Jerry,
Thanks for your well-written, articulate, erotic description of your wife's steamy extramarital sexual adventure.
JerryB96 said:
Later in the evening we finally had some quiet time (and a few glasses of wine) to really get into the details.
Sounds like the right way to have done it. It’s very positive, of course, that your wife tells you about her sexual experiences with her lover(s)…
JerryB96 said:
We talked about the picture they took and texted to me. I told her how the picture awoke those cuckold feelings in me – seeing that she was with another man, barely dressed. I told her I had forgotten how much I liked the humiliation aspect of our cuckold relationship.
Good, good… you responded appropriately...
JerryB96 said:
She said that she was sure I would like the photo, mainly because her boyfriend was the one taking it.
Your wife knows you well...
JerryB96 said:
.... [My wife] said she had two really good orgasms. When they were done she looked over and realized they left the balcony doors wide open, and there was a condo building right across the way that had a full view into the room. She took a quick look, and said she couldn’t see that anyone was watching them. But, who knows!
Awright, I like it...
Jerry,
Thanks for your well-written, erotic descriptions of your wife's steamy extramarital sexual adventures.
JerryB96 said:
Later in the evening we finally had some quiet time (and a few glasses of wine) to really get into the details.
Sounds like the right way to do it...
JerryB96 said:
We talked about the picture that they took and texted to me. I told her how the picture awoke those cuckold feelings in me – seeing that she was with another man, barely dressed. I told her I had forgotten how much I liked the humiliation aspect of our cuckold relationship.
You responded appropriately...
JerryB96 said:
She said that she was sure I would like the photo, mainly because her boyfriend took it.
Your wife knows you well...
JerryB96 said:
.... My wife said she had two really good orgasms. When they were done she looked over and realized they left the balcony doors wide open; there was a condo building right across the way that had a full view into the room. She took a quick look, and said that she couldn’t see that anyone was watching them. But, who knows!
Awright, I like it...
JerryB96 said:
She also said the evening had a surprising start; the reason she went so early was, so [she and her lover] could spend some time hanging out at the hotel rooftop pool lounge which is a “pretty happening” place. She said the bartender seemed to be paying particular attention to them, always checking in and trying to drum up conversation. He was throwing in nice compliments, saying things like what a good looking couple they are…
Meaning, of course, what a hot-looking woman your wife is…
JerryB96 said:
She seemed to relish telling me this, recognizing she was continuing to stir up my feelings of cuckold humiliation.
Obviously, your wife knows how to play you…
JerryB96 said:
She went on to say that when [her lover] Scott stepped away to the men’s room, the bartender started flirting heavily with her and became more direct with his compliments. She said it didn’t dawn on her until then that this guy was really hitting on her, laying it on thick.
Hey, what self-respecting bartender wouldn’t…?
JerryB96 said:
It kind of caught her off guard, since we’ve been in parenthood for the last six+ years…
Right…
JerryB96 said:
She thought he was cute, so she played along, flirting back. Then, he asked if she thought “her husband” would want another drink. She quickly replied that he wasn’t her husband.
Excellent; evidently your wife is straightforward about her sexuality. This too is very positive, needless to say…
JerryB96 said:
She said she realized just what a funny turn the situation had taken, since clearly she and her lover Scott where there as a couple, while her wedding ring was clearly telling the bartender she was married.
There’s nothing “odd” about that situation at all. It’s proper , appropriate, and indeed important for a married woman to always wear her wedding rings when she’s out with her lover(s). There are multiple reasons for this. One is, it increases her sex appeal because it keeps her lover reminded he’s partaking of “forbidden fruit.” Also, it helps keep him reminded there’s a chance, however slight, their assignation may result in pregnancy — and if it does, he’ll successfully propagate his genes to the next generation (a biological imperative) without any responsibility for supporting and raising the resulting child (because her husband, you in this case, would do that). In addition, if one or more other men (the bartender, in this case) recognize she’s out with a man she isn’t married to, there’s a strong chance of that increasing, potentially, the number of men available to her for extramarital sex.
JerryB96 said:
When they were ready to leave, and my wife was paying the bill for the drinks…
Very good. It’s totally appropriate for a married woman who’s out with a lover, especially if he’s a man of lesser means, to pay. (It also indicates to others that she’s “in charge” of the relationship.)
JerryB96 said:
The bartender comped them half of their drinks, and wrote a short thank you note on the bill that included his phone number. On their way out, she said she texted him a thank you for taking some of the drinks off the bill, and he responded telling her to come by his bar anytime – he will take care of her.
Your wife handled the bartender scene masterfully…
JerryB96 said:
She hasn’t texted him back yet, but we talked about maybe sometime in the next couple of weeks where either we might go there together, or she might go by herself. I thought it would be nice to go and pretend to not know each other, so I can watch him hit on her. We’ll see. It’s always tough for us to go out together because we have to coordinate sitters for the kids. Usually, when we do that, we like to have a kid-free evening together.
Going back there with your wife (or to any other bar where she wants to seek a potential lover), but going in separately and pretending you don’t know each other, such that you sit alone at a table and watch the action, seems like a good way of reducing risk to her. Perhaps a way to do it would be to line up a babysitter for your children, then — when your wife meets her lover-for-the-evening (if she does) — she could text you (say, from the women’s restroom) with info re. his name and the address they’re going to , or if it’s a conference hotel, the room number. If she doesn’t know him, it would be entirely reasonable for her to ask him to show her a photo ID, to verify he is who he says he is and obtain his residence address. (If he isn’t willing to show your wife his photo ID, I suggest she should write him off.) Then, relatively early in the evening, you could return home and relieve your babysitter.
JerryB96 said:
In the meantime, she mentioned to me in passing yesterday that she was looking to meet up for a bike ride with a different guy, John, that she hasn’t been with in a number of years. He is a physical trainer she had been with some 12-13 years ago, after we met him at a swingers club. They had sex a few times in the beginning, but he was never a full time lover.
From the point of view of your wife’s safety, this sounds better than the bartender (assuming she takes suitable precautions, in both cases, to avoid picking up an STD).
JerryB96 said:
They actually developed a friendship beyond the bedroom. It’s possible she intends just a bike ride…
Of course. Anything’s possible…
JerryB96 said:
… but, the timing is interesting. My gut tells me it may be a bike ride followed by some personal training. …. — Jer
That would be my guess. Will look forward to hearing more about your sexy wife’s erotic adventures.
—Custer
