Does anyone else feel the lifestyle has caught on rapidly the last few years?

[TheBetaMale]

For me it all started off with fantasy and fetish. After a particular experience I started watching IR and Femdom porn before I started craving the lifestyle for real.

I definitely think that in the last four or five years the lifestyle and all it's wonderful kinky intricacies has become much more of a genuine craving and even a reality for many people. More people are seeing it as much more than just fantasy now than ever before. The dynamics that belonged to some far out black superiority conditioning videos and in erotic stories have made their way much more into the mainstream I feel. I'm seeing so much more IR porn and cuckolding porn in general on a lot of sites now, plus I'm seeing so many white women declaring there love and desire for bulls and black men in particular.

I really feel things are changing, and it's not just confined to the minds of online fetishists. I really am encouraged by what I see. Much more work needs to be done in helping more women consider broadening their sexual horizons of course. There is also a lot more work that needs to be done in helping wake up a few overly proud hubbies to the fact that they have little to be proud of and that their partner deserves to try new things, but in spite of that, I really feel things are gaining traction in the right direction.

Concentrating on the interracial aspect especially I think the change is extremely important. Interracial relationships were outlawed at one time, and in many families and communities it's been a big taboo ever since. Seeing women taking the bull by the horns (Slight pun intended) and running with it is a big change I would say. The more it happens, the more barriers will be broken down. The whole dynamic changes. It has a knock on effect on everything. White guys in particular try harder if they know they can't shame white women into being with them for better or worse. Women have more choice and are free from guilt completely in their sex life. I'm not saying all white guys are one way or another, but there's no denying the toxic attitudes of old have remained in many families, if only subconsciously. The idea of shaming white women for dating black guys never stopped, but I truly feel that is changing now and the shame imposed by society is losing it's grip over women. It opens the door to so much, including a wider acceptance of the cuckold lifestyle.

Also, take me for instance. I woke up to the lifestyle when I was quite young, I've been virgin and pussy-free ever since. I want what's best for women and I know I'm not it, at least not in the sexual sense. I'm happy to confess that here, but I know if I were to confess these feelings to the people around me I'd almost certainly be shamed and perhaps disowned, and for what? for having never been intimate with a woman, for wanting what's best for her and for maybe one day being with a woman who I believe should have whatever she wants. Even here there's maybe a few who'd shame me for that.

So in closing, I think it's a good thing that it catches on, because it represents much more than mere fetish for men and women everywhere. It represents the freedom to choose sexual partners without guilt or shame. Bringing together different races and communities, and knocking those who would drive a wedge between people and ideas off their perches.

What do you good people think?

 

[PhilippinesFun]

For me it all started off with fantasy and fetish. After a particular experience I started watching IR and Femdom porn before I started craving the lifestyle for real.

I definitely think that in the last four or five years the lifestyle and all it's wonderful kinky intricacies has become much more of a genuine craving and even a reality for many people. More people are seeing it as much more than just fantasy now than ever before. The dynamics that belonged to some far out black superiority conditioning videos and in erotic stories have made their way much more into the mainstream I feel. I'm seeing so much more IR porn and cuckolding porn in general on a lot of sites now, plus I'm seeing so many white women declaring there love and desire for bulls and black men in particular.

I really feel things are changing, and it's not just confined to the minds of online fetishists. I really am encouraged by what I see. Much more work needs to be done in helping more women consider broadening their sexual horizons of course. There is also a lot more work that needs to be done in helping wake up a few overly proud hubbies to the fact that they have little to be proud of and that their partner deserves to try new things, but in spite of that, I really feel things are gaining traction in the right direction.

Concentrating on the interracial aspect especially I think the change is extremely important. Interracial relationships were outlawed at one time, and in many families and communities it's been a big taboo ever since. Seeing women taking the bull by the horns (Slight pun intended) and running with it is a big change I would say. The more it happens, the more barriers will be broken down. The whole dynamic changes. It has a knock on effect on everything. White guys in particular try harder if they know they can't shame white women into being with them for better or worse. Women have more choice and are free from guilt completely in their sex life. I'm not saying all white guys are one way or another, but there's no denying the toxic attitudes of old have remained in many families, if only subconsciously. The idea of shaming white women for dating black guys never stopped, but I truly feel that is changing now and the shame imposed by society is losing it's grip over women. It opens the door to so much, including a wider acceptance of the cuckold lifestyle.

Also, take me for instance. I woke up to the lifestyle when I was quite young, I've been virgin and pussy-free ever since. I want what's best for women and I know I'm not it, at least not in the sexual sense. I'm happy to confess that here, but I know if I were to confess these feelings to the people around me I'd almost certainly be shamed and perhaps disowned, and for what? for having never been intimate with a woman, for wanting what's best for her and for maybe one day being with a woman who I believe should have whatever she wants. Even here there's maybe a few who'd shame me for that.

So in closing, I think it's a good thing that it catches on, because it represents much more than mere fetish for men and women everywhere. It represents the freedom to choose sexual partners without guilt or shame. Bringing together different races and communities, and knocking those who would drive a wedge between people and ideas off their perches.

What do you good people think?

Love your post. I'm coming back to write when I have more time.

 

[TheBetaMale]

Love your post. I'm coming back to write when I have more time.

I'll look forward to reading about your thoughts.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Thank you for your well-written post, BetaMale.

—Custer

 

[BigdaddyToronto]

ya, its huge now.
when i look at the porn this generation is into, i think we may end up going extinct...all they seem to be into is cuckold anal sex with moms lol

 

[TheBetaMale]

ya, its huge now.
when i look at the porn this generation is into, i think we may end up going extinct...all they seem to be into is cuckold anal sex with moms lol

I'm sure there will always be enough bulls out there to fill the gap (Pun intended LOL).

 

[TheBetaMale]

Thank you for your well-written post, BetaMale.

—Custer

Thank you.

 

[crt]

Haven’t seen much change since 5 years but a bit more accepted I suppose

 

[crt]

So in closing, I think it's a good thing that it catches on, because it represents much more than mere fetish for men and women everywhere. It represents the freedom to choose sexual partners without guilt or shame. Bringing together different races and communities, and knocking those who would drive a wedge between people and ideas off their perches.


This I do agree with

 

[WifeDatesBlk]

ours has changed a lot..
i agree khristy..
Annie here

 

[lnohhnvm]

please post more.

 

[Callmegod]

The feminist movement has bred a generation of weak men. I’m not complaining more wives for me to spread me seed to.

 

[LatinoDom]

Latino male here in Arizona, def love seeing so many white women here with Latino men its great to see.. even women who once were conservative/republican now with Latino men, it's great.

 

[DWFRedheadMom]

While I agree, my only fear is that the romantoc acceotance of interraciality will be overshadowed by the far more "exciting" aspects of the inherent sexuality of it. Id rather NOT marginalize the beautiful future of love and acceptance by fetishizing this lifestyle.

Its fun, among friends, to refer to your lover as your boytoy. But there are some people who absolutely go out of their way to be "trendy" at the cost of human decency. There are people who will date interracially not because theyre exploring new ideas about love, but because their gossip hounds who use their lover as an accessory, like one might do a fetching handbag.

That is my biggest fear, it may just be me of course, but I can very easily picture a pair of tarts talking about their non-white lovers like they talk about their dogs. "Miiiine is a morrocan/ethopian personal trainer? Hes just soooo cute, his coat is a nice brown charcoal mix.", "Oh thats so nice. Well. Mine is a salvadorian/egyptian mechanic. He's not as big or dark, but I just LOVE the accent!"

Which again, IS funny as hell to imagine. But realistically its fairly dehumanizing.

 

[KatHotwife]

For me it all started off with fantasy and fetish. After a particular experience I started watching IR and Femdom porn before I started craving the lifestyle for real.

I definitely think that in the last four or five years the lifestyle and all it's wonderful kinky intricacies has become much more of a genuine craving and even a reality for many people. More people are seeing it as much more than just fantasy now than ever before. The dynamics that belonged to some far out black superiority conditioning videos and in erotic stories have made their way much more into the mainstream I feel. I'm seeing so much more IR porn and cuckolding porn in general on a lot of sites now, plus I'm seeing so many white women declaring there love and desire for bulls and black men in particular.

I really feel things are changing, and it's not just confined to the minds of online fetishists. I really am encouraged by what I see. Much more work needs to be done in helping more women consider broadening their sexual horizons of course. There is also a lot more work that needs to be done in helping wake up a few overly proud hubbies to the fact that they have little to be proud of and that their partner deserves to try new things, but in spite of that, I really feel things are gaining traction in the right direction.

Concentrating on the interracial aspect especially I think the change is extremely important. Interracial relationships were outlawed at one time, and in many families and communities it's been a big taboo ever since. Seeing women taking the bull by the horns (Slight pun intended) and running with it is a big change I would say. The more it happens, the more barriers will be broken down. The whole dynamic changes. It has a knock on effect on everything. White guys in particular try harder if they know they can't shame white women into being with them for better or worse. Women have more choice and are free from guilt completely in their sex life. I'm not saying all white guys are one way or another, but there's no denying the toxic attitudes of old have remained in many families, if only subconsciously. The idea of shaming white women for dating black guys never stopped, but I truly feel that is changing now and the shame imposed by society is losing it's grip over women. It opens the door to so much, including a wider acceptance of the cuckold lifestyle.

Also, take me for instance. I woke up to the lifestyle when I was quite young, I've been virgin and pussy-free ever since. I want what's best for women and I know I'm not it, at least not in the sexual sense. I'm happy to confess that here, but I know if I were to confess these feelings to the people around me I'd almost certainly be shamed and perhaps disowned, and for what? for having never been intimate with a woman, for wanting what's best for her and for maybe one day being with a woman who I believe should have whatever she wants. Even here there's maybe a few who'd shame me for that.

So in closing, I think it's a good thing that it catches on, because it represents much more than mere fetish for men and women everywhere. It represents the freedom to choose sexual partners without guilt or shame. Bringing together different races and communities, and knocking those who would drive a wedge between people and ideas off their perches.

What do you good people think?

just wanted to say , how you totally summarized the essence of the lifestyle , i mean either you are a husband or a wife who are into the lifestyle for whatever , it always boils down to the rebelling against the rules and restrictions of society and how people always treat the different from their point of view , basically , it is amazingly fun to just give them the finger as much fun as ICE CUBE saying FUCK THE POLICE on stage for the for the first time , just out right rebellion . hope that made sense to anyone who can relate

 

[Kogjin]

The sexuality of wemen was suppressed for so long , that this was bound to happen. Women deserve to get the same level of pleasure as men did for so long. And of course there are a lot of men, that just don't match up and cant satisfy them in the best way, so I hope the trend continues even more rapidly!

 

[obeahbrown]

It is a necessary part of society and is gaining it's rightful place in the "mainstream". Your story helps others live their truth.

 

[Custer Laststand]

........ I definitely think that in the last four or five years the lifestyle and all it's wonderful kinky intricacies has become much more of a genuine craving and even a reality for many people.

........ What do you good people think?

First, thank you for referring to us forum members as "good people." We need all the encouragement we can get.

To answer your question, at least in part: In my town, which is relatively small and politically conservative, it has become at least somewhat common during recent years — i.e., during the past 5 or more years — to see white women and black men out-and-about together.

It isn't possible to know, from casual observation, whether they are couples dating in a conventional sense, or married couples, or whether the white woman is cuckolding her white husband with a black man.

But, it does seem to be an increasingly-common observation.

 

[DeeAnna]

Yes! I have had casual conversations about this, with people I would never have suspected were even looking at men outside of their marriage, let alone having weekend excursions with them! And very open questions about the "temporary workers" that come and help at our ranch, along with some knowing smiles!

 

[TheBetaMale]

Yes! I have had casual conversations about this, with people I would never have suspected were even looking at men outside of their marriage, let alone having weekend excursions with them! And very open questions about the "temporary workers" that come and help at our ranch, along with some knowing smiles!

The lifestyle is undoubtedly gaining a great deal of traction in many different social circles. I think it's fantastic that so many people are more at ease than ever to lead a more fulfilling sex life. Open conversation is key to it all I feel.