I'm fulltime female now, but back before I transitioned, my fiancee and i often went out to clubs, etc., with me dressing female (i was always pretty passable). After a few months of this, we met Paul, an intelligent and sexy black man.
We brought him home, and they hit it off.
After we got together, when he came over in the days and weeks thereafter, he demanded I appear female. He moved in, and I started hormones - seeing a 'real man' of the house really helped me face my issues and go full time. They soon fell in love and as he became more a part of her life, they encouraged me to go further with my therapy and gender issues, etc., eventually helping me to get implants, and I began dating black men of my own.
10 years later, i'm female and they have three kids.
While my life went in ways I never thought I'd have courage to pursue, i don't have any regrets - since to be honest, I always wanted to be female and she always wanted a man who didn't and now, I also get to enjoy dating strong and passionate black guys too!
Life is sweet when u follow your dreams.