getting closer and i'm scared

[Kevcuck]

i'm making this, my first post, on the instruction of a man who i have been chatting with recently about my wife.

my wife and i havent been intimate for some time although shes seriously good looking and has a legion of admirers. ideally, she needs a man who is able to pleasure her properly and allow her to reignite her feelings of being a woman again , which i can understand.

my man friend has been patient and kind with me so far and has got me to make many candid confessions and send him photos of my wife and he is easy to chat to and would make an ideal sex partner for her as he is experienced around women and understands men like me too.

i live on the isle of man which is so small, that with the utmost discretion it would still become public knowledge that my wife is with another man which scares me.i also worry about her feelings towards me afterwards and if his position would harden towards me once he has taken my wife.

i know these are both basic questions but with living in such a small environment i wondered if anyone else had been ****** to confront these same issues and fears before?

 

[mhall]

Is she aware of your relationship with this other man?

 

[davewines]

I have not had the experience of the geography, however, I have had the discussions you are talking about with a man. They are very sensual.

 

[happyhot]

i'm making this, my first post, on the instruction of a man who i have been chatting with recently about my wife.

my wife and i havent been intimate for some time although shes seriously good looking and has a legion of admirers. ideally, she needs a man who is able to pleasure her properly and allow her to reignite her feelings of being a woman again , which i can understand.
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KEV,

This thread is quite old, so my advice may be out of date soooo....


I’m new to all of this to, so most of my advice to you will probably be wrong, I am the bull in a cuckold relationship with the husband's full knowledge and (as far as I know) full approval. She is an ******, so I am haply paying for the privilege of being with his wife. I consider both of them my friends and would cut it off in a minute if I thought I was in any way endangering their marriage. My own marriage is essentially sexless (Unless she is getting some on the side too! LOL).

Anyway, A great deal depends on things like the length of time you have been married, why you feel you are not satisfying your wife, what is the nature of your relationship with the other man? If you are young couple (Under ~35, married <5 yrs, no kids to consider) and she is dramatically unsatisfied, my advice is to say “FUCK IT!” Get a divorce and both of you look for people you are satisfied with and by. Life is too short to waste it in a futile attempt to satisfy someone that just isn’t into you anymore.

If you have 5 kids together, have been married > 25 years, basically love each other very much and BOTH really want the marriage t o work, but the sex is getting boring, then go for it, spice it up, cheat on each other! Take an off-island vacation and fuck whomever (or whatever) you want. Hire some professional escorts, WATCH each other fuck total strangers …

As a generalization, My advice to you is proceed with caution, but proceed.