Hello,
I got to know about this website on internet and thought may be I may find think alike people or people with similar situation to give some serious advice.
I am in a relationship from past 7 years with my beautifulI girlfriend and soon planning to get married and start our marriage life,like all relationships we had our ups and downs.
In last 7 years my sexual desires have hit another level and I want to try different sexual lifestyle, positions and fantasies but for my girlfriend it is vice versa. We used to have sex everyday in our initial years and now it has come down to twice a month or thrice if i am lucky. We have already talked about it so many times about me being sexually active all the time and her only on few occasions but it has not improved our situation. Now I feel like I am getting horny day by day and when I ask her she is also admitting to be horny and feels for me but she doesn't want to have sex as much as I do which eventually makes me masturbate.
In last 1 year I have been watching only IR porn and developed a feeling of sharing or seeing her with some another man or BBC(though I don't know if we have many BBC around in our country)but since she is not having sex with me on many occasions how will I ask her to have sex with other men for me to see and give visual pleasure of satisfaction. Do you think if she has sex with other men it might boost her sexual energy which seems to be dying everyday? Or there is something else ?
I don't know how to go about it when our sex life is not excited anymore. Is there a way I can make her feel sexual again? Have any of you been to such situation? What did you do to resolve it?
My girlfriend details
33 years , 5'7 feet, 34B , 75 kg.
Note: very restrictive in sex like no blowjob's, no kissing her after licking her pussy etc etc...could be a different post for that for sure .
Thanks
I got to know about this website on internet and thought may be I may find think alike people or people with similar situation to give some serious advice.
I am in a relationship from past 7 years with my beautifulI girlfriend and soon planning to get married and start our marriage life,like all relationships we had our ups and downs.
In last 7 years my sexual desires have hit another level and I want to try different sexual lifestyle, positions and fantasies but for my girlfriend it is vice versa. We used to have sex everyday in our initial years and now it has come down to twice a month or thrice if i am lucky. We have already talked about it so many times about me being sexually active all the time and her only on few occasions but it has not improved our situation. Now I feel like I am getting horny day by day and when I ask her she is also admitting to be horny and feels for me but she doesn't want to have sex as much as I do which eventually makes me masturbate.
In last 1 year I have been watching only IR porn and developed a feeling of sharing or seeing her with some another man or BBC(though I don't know if we have many BBC around in our country)but since she is not having sex with me on many occasions how will I ask her to have sex with other men for me to see and give visual pleasure of satisfaction. Do you think if she has sex with other men it might boost her sexual energy which seems to be dying everyday? Or there is something else ?
I don't know how to go about it when our sex life is not excited anymore. Is there a way I can make her feel sexual again? Have any of you been to such situation? What did you do to resolve it?
My girlfriend details
33 years , 5'7 feet, 34B , 75 kg.
Note: very restrictive in sex like no blowjob's, no kissing her after licking her pussy etc etc...could be a different post for that for sure .
Thanks