Cuckold performance anxiety!

[4julie]

Am I the only cuckold to suffer from cuckold performance anxiety?

I detailed yesterday about how on one occasion my wife was lying legs wide waiting for me to take my turn for sloppy seconds but because the man who had just fucked her was so much bigger and thicker then me – and as he stood watching me with a semi flaccid cock that was still so much bigger than mine, the erection I’d had watching him cum in my wife vanished as I edged between her legs. My little dick all of a sudden was soft and no coaxing by me, my wife, both hands and mouth would gring my erection back.

I had many times had sloppy seconds when my wife came home after being fucked but this first time, when I was presented with a freshly fucked pussy leaking cum, the thought of being so much smaller than him, what my wife would think of my little cock so soon after his and most of all having this superior male watching me, meant I suffered ‘big’ time from cuckold performance anxiety, am I am the only cuckold on here who has suffered in this way?

Has any other cuckold on here failed to rise to the occasion to exploit sloppy seconds with his wife and cuckolder watching?

 

[Son of John]

I've been there! Your situation is not all that unique. It is hard to "perform" when you have just seen another guy give your wife the kind of fucking that you cannot.

My only advice would be to not let it get to you. Be glad that she has been fucked so well, and enjoy the moment with her.

As for the other big-dicked guy being there to see your agony, that is part of life. There are probably other things you can do better than he does.

I definitely encourage you to keep on sharing her pussy with other men. That is who "we" are; pussy-providers for those who can really do the job.

 

[duke9555]

Am I the only cuckold to suffer from cuckold performance anxiety?

I detailed yesterday about how on one occasion my wife was lying legs wide waiting for me to take my turn for sloppy seconds but because the man who had just fucked her was so much bigger and thicker then me – and as he stood watching me with a semi flaccid cock that was still so much bigger than mine, the erection I’d had watching him cum in my wife vanished as I edged between her legs. My little dick all of a sudden was soft and no coaxing by me, my wife, both hands and mouth would gring my erection back.

I had many times had sloppy seconds when my wife came home after being fucked but this first time, when I was presented with a freshly fucked pussy leaking cum, the thought of being so much smaller than him, what my wife would think of my little cock so soon after his and most of all having this superior male watching me, meant I suffered ‘big’ time from cuckold performance anxiety, am I am the only cuckold on here who has suffered in this way?

Has any other cuckold on here failed to rise to the occasion to exploit sloppy seconds with his wife and cuckolder watching?

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oh please Mary
stop tryin to act like a man
it doesn't suit you

 

[4julie]

Thanks SoJ

I've been there! Your situation is not all that unique. It is hard to "perform" when you have just seen another guy give your wife the kind of fucking that you cannot.

My only advice would be to not let it get to you. Be glad that she has been fucked so well, and enjoy the moment with her.

As for the other big-dicked guy being there to see your agony, that is part of life. There are probably other things you can do better than he does.

I definitely encourage you to keep on sharing her pussy with other men. That is who "we" are; pussy-providers for those who can really do the job.

Well I did manage to fuck her in private later that night when we got home but lack of erections at those times did plague me more and more as time went on, as I well know performance anxiety gets worse and worse the more often you can't perform.

That was some 7-8 years ago and my impotence kicked in some 4-5 years ago to the point where it's a few years since I last had an erection or could get myself off even soft.

Then a few months ago she and I split up over family finances so it's all academic as regards being her cuck.

 

[4julie]

Contrary Mary!

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oh please Mary
stop tryin to act like a man
it doesn't suit you

Hmm is that the BiGuy calling the cuckold queer?

No one on here more contrary than you Duke!!!

 

[mimi27406]

Oh Julie

Am I the only cuckold to suffer from cuckold performance anxiety?

I detailed yesterday about how on one occasion my wife was lying legs wide waiting for me to take my turn for sloppy seconds but because the man who had just fucked her was so much bigger and thicker then me – and as he stood watching me with a semi flaccid cock that was still so much bigger than mine, the erection I’d had watching him cum in my wife vanished as I edged between her legs. My little dick all of a sudden was soft and no coaxing by me, my wife, both hands and mouth would gring my erection back.

I had many times had sloppy seconds when my wife came home after being fucked but this first time, when I was presented with a freshly fucked pussy leaking cum, the thought of being so much smaller than him, what my wife would think of my little cock so soon after his and most of all having this superior male watching me, meant I suffered ‘big’ time from cuckold performance anxiety, am I am the only cuckold on here who has suffered in this way?

Has any other cuckold on here failed to rise to the occasion to exploit sloppy seconds with his wife and cuckolder watching?

The question should be who hasn't. That is why we are cucks, just bury your face in her pussy and use your tounge to please.

Oh this is getting too honest

 

[duke9555]

The question should be who hasn't. That is why we are cucks, just bury your face in her pussy and use your tounge to please.

Oh this is getting too honest

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how true Mimi we're a fine lot of confused
sexually maladroit impotent milquetoasts

 

[4julie]

It's the truth that hurts

The question should be who hasn't. That is why we are cucks, just bury your face in her pussy and use your tounge to please.

Oh this is getting too honest

I just wanted to bring the real pain that one goes thorugh as a cuckold, too often on here being a cuckold is glamorized, to me there has been real growing pains and often I wa smoved to another level within cuckoldry by unforseen circumstances.

Mimi it's only when it becomes honest do we separate the real cuckolds from the dreamers.

 

[4julie]

Happy in our misery

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how true Mimi we're a fine lot of confused
sexually maladroit impotent milquetoasts

You say that like it's a bad thing Duke!!!!

 

[duke9555]

You say that like it's a bad thing Duke!!!!

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for the cognescenti it's a heavenly admixture
of pain and more exquisite pain ...........the cuck's
fate isn't an easy one

 

[4julie]

Cognescenti or Consignee?

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for the cognescenti it's a heavenly admixture
of pain and more exquisite pain ...........the cuck's
fate isn't an easy one

Some of us were born to be cucks, others of us had cuckoldry thust upon us!

Some seek out the pain and relish it, others learn to endure it because we accepted some time ago that as an enforced cuck - we just aren't man enough to be anything else.

 

[pooly]

I hate it when one of my wife's black lovers wants to watch 'us' fuck - that shit will make my little dick shrink like jumping into an icy lake!

So, I got some viagra and works, gives me bad heartburn but my dick stays hard.

Am I the only cuckold to suffer from cuckold performance anxiety?

I detailed yesterday about how on one occasion my wife was lying legs wide waiting for me to take my turn for sloppy seconds but because the man who had just fucked her was so much bigger and thicker then me – and as he stood watching me with a semi flaccid cock that was still so much bigger than mine, the erection I’d had watching him cum in my wife vanished as I edged between her legs. My little dick all of a sudden was soft and no coaxing by me, my wife, both hands and mouth would gring my erection back.

I had many times had sloppy seconds when my wife came home after being fucked but this first time, when I was presented with a freshly fucked pussy leaking cum, the thought of being so much smaller than him, what my wife would think of my little cock so soon after his and most of all having this superior male watching me, meant I suffered ‘big’ time from cuckold performance anxiety, am I am the only cuckold on here who has suffered in this way?

Has any other cuckold on here failed to rise to the occasion to exploit sloppy seconds with his wife and cuckolder watching?

 

[4julie]

Maybe the little blue pills might have worked some years ago, I'm long past the point where they would even get me hard for a few minutes and certainly not hard enough to enter a live pussy!

 

[Harry2614]

My solution!!

I have the ultimate solution. A few months ago, I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. Of the 3 options I was given, I chose Radiation Therapy combined with 'Hormone blocker' Lupron, that shut down production of Testosterone. The urologist said "You won't get an erection and won't care if you don't"(he was right on both counts). Then he prescribed an injectable preperation called TRI-MIX (It has to be made in the pharmacy and refrigerated) TRI-MX was my salvation for the 6 mo. I was on Lupron It is better than Viagra, Cialis or any of those and even costs less. TRI-MIX gives you an erection without testosterone, and you don't even need stimulation. It will last for 3 hours, (4 if you put in too much). My wife loves seeing how long she can use it, and along with me licking her to orgasm, we are happier than ever with our Sex life. After 40 weeks of Radiation and 6 mo. of Lupron, which ended in Feb. 2010 I am slowly returning to 'normal' and the cancer is gone.
For those of you that have 'performance anxiety', I recommend asking your urologist for TRI-MIX
Harry

 

[shortstop]

not getting up

Hi 4Julie,
I found over many years that a better way was, after he'd finished, you all sat in the living room and had a drink. That way your wife gets a longer chance to compare your cocks just sitting there. (oviously you all stay nude) You get a good long look at how wet she is and , if he doesn't get dressed you get to take a good long look at his cock. Sometimes he will get hard enough for them to go again, often in front of you on the sofa, or in the bedroom where you can take their drinks and listen. This gives you plenty of time to get hard. Don't worry about tasting his cum it will still be there for a long while. Also if you don't get it up, all the more hurtful for you.