I ussually left that up to the SWF or MWC I was with.
When I lived alone...I hosted a lot because a lot of couples have families and really can't play at home...but there were plenty of times I would go to their places...and only a few hotel meetings.
I will say this there is something especially hot about a hotel meeting... dunno maybe that's just me.
We usually go to a upscale hotel...and hubby waits for me in the lounge if he isnt invited to join in. We feel the upscale provides better security and atmosphere.
Never ever at our place. Our kink is our business and nothing to do with neighbours or anyone else. Most of all, an Englishmans' home is his castle - even a cuck
Hotel at first...a bit of luxuary...spoil the lady... then after a few meets...my place where she knows she is now mine... and then the ultimate kick...is her place, especialy if married...nothing like christening a marital bed...
I have found that a hotel is the best. I prefer one with a nice lounge in the lobby, makes for a nice meeting place, and then if the chemistry is there, the room is not far away. Motels can be less plush so I try to avoid them. I have had men request the use of my home but I have always thought that was not the best idea.
hotels are great to play, but nothing beats doing a slut wife in her marital bed. So hot so kinky so powerful to take her there, with hubby watching or not.
a hotel should be the first place your wife should be with him firstly its a netural place where after the first meeting if your wife doesnt want to keep seeing him your wife and yourself wont feel your own home area has been invaded .second you may have children at home and this may may it hard for your wife to enjoy being with him
It's either a motel, hotel, or his place if I'm comfortable with him. Never my place. I keep this part of my life completely separate. While a serious date would be no different regardless of the color, I do have a professional image to make an effort to keep up anyway.
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Pooch said:
hotels are great to play, but nothing beats doing a slut wife in her marital bed. So hot so kinky so powerful to take her there, with hubby watching or not.
Didn't see 'Club' mentioned - which is also an option, as in Swing Club...
Greater probability of multiple men there too.
We tend to meet at home - as someone said, there is something mighty nice about her being inseminated in her own bed, plus the smell of him/it tends to linger which makes for a hot night afterwards... if she so desires.
Equally, hotels are exciting, agree with all of that. That said, we tried a slightly downmarket motel once and the slightly seedy/sleezy ambiance was exciting too - made things feel more 'illicit' and tabu...