I have but I am sure the words were different. It was the 80's and it was about me getting with black MEN! I just remembered it was a funeral and people who knew me a long time were wondering why I was in a little black dress. Funeral was for a friend of Grandpa's from our church. Neighborhood had changed there. Lots more blk men then. Gramp And Daddy so proud I was getting seCoupledateblk said:Has any one been socially introduced to other ppl as new in the lifestyle?
Coupledateblk said:It was 6+yrs ago , that this happen to me . It was a way of me "coming out" both as a couple and as a femm. I was shy about it , my 1st time meet other ppl in this type of community. I was femm dress but light make-up , and no wig. I had a femm cut hairstyle. I mostly stand next to my wife and our then 1st blk man. I was so surprised as how many ppl I knew and how I never knew them to be in anything like this . It was as if I now looked at the real world. The ppl that were so high up in our society and my church as well. Still I felt welcome by them but they now knew that I have step into this world having been blk f$%%ked , that was the whole point of us being there.