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There’s more to being a Cuckold.

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The cuckold fantasy is strange for many people even those who have it themselves and hard to understand because there is so much more to it than the obvious.

For many jealousy is a massive component to the whole thing and the torment that brings becomes addictive with its heightened emotions.

For the man it’s his instinct when he finds his partner desirable and sexy to realise that other men also find her sexy and feel jealousy. As well as the masculine instinct of competition to set in making him try harder in the relationship and please his partner more.
For some reason other men fancying his partner becomes strangely erotic and arousing to him and the torment is addictive.

For the woman this jealousy and torment along with his dirty fantasy that he likes the idea becomes a tool she can use to keep her partner very hot and bothered. Totally aroused and eager to please her the more she makes him jealous and torments him.

This can be even subtle things like mentioning a guy who flirted with her or someone she finds attractive or wearing something extra sexy to go somewhere or work. Again it’s playing on the natural competitive instinct in the man and drives him crazy with lust.
It’s all about the tease that makes him believe that she is aware of how sexy she is but also that she is interested in other men.

This makes the mans desire for her skyrocket at jealousy and torment kicks in and he is chewing her leg off to please her. Giving the woman a huge power over the man because of his dirty fantasy of her sleeping with other men.

This is another thing the man finds somehow very arousing the realisation that she has this control and power over the situation knowing he has expressed his fantasy to her.
For some reason the jealousy and torment is what turns him on and he actually wants her to abuse his weakness by teasing him, reminding him she could go with one of those men, pretending she will or is going to sleep with this guy or that so he never knows or ultimately actually doing it.

The more she abuses her position of power by being nasty and teasing him the more he is aroused and desires her.
The more she threatens to make him pay and teach him a lesson for his dirty perversion the more horny he gets.
To the point he never knows when or whether it’s ever true what’s she’s saying.

For the woman she can now virtually keep her man constantly aroused full of desire for her and tormented by her sexuality.
She will be so teasing and tormenting enjoying his arousal and utter torment even being nasty knowing this adds to it.

She will make him believe she has decided to make him pay or just met a guy she fancies so is going to use his fantasy to get what she wants and sleep with this guy blaming him.
She will make it always real wether it is or not so he actually believes her and is at the highest point of arousal.
Even if he back out she must take control as that’s the ultimate turn on and let him think that she’s taking over and he can’t back out.
His masculinity will make him want to back out but she knows it arouses him at the same time so can use this against him arousing more torment that either she’s had enough of his fantasy and he must pay, that she thinks he’s a dirty pervert and deserves it or even that she’s just found a guy she fancies and is going to take advantage of the situation and blame him.
All these scenarios add to his torment and jealousy making him even more horny that she is going to ignore him trying to back out because he has his perverted fantasy.

He will never know until afterwards wether it was true or not and wether it ever is or not this keeps the whole fantasy 100% alive all the time and whenever they want.

A lot of sex is in the head and this is an intellectual game played with the mind in order for it to work.
Real teasing and tormenting is difficult to master and must be realistic and believable.

Playing the game is however fun and can have the man drooling over you constantly if you make him believe each time.
You did flirt with a guy with a huge bulge or even just notice one in front of him.
You have decided to invite a guy round, you have met a guy at work, anything at all to play the game torment and tease him so much abusing your position of power so he believes it so much that he’s literally a horny mess.

He will never know until after the tease if it was real and the possibility that one day it may be will always be there so he will be in a constant state of arousal wether it happens ever or not.

Not really a story but more of a theory hope it helps some people
 
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Appreciator said:
The cuckold fantasy is strange for many people even those who have it themselves and hard to understand because there is so much more to it than the obvious.

For many jealousy is a massive component to the whole thing and the torment that brings becomes addictive with its heightened emotions.

For the man it’s his instinct when he finds his partner desirable and sexy to realise that other men also find her sexy and feel jealousy. As well as the masculine instinct of competition to set in making him try harder in the relationship and please his partner more.
For some reason other men fancying his partner becomes strangely erotic and arousing to him and the torment is addictive.

For the woman this jealousy and torment along with his dirty fantasy that he likes the idea becomes a tool she can use to keep her partner very hot and bothered. Totally aroused and eager to please her the more she makes him jealous and torments him.

This can be even subtle things like mentioning a guy who flirted with her or someone she finds attractive or wearing something extra sexy to go somewhere or work. Again it’s playing on the natural competitive instinct in the man and drives him crazy with lust.
It’s all about the tease that makes him believe that she is aware of how sexy she is but also that she is interested in other men.

This makes the mans desire for her skyrocket at jealousy and torment kicks in and he is chewing her leg off to please her. Giving the woman a huge power over the man because of his dirty fantasy of her sleeping with other men.

This is another thing the man finds somehow very arousing the realisation that she has this control and power over the situation knowing he has expressed his fantasy to her.
For some reason the jealousy and torment is what turns him on and he actually wants her to abuse his weakness by teasing him, reminding him she could go with one of those men, pretending she will or is going to sleep with this guy or that so he never knows or ultimately actually doing it.

The more she abuses her position of power by being nasty and teasing him the more he is aroused and desires her.
The more she threatens to make him pay and teach him a lesson for his dirty perversion the more horny he gets.
To the point he never knows when or whether it’s ever true what’s she’s saying.

For the woman she can now virtually keep her man constantly aroused full of desire for her and tormented by her sexuality.
She will be so teasing and tormenting enjoying his arousal and utter torment even being nasty knowing this adds to it.

She will make him believe she has decided to make him pay or just met a guy she fancies so is going to use his fantasy to get what she wants and sleep with this guy blaming him.
She will make it always real wether it is or not so he actually believes her and is at the highest point of arousal.
Even if he back out she must take control as that’s the ultimate turn on and let him think that she’s taking over and he can’t back out.
His masculinity will make him want to back out but she knows it arouses him at the same time so can use this against him arousing more torment that either she’s had enough of his fantasy and he must pay, that she thinks he’s a dirty pervert and deserves it or even that she’s just found a guy she fancies and is going to take advantage of the situation and blame him.
All these scenarios add to his torment and jealousy making him even more horny that she is going to ignore him trying to back out because he has his perverted fantasy.

He will never know until afterwards wether it was true or not and wether it ever is or not this keeps the whole fantasy 100% alive all the time and whenever they want.

A lot of sex is in the head and this is an intellectual game played with the mind in order for it to work.
Real teasing and tormenting is difficult to master and must be realistic and believable.

Playing the game is however fun and can have the man drooling over you constantly if you make him believe each time.
You did flirt with a guy with a huge bulge or even just notice one in front of him.
You have decided to invite a guy round, you have met a guy at work, anything at all to play the game torment and tease him so much abusing your position of power so he believes it so much that he’s literally a horny mess.

He will never know until after the tease if it was real and the possibility that one day it may be will always be there so he will be in a constant state of arousal wether it happens ever or not.

Not really a story but more of a theory hope it helps some people
I. Couldn’t have put it any better
 

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