Seems like a lot of people are having an issue logging into chat since we updated. Here is what you need to do: Logout of the chat and forums, clear your cache and cookies. Log back in to the forum, then login to the chat with the same user/pass you use for the forums.
Don't you worry!!! There are many, many men interested in a woman as good looking as you. They may not live near enough; or they feel hesitant coming on to someone as attractive as you; or maybe they feel too old or any combination of the three. But, trust me, there are many, many men interested in you. Personally, I wish I lived closer. Maybe you would like to visit Arizona this winter on my dime.