So, an update.
Met at the bulls House just after lunch, he spent a couple of hours talking to us, putting us at ease, enjoying a few drinks to relax before heading upstairs.
We didn't leave until gone 9pm and can honestly say that all the angst and doubts we'd built up in our minds and between our conversations proved to be totally unfounded, we had such an amazing time both of us and can't reccomend strongly enough taking the plunge if you're both considering but haven't yet plucked up the courage to jump.
Take your time, find the right guy and you'll not look back.
We're meeting him again next weekend and expect he'll be becoming a major part of our lives from here on.