimes the bulls ask her to kiss them, sometimes it just happens naturally.
Mostly before sex, but sometimes also after..
 
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My wife, Linda, only kissed her boyfriend on their first day and got more intimate on subsequent dates. I didn't see them kiss until after they had been on several dates, and by that time they were very comfortable kissing and showed no hesitation kissing in front of me. It was the first time I had seen my wife kiss another man, and even though I knew they were having sex, it was difficult for me to watch them. For some reason that bothered me more at that time then when I saw her give him a blow job.
 
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For me, kissing is very important during any sexual experience whether it be with your significant partner or a swinging experience. In fact, in any experience, kissing is what stimulates me from the very beginning. If I’m going to have sex with someone, kissing is a must.. If no kissing, it’s no sex for me.
 
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cmeinfl` said:
For me, kissing is very important during any sexual experience whether it be with your significant partner or a swinging experience. In fact, in any experience, kissing is what stimulates me from the very beginning. If I’m going to have sex with someone, kissing is a must.. If no kissing, it’s no sex for me.
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I feel the same way. Its just so strange to have sexual contact without kissing at some point... to me it's in integral part of the whole experience.
 
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Absolutely kissing. I want them to make love so kissing is mandatory. Every where and everyplace on their bodies. No kissing is like a pizza with no toppings. It's just plane old boring dough.
 
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Until I saw it for the first time last week, I thought it was a big deal and jus t the idea made me horny, nervous, a bit jealous but very excited. Now it's beautiful and sex but not a big deal. Now I'm dying to see her suck cock, or even better, see her moan and while she gets her pussy pumped full of another man's cum. Hopefully I'll see both of those things happen tomorrow, and hopefully I can video it so I can wank over it everyday after that.
I've been wanking everyday the last week over videos of them kissing, but it's gotten a bit tired now.
 
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Why did he throw a window? LOL
 
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See my wife kiss the guy she fucked was much harder than watching her actually being fucked.
 
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KristinS said:
Many couples will not kiss because it is so personal and touches their inner feelings too much. My husband and I have been swinging for 7 years and enjoy kissing others while we are fucking with other couples. I have ****** men to kiss me infront of their wives and my hubby has kissed other women in front of their hubbies who had refused to kiss while fucking. Numerous men I have been with dislike watching their wives in passionate kissing. Their emotions go wild when wife kisses another man.
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It is amazing how many couples within the swinger community seem to have a no kissing policy. While others of us enjoy the wife kissing others as part of the overall enjoyment.
 
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SharesLatinWife said:
She enjoys kissing I know that because of how she kisses me during sex. I guess what threw me off was seeing her kiss these guys. Especially since for at least the first year she never kissed them. Seem more about the sex then. They had tried to kiss her in the past but she would turn her head or not meet their lips. Now all of a sudden she reaches out for them. Very different for me.
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Sounds like she evolved with her comfort level.
 
My wife, Linda, loves kissing. When we first started dating we would have hour long make-out sessions. So, naturally, when she started dating Tom a year ago, kissing him was very important to her. She let me know they made out for a long time at the end of their first date.
What was tougher for me to accept was the first time I heard her say to him "I love you".
 
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I recently asked my wife if she thought about kissing her ex, when we fantasized, she said yes, my dick got harder.
 
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SlutwivesRock said:
Soul kissing is in some ways more intimate than sex.
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Yes it is.....
 
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SharesLatinWife said:
Hi all -

First post here. Love the site just haven't been using it much. But I am 36 wife is 34 and have been sharing her with my friends for over 2 years. She has been great to me and I find it so sexy to watch her with them. But recently, she started kissing them. I don't get why but not a big fan of that when she does. I know she does more with them but kissing seems to not go well with me. Is that normal? Do other cuckolds feel this way? And why kiss?
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I also share my Mexican wife. She used to one off fuck fests with guys she met on C/L,,No kissing, The she got a sugar daddy in an exlusive relation were they didn't fuck other people and didn't use condoms. And they kissed ! When she told me about kissng she was reall excted, she had really missed that part of sex. That is what it is, nothing more, nothing less. My suggestion is the have her "snowball" you and be included in the kissing. Kiss her yourself when she is getting fucked in the ass. Enjoy kissing
 
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