Wife Kissing

[SharesLatinWife]

Hi all -

First post here. Love the site just haven't been using it much. But I am 36 wife is 34 and have been sharing her with my friends for over 2 years. She has been great to me and I find it so sexy to watch her with them. But recently, she started kissing them. I don't get why but not a big fan of that when she does. I know she does more with them but kissing seems to not go well with me. Is that normal? Do other cuckolds feel this way? And why kiss?

 

[SlutwivesRock]

Soul kissing is in some ways more intimate than sex.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Hi all — First post here.

Welcome!

Love the site, just haven't been using it much.

Hey.... whatever works for you.

But I am 36, my wife is 34....

Please, no "buts." Those are ideal ages for you and your sexy wife to have a hotwife / cuckold husband form of marriage.

....and, I have been sharing her with my friends for over 2 years.

Very good. It sounds like you have the right attitude toward your marriage, and your sexy wife has been taking action, accordingly, to broaden her sexual horizons thus increasing both her sexual and psychological satisfaction.

She has been great to me and I find it so sexy to watch her with them.

It's very positive that your hotwife allows you to watch her fucking your friends in front of you, her cuckold husband, and... in addition... that she treats you well.

But recently, she started kissing them. I don't get why but not a big fan of that when she does.

That's OK. It's perfectly normal for your wife to kiss her lovers — and if she does that in your presence, that too is positive. I suspect your negative feelings about that are a result of you feeling that you, somehow, should be in charge of your wife's sex life. But, that's not part of your role as her cuckold.

I know she does more with them [i.e., my wife fucks them] but kissing seems to not go well with me. Is that normal?

Yes.

Do other cuckolds feel this way?

Probably there are some who do and others who don't.

And, why kiss?

Because kissing, including deep tongue-kissing, is a natural component of human sexuality. And, it can be an expression of affection for a lover carried out in public, or in front of a cuckold husband (you, in this case), without any need to take the time to undress first.

Hotwife / cuckold husband marriages tend to work best if the hotwife is the dominant partner. I suggest moving in this direction by introducing your sexy wife to:

Real Women Don't Do Housework
Real Women Don't Do Housework

(Lady Misato, the author of this site, notes that the title is somewhat tongue-in-cheek.) Here, I suggest your wife start with the "marriage quiz" (or not, her choice), then work her way down through the chapters listed at upper left, starting with the "Introduction."

Doing so may help you and your wife come to a mutual appreciation that not only is it her privilege and prerogative to date, seduce, and fuck whomever she wishes, while you agree to remain faithful to her (as I gather you are now doing), but also to kiss and do whatever else she wishes to do with her lovers, while you are fully accepting of that.

The more you bring yourself to accept that it is your wife's privilege and prerogative to do whatever she wishes with her lovers, while you support her with that to whatever extent she needs, the more you will realize the fruits of the saying: "If your wife is happy, you will be happy too."

 

[SlutwivesRock]

Welcome!

Hey.... whatever works for you.

Please, no "buts." Those are ideal ages for you and your sexy wife to have a hotwife / cuckold husband form of marriage.

Very good. It sounds like you have the right attitude toward your marriage, and your sexy wife has been taking action, accordingly, to broaden her sexual horizons thus increasing both her sexual and psychological satisfaction.

It's very positive that your hotwife allows you to watch her fucking your friends in front of you, her cuckold husband, and... in addition... that she treats you well.

That's OK. It's perfectly normal for your wife to kiss her lovers — and if she does that in your presence, that too is positive. I suspect your negative feelings about that are a result of you feeling that you, somehow, should be in charge of your wife's sex life. But, that's not part of your role as her cuckold.

Yes.

Probably there are some who do and others who don't.

Because kissing, including deep tongue-kissing, is a natural component of human sexuality. And, it can be an expression of affection for a lover carried out in public, or in front of a cuckold husband (you, in this case), without any need to take the time to undress first.

Hotwife / cuckold husband marriages tend to work best if the hot wife is the dominant partner. I suggest moving in this direction by introducing your sexy wife to:

Real Women Don't Do Housework
Real Women Don't Do Housework

(Lady Misato, the author of this site, notes that the title is somewhat tongue-in-cheek.) Here, I suggest your wife start with the "marriage quiz" (or not, her choice), then work her way down through the chapters listed at upper left, starting with the "Introduction."

Doing so may help you and your wife come to a mutual appreciation that not only is it her privilege and prerogative to date, seduce, and fuck whomever she wishes, while you agree to remain faithful to her (as I gather you are now doing), but also to kiss and do whatever else she wishes to do with her lovers, while you are fully accepting of that.

Spot on.

 

[2wheel]

For me the kissing is real difficult. I have no problem with another guy sticking his dick in her pussy, or filling her with his cum BUT I have a real problem with him sticking his tongue in her mouth.

 

[SlutwivesRock]

For me the kissing is real difficult. I have no problem with another guy sticking his dick in her pussy, or filling her with his cum BUT I have a real problem with him sticking his tongue in her mouth.

That's because it's actually more intimate...and indicative of more romantic attachment between the partners.

 

[JeffCA]

Hi all -

First post here. Love the site just haven't been using it much. But I am 36 wife is 34 and have been sharing her with my friends for over 2 years. She has been great to me and I find it so sexy to watch her with them. But recently, she started kissing them. I don't get why but not a big fan of that when she does. I know she does more with them but kissing seems to not go well with me. Is that normal? Do other cuckolds feel this way? And why kiss?

Do you think she is simply aroused orally? Has she had threesomes a lot and likes feeling her mouth stimulated when she is getting penetrated?

 

[2wheel]

That's because it's actually more intimate...and indicative of more romantic attachment between the partners.

I agree with your analysis. Romance, for us is not in the cards, it's all about sex and only sex. This isn't just my outlook it's hers as well. BUT kissing for her also has a sexual component, it is an immediate turn-on and arousal booster. So I love the sexual boost while hating the romance. She's been very considerate of my feelings by limiting her kissing and I'm very appreciative of that.

 

[SharesLatinWife]

Welcome!

Hey.... whatever works for you.

Please, no "buts." Those are ideal ages for you and your sexy wife to have a hotwife / cuckold husband form of marriage.

Very good. It sounds like you have the right attitude toward your marriage, and your sexy wife has been taking action, accordingly, to broaden her sexual horizons thus increasing both her sexual and psychological satisfaction.

It's very positive that your hotwife allows you to watch her fucking your friends in front of you, her cuckold husband, and... in addition... that she treats you well.

That's OK. It's perfectly normal for your wife to kiss her lovers — and if she does that in your presence, that too is positive. I suspect your negative feelings about that are a result of you feeling that you, somehow, should be in charge of your wife's sex life. But, that's not part of your role as her cuckold.

Yes.

Probably there are some who do and others who don't.

Because kissing, including deep tongue-kissing, is a natural component of human sexuality. And, it can be an expression of affection for a lover carried out in public, or in front of a cuckold husband (you, in this case), without any need to take the time to undress first.

Hotwife / cuckold husband marriages tend to work best if the hotwife is the dominant partner. I suggest moving in this direction by introducing your sexy wife to:

Real Women Don't Do Housework
Real Women Don't Do Housework

(Lady Misato, the author of this site, notes that the title is somewhat tongue-in-cheek.) Here, I suggest your wife start with the "marriage quiz" (or not, her choice), then work her way down through the chapters listed at upper left, starting with the "Introduction."

Doing so may help you and your wife come to a mutual appreciation that not only is it her privilege and prerogative to date, seduce, and fuck whomever she wishes, while you agree to remain faithful to her (as I gather you are now doing), but also to kiss and do whatever else she wishes to do with her lovers, while you are fully accepting of that.

The more you bring yourself to accept that it is your wife's privilege and prerogative to do whatever she wishes with her lovers, while you support her with that to whatever extent she needs, the more you will realize the fruits of the saying: "If your wife is happy, you will be happy too."

Wow that was very in depth. Thank you for your response. I think your suggestion of introducing her to this is a good idea. I am the one who goes online a lot, more so lately since she has been kissing. But if I can get her to join me here and perhaps share discussions with others in the lifestyle, might be good for us. She is very open and got involved more so because of her. I guess that is what this is all about, her. And she had decided to go with men we know as opposed to strangers which I preferred.

I totally understand what you say about kissing. That is an aspect that I really love, kissing her and having her passionately kiss me. Guess I just need to understand it is part of the lifestyle now. Doubt it will happen overnight but what you have said here will help. Let's see how I progress.

 

[SharesLatinWife]

Do you think she is simply aroused orally? Has she had threesomes a lot and likes feeling her mouth stimulated when she is getting penetrated?

She enjoys kissing I know that because of how she kisses me during sex. I guess what threw me off was seeing her kiss these guys. Especially since for at least the first year she never kissed them. Seem more about the sex then. They had tried to kiss her in the past but she would turn her head or not meet their lips. Now all of a sudden she reaches out for them. Very different for me.

 

[KristinS]

Many couples will not kiss because it is so personal and touches their inner feelings too much. My husband and I have been swinging for 7 years and enjoy kissing others while we are fucking with other couples. I have ****** men to kiss me infront of their wives and my hubby has kissed other women in front of their hubbies who had refused to kiss while fucking. Numerous men I have been with dislike watching their wives in passionate kissing. Their emotions go wild when wife kisses another man.

 

[SlutwivesRock]

Many couples will not kiss because it is so personal and touches their inner feelings too much. My husband and I have been swinging for 7 years and enjoy kissing others while we are fucking with other couples. I have ****** men to kiss me infront of their wives and my hubby has kissed other women in front of their hubbies who had refused to kiss while fucking. Numerous men I have been with dislike watching their wives in passionate kissing. Their emotions go wild when wife kisses another man.

Exactly.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Wow that was very in depth. Thank you for your response.

Hey.... you're welcome, SharesLatinWife.

I think your suggestion of introducing her to this is a good idea.

If by "this" you mean the site, "Real Women Don't Do Housework" — yes, I recommend that (as I mentioned above). Lady Misato's approach is quite psychological, and has good potential, I would say, for increasing the closeness of your relationship with your wife and making it more intensely erotic. I'll also note that the author, Lady Misato (a pseudonym), does not explicitly recommend a married woman take lovers. The approach she recommends, however, in her series of chapters, is well suited to a hotwife / cuckold husband marriage such as yours.

I am the one who goes online a lot, more so lately since [my wife] has been kissing [her lovers].

Maybe that's because your wife is a busy woman....

But, if I can get her to join me here and perhaps share discussions with others [who are] in the lifestyle, [that] might be good for us.

Could be. There seems to be a fairly large, and increasing, online literature about hot wife / cuckold husband marriages and relationships, in which the woman is free to date, seduce and fuck whomever she wishes, while her husband pledges to remain faithful to her (and actually does so). You might get your wife started by suggesting she read, in addition to "Real Women Don't Do Housework," the following:

The cuckold husband / hotwife phenomena, by Dr. Cherry Lee, Ph.D.:
The Cuckold Phenomena

The Science of Cuckoldry, by sex therapist and relationships counselor Susan Gower:
The Science of Cuckoldry

Both articles are well-written, relatively short and easy to read (and are non-pornographic). I suspect your sexy wife would find them quite interesting and informative.

[My wife] is very open, and [we] got involved [in this lifestyle] more so because of her.

Good. I like that.

I guess that is what this is all about, her.

Yes, you have it right. A married woman who expands her sexual horizons by taking lovers also tends to increase her self-confidence and psychological well-being, since it becomes obvious to her she is capable of attracting the physical attentions of men other than her husband.

And she decided to go with men we know, as opposed to strangers which I preferred.

That's natural. It's easier for a married woman to fuck men she knows, who are thus likely to be her and her husband's friends, than men she doesn't know, whose responses may be unpredictable. This increases the psychological difficulty for the cuckold husband (you, in this case) by making it necessary for him to live with the knowledge that his friends, and often his co-workers, are fucking his wife — or want to, and probably will. Some... perhaps many... cuckolds, however, find that this is an aspect of their wife's promiscuity that turns them on.

I totally understand what you say about kissing.

Good.

That is an aspect I really love, kissing her and having her passionately kiss me.

I agree, passionate kissing is an important aspect of you and your wife expressing your love and your emotional connection with each other. Another way to express your emotional connection, whenever your wife comes home after fucking a lover, would be for you to clean her pussy with your tongue. Your wife could accomplish this by mounting your face while you lie on your back on your bed, and riding your face while you suck and lick her lover's cum from her pussy (and swallow it). Alternatively, you could kneel between her legs while sucking and licking her lover's cum from her pussy, giving her (one hopes) another orgasm in that way.

I guess I just need to understand [kissing] is part of the lifestyle now.

Yes.... kissing appeals to your wife and her lovers for the same reasons it appeals to you. It's an aspect of her and their sexuality.

I doubt it will happen [i.e., that I'll become comfortable with my wife kissing her lovers] overnight, but what you have said here will help. Let's see how I progress.

I wish you and your wife continued success with your relationship. It appears to me that both of you are on the right track.

 

[singaporesling]

Kissing is very erotic, and I quite enjoy seeing my wife kissing and being kissed before, during and after being fucked. After all, its about her enjoyment as much as it is about mine, and she finds it much more erotic, and therefore more enjoyable, to kiss whilst being fucked than not. I sometimes find it really exciting to kiss her myself, while someone else is balls deep inside her, or to see her kissing one guy while another is fucking her. So for us, kissing enhances, rather than detracts, from our enjoyment.

 

[old fred]

That's because it's actually more intimate...and indicative of more romantic attachment between the partners.

I completly agree with this statement. The first time I watched my wife kissing a young Japanese guy, it got my attention. It was the intimacy, somehow more intimate that when she sucked his cock. I made it a point to be kissing her when he fucked her. I could feel her orgasm and the kiss was the greatest.

 

[SharesLatinWife]

I completly agree with this statement. The first time I watched my wife kissing a young Japanese guy, it got my attention. It was the intimacy, somehow more intimate that when she sucked his cock. I made it a point to be kissing her when he fucked her. I could feel her orgasm and the kiss was the greatest.

It is difficult. Just went through it again this past weekend. Haven't talk to wife about it again but need to.

 

[Gliderider]

My wife gets very turned on when she kisses. For that reason it doesn't bother me. I just figure it's all part of the foreplay.

 

[old fred]

It is difficult. Just went through it again this past weekend. Haven't talk to wife about it again but need to.

My wife is Mexican and was a virgin when we married and was a very straight laced lady. She and I were both really surprised how much she loved sucking cocks when she first went hot wife and the more of a ***** she became, the more we both enjoyed it. I admit that it is more intimate seeing her kissing a guy than seeing her DPed and a cock in her mouth. I love it when she takes a load in her mouth and "snowballs" me, give that one a try. Kissing her with his cum in her mouths is very erotic.

 

[Bishot]

The idea of it used to bother me, when I was at the stage of just fantasizing about hotwifing. It's a threshold that I crossed at some point, and it's now a big turn-on to see and hear about, when she makes out with another guy.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Hi all - First post here. Love the site just haven't been using it much. But I am 36 wife is 34 and have been sharing her with my friends for over 2 years. She has been great to me and I find it so sexy to watch her with them. But recently, she started kissing them. I don't get why but not a big fan of that when she does. I know she does more with them but kissing seems to not go well with me. Is that normal? Do other cuckolds feel this way? And why kiss?

As I said, SharesLatinWife: your wife kissing her lovers is a natural expression of her affection for them. Please get used to it. I, and others on this forum, would appreciate it if you wold verify that your have become accustomed to accepting this natural expression of your wife's love for her lovers.