Need gf advice. Have had a hard time trying to find another guy for a 3some. Everyone wants her alone or to join in with couples. She told me we could the open or swinger thing but I would have to be ok with her alone with other guys and I'd be able to be alone with others as well. She also said we font have to do anything. But that it's all or nothing. Pretty sure she might of hooked up with a guy we use to live by. She disappeared for 5 hours was shopping and hit the gym. Maybe true but think she doesn't want to hurt me too. Don't really know what to do here have mixed feelings. Any advice is welcome!!