Wife wants to do it, but doesn't

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Well the wife and myself have been watching IR porn for at least 5 years.
At first I found myself enjoying watching IR porn, without wife knowing of course.
Then after a few years of hiding it, I asked my wife if she'd like to start watching some porn, she said sure. She knows I love big booty's, so I told her
let's look for some videos of girls with big booty's. She was game for that (btw she loves women too).

So I find a Phat Ass White Girl video to watch. I think it was one with Lex or Mandigo in it. Anyways video starts with the chick shaking her junk and whatnot, then Lex or Mandigo enters and I look at her and look surprised and asked if that was a problem and if I should turn it off. Of course she's like "no it's ok".
Well when I got her panties off she was sooooo fucking wet it was crazy.
So right then and there I knew she liked it.
Again this was years ago.

We have an incredible sex life (even after being together for nearly 20 years).
I have no problems satisfying her and always make sure she's finished before I am. So no problems there, we're just looking to spice it up.
It's funny cause at first when she would say she only wanted 1 the first time, but now she's watched so many she wants to get all her holes filled.
She likes to fuck like the girls on the videos and all these IR videos have made her even more of a freak in bed.
For years we've been saying we're going to get a hotel room sometime and finally do it (have her fuck a BBC or 2 or even 3), but then she has her second thoughts, which I respect.


I understand she's worried about us and if it would do anything to our relationship, she's also worried about catching something.
I tell her I think she's worried about enjoying it too much.

So for you women in relationships, how do you know when you're ready
to take it to the next level?

How many of you women in relationships keep it as a fantasy?

What about you guys, when do you know it's safe (I guess you'd call it that) to help your wife with her fantasy?

Also how do you go about finding someone?

We're not sure about doing something like that in the city we live in.
We've actually looked on CL before trying to set something up, but nobody seems to be real on there or at least they don't want to verify they are real.
We really don't want to do that with some strangers, but on the same note, we don't want to do that with anyone we know.

So any help, advice, tips, or anything for us?
 
any pics?
 
Nope, We're not here to post pictures of my wife for you guys.
We're here for answers and help.
 
Pics for answers...

It's not that hard. Get to know the guy you're going to meet very well. Make friends. Ask for proof of health status.
 
Well I guess I'll find a forum with adults in it and not just horny kids trying to get a free look at people wives.
 
Porn stars get tested.

There's also clubs and parties where everyone gets tested before.

Both have the advantage of less chance of emotional attachment since they're not personal.