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She is a keeper, so treat her with great respect, and you can have her in your life for many years.
Develop a great relationship with her husband so that he can FEEL how much value you are adding to their marriage.
If he is a cuckold wannabe with submissive tendencies, then you would probably be wise to bitch-fuck his ass, so he can have a taste of what you are giving his wife.
Give them both sound reasons to include you in their life, so when you are not around, they know something important is missing. When they see you again, their faces will show you how pleased that you are back.