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  1. K

    I left my wife (a warning)

    Your actions will have zero impact in court. No fault is in almost all states. Judges have heard it all. If she stayed at home and supported your career you may need to pay more money. There are zero legal implications for adultery or similar. The rule is cookie cutter no fault. This is our...
  2. K

    I left my wife (a warning)

    My husband divorced me over this, but I was the one pursuing the lifestyle. He never wanted it.
  3. K

    When it all goes horribly wrong...

    What I was trying to show is some reality. Fantasy can get carried away and reality becomes skewed.I tried to get my husband into this lifestyle and it didn't work. I tried by putting him down and saying I needed another man. He left.Mac is a smart one, he has a great balance for...
  4. K

    When it all goes horribly wrong...

    Well, my story is a complete disaster.Like you, my ex husband was too strong and would never go for the idea. Obviously, from the "ex" part of husband you can tell we are divorced, and divorced because of this fantasy.A couple of therapists told me that the statistics are about 90%...
  5. K

    How stupid am I?

    I agree. Aren't there like 2-1 women to men looking for marriage? I remember this from the Post.Best of luck to you!
  6. K

    How stupid am I?

    Make sure she knows how you feel. Make sure she knows the consequences. Talk with her.There could be an ugly side to this that she can't yet even imagine.I don't care what anyone says, it is MUCH harder for a 40+ woman out there. This is from experience and being thrust into the...
  7. K

    Who owns the sperm in a husband's testicles?

    I get the idea, keep the husband locked up. But what if he cuts off the lock when another woman comes along? Not intending to spoil anyone's fun. I understand and respect all people.Lock up and deny your man if he wants it. But be mindful if and when it starts to get old.Could be...
  8. K

    How stupid am I?

    How old is your wife?
  9. K

    Psychology of a Cuckold

    Subd, again, I agree with points you bring up. I do think women cheat, as do men, and a lot of them.Women are probably more sly, but I have also talked with a number of women where their husbands were deceptive for very long period of time, but I would agree women could very well be...
  10. K

    Psychology of a Cuckold

    PS- I think it would be interesting to hear from an equal number of women on this subject. I would like this very much.
  11. K

    Psychology of a Cuckold

    Subd:Thank you for you response and helping me understand your position and views. What you say makes sense. Now, I want to give you a little more from my perspective.I seem to notice that men want this lifestyle more than women. This may not be true, but it seems men lead the way...
  12. K

    Psychology of a Cuckold

    subd: are you a nice guy?First, I need to say that Doc has told me I need to let this go and move on. I agree to some extent, or to a large extent on some level. However, there is an untold side to all of this that I think I need to tell, and I do it, sometimes on this site, and a lot on...
  13. K

    My Husband is a Cuck... and doesn't know more than 10% of it.

    I had many thoughts about wanting other men. I didn't do it but told my husband I wanted this; he was not accepting. I even tried to follow ideas from the Internet on ways to discount him and make him feel like less of a man.To my complete shock he divorced me. I am now without the love...
  14. K

    I need some help from the ladies

    Well, I wanted other men. My husband said if I was going to do other men he wanted other women. I said no to other women.What I have learned is that fantasy can mess with reality. Be solidly on the same page or don't pursue this lifestyle. There are a lot of women eager to take a...
  15. K

    Psychology of a Cuckold

    Thank you, Doc. I understand what you are saying.The holiday season was an interesting time.I am trying to keep my head on straight about this. In the beginning, I went off the deep end, started seeing therapists (not a bad thing), posting my regret at any website I could find, but have...
  16. K

    Psychology of a Cuckold

    PS--from my prior post. To be fair (something I am really trying to stick by) I also had some fairly hard reactions to my husbands talk of his prior women. One was not only attractive but stunning, and I would say most I knew about were attractive, and I carried some hard feelings about this...
  17. K

    Psychology of a Cuckold

    Thanks Marcus, I also enjoy reading your posts.It's amazing how different people can be and view things. When I even mentioned having sex with another man my husband would completely lose interest in sex. It was like castration with words. However, he also talked about other woman and for...
  18. K

    I want to experience my first DP

    You did a great job putting this in perspective.
  19. K

    Psychology of a Cuckold

    First, let me say I find this to be an interesting thread.Second, my opinion, as untrained and lacking of psychological professionalism and education as it may be, I get the basis of the emasculation part from the view of a non-professional.My husband frequently said that I was trying to...