Recent content by whatevur

I talked to JoAnn a lot over the past few weeks and asked her to stop seeing dad. She told dad that she still has feeling for me and wants some time apart to think about things. I wasn't happy that she didn't just completely break up with him, she gave him some hope yet but I feel better about...

ive been in a pretty bad place recently. I dont have much to say.I turned off my phone & stuff and went offline for a few weeks after I learned the truth. when i checked my phone i had a bunch of missed calls and texts from joann and andrea. I ignored them. eventually andrea drove joann up...

I went home again last friday for the weekend. I went a bit early to try to look around again for evidence. I didn't expect dad to be home yet but when I opened the door I saw dad on the couch with JoAnn on his lap facing him. She was topless and he was sucking on her breasts. He wasn't *******...

I don't understand you guys. The only reason for dad to break up with JoAnn is due to lack of sex. If he's getting it somewhere else he has no reason to break up with her. I WANT HIM TO BREAK UP WITH HER. I want to get her back for myself. I suppose this helps the immediate problem if dad...

You guys don't think I should tell her? I was hoping she would have the reaction of getting mad at dad and breaking up with him.

O SHIT GUYS BIG UPDATE. DAD CHEATED ON JOANN.I WENT HOME FOR THE WEEKEND AND FOUND A USED CONDOM IN THE TRASHCAN. AT FIRST I STARTED PANICKING THINKING HE HAD SEX WITH JOANN BUT THEN I FOUND A FEW CIGARETTE BUTTS IN THE ASHTRAY-DAD DOESNT SMOKE NOR DOES JOANN SO ITS ANOTHER WOMAN. I ALSO...

I've been talking with JoAnn a lot. I've also been going to see her frequently.Andrea has still been helping me and coaching me through this. She told me that In regular conversation I should start referring to Joann as 'dads girlfriend' or 'his girlfriend' more, and dad as 'Joann's boyfriend'...

Okay a few things have happened.Last week I was surprised when I logged into Facebook and at the top of my feed was of JoAnn "in a relationship with (my dad)" Along with a few pictures posted.WOW. What a shock. I knew this was coming but I thought it would take a bit longer. I thought she...

I haven't posted just because not much has happened. I few weeks ago JoAnn started telling dad she loved him, so I got crushed a bunch of times hearing that. Of course he repeated it back to her.Other than that I moved back to go to work, so i'm living a distance from her again. We had a great...

someone above asked if I was living with dad. Yeah i've been living with him for the last few weeks since theres no reason for me to stay at my other place with everything thats going on. My job hasn't quite shut down, but Im not part of the essential staff so i haven't worked for a while...

Believe me I've kept an eye on that condom box. They are all still there.

I don't know if her advice is good or not. I'm thinking of seeing a real professional to get a second opinion. I'm also not sure if I genuinely want to accept this. I don't want to turn into a cuckold. It shouldnt be a choice between that or me being hurt and depressed.Maybe youre right I dont...

Why do you guys keep saying stuff like this? Have you not read my previous entries? She's very religious and shes promised me she wont have sex with him. I have seen no signs or evidence to suggest otherwise. I don't know what kind of messed up over-sexxed world you guys come from, but some...

I talked to Andrea this last week. She's been in contact with JoAnn and probably know more about their relationship than me. JoAnn continues to assure me that thing with my dad are just dating, and nothing sexual will happen. I believe her.When I talked to Andrea, she assured me the same...

I've been talking to JoAnn a bit more since I'm home. She's been very reassuring to me. She keeps assuring me that she loves me and that this is just a temporary non-sexual thing with dad so that she can have a 'boyfriend' that she can actually go out with.I'm only posting on this site because...