Guidelines for Hot Wives

[DawnMWF4Blk]

GUIDELINES FOR HOT WIVES

(WITH CUCKOLD AND/OR SUPPORTIVE HUSBANDS)


The following are suggestion for the woman who has made the decision (along with her husbands support) to be involved in the hotwife/cuckold lifestyle. I think these suggestions work well with all men but my own experience is derived from my dating of black men exclusively.

DRESS THE PART:

(Points to Remember)
 You are no longer dressing for yourself. You are no longer dressing for your husband. You are no longer dressing for other women as most women are prone to do. You are dressing for other men. You are dressing to attract and please those men.
 Dressing to please and attract other men takes more time and work but it will pay off tremendously in amount of attention you receive and how it affects your own “hot wife attitude”. You should always keep in mind what the men you are trying to attract will probably like but in general follow this simple rule when choosing what to wear: “Think dress first, skirt second and pants only as a last resort.” This will be a radical change for many women but it’s important to remember that most men (and virtually all black men) prefer their women in dresses as opposed to pants. Dresses and skirts are sexier to most men and they provide easier access in erotic situations. Until I started this lifestyle, I wore pants the great majority of the time but it’s rare now that I step into a public situation when I am not in a dress or skirt. You never know when you will have the opportunity to attract that certain man and you need to be dressed for the opportunity when it comes. The good news is that the lifestyle will probably make you feel like dressing up more and the more you wear dresses and skirts, the more you will find yourself wanting to.
 What you wear under your dress or skirt is as important as the outfit itself. All men like lingerie but black men love lingerie. The colors and styles your lover (s) may want you to wear will vary but in general, here Are some suggestions ands rules to follow:
1. Always wear matching or at least coordinated lingerie.
2. Thongs or French cut panties are the most preferable. If you are with your lover on a more consistent basis, no panties is the best option.
3. Always wear hosiery unless your lover tells you not to.
4. Always wear stockings with a garter belt or thigh highs when in the presence of black men. Men in general don’t care for pantyhose and black men absolutely hate them. If you are like me, you probably have worn pantyhose your whole life. Trust me when I say however, that stockings will make you feel far sexier and more feminine and they provide your lover an easier access as well as a sexier site. Once you get used to wearing them; you will probably have no trouble giving up pantyhose. Seamed stockings are the ultimate for attracting men. You will always get a lot of attention in clubs if you wear them and if you dare to wear them in public in the daytime, men will drool.
 The only shoes you should ever wear in public are high heels. This will take some getting used to as well but men love them. 3-4 inches are fine for work. Try for “4-5” heels for dates.
 Anklets worn on the ankle are a good sign in clubs that you are a willing hot wife looking for men. Always wear your wedding ring. Black men love knowing that they are going to fuck a white man’s wife!


ACTIVITIES TO CONSIDER:

Flirting and Teasing:

1. In a situation where you are trying to catch a potential lovers eye; make sure to make plenty of eye contact with him and smile.
2. Show lots of leg. Cross and uncross your legs and if you find that you are very attracted to him, eventually let it ride high enough so that he can see that you are wearing stockings and garters. In black clubs; a white woman wearing stockings and garters is taken as a sign that she is there to get fucked. And of course you are.
3. Apply and reapply lipstick. The men want to see signs that you can’t wait to suck their cocks and lipstick is a great way to send that signal.
4. Never miss the opportunity to drop something and bend over.
5. Touch and smile.

Sexy Situations:

1. If a man puts his hand up your dress; whisper in his ear and ask if him if he would like you to remove your panties.
2. If he compliments your dress; tell him you wore it hoping to meet a man like him.
3. Never miss an opportunity to tell him how sexy he is and how sexy and feminine he makes you feel.
4. Sex in unusual places is wonderful but if your lover suggests a place you are uncomfortable, suggest an alternative and tell him much you want to do it with him. A few places I have tried and highly recommend are:
 Sucking your lovers cock in the back of a cab.
 Back rooms or managers offices at clubs.
 Restrooms are hot but can be risky and even dangerous. Choose wisely.
 Stairwells and parking garages.
5. Always leave on your stockings and high heels during sex unless your lovers asks you to remove them. Most men find it sexier.



THINGS TO KEEP IN YOUR PURSE:

1. Condoms-I know; I hate them too but sometimes they are necessary.
2. An extra pair of stockings. Runs are never acceptable.
3. Lube
4. Business cards to give to men you meet.


KEEPING HUBBY IN LINE: (And Excited!)

1. Never dress for your husband the way you do for your lovers. I never wear a dress for my husband unless the situation absolutely demands it and if it does I I wear pantyhose under it and low heels. He needs to know a woman dresses to please real men; not him.
2. Never miss an opportunity to have your husband help you get dressed for your lover. Making him buy lingerie or dresses for you to wear for your lover is also a good way to drive him wild.
3. Make him rinse out your lingerie and keep your wardrobe in order.
4. Make him do housework when you are out with other men.
5. Always tell him how wonderful your lovers are in bed and how much you enjoy pleasing them.
6. Have 2 or 3 things you do for your lovers that you won’t do for your husband and make sure your husband knows it. For instance; since dating black men I no longer suck my husbands cock and anal sex and facials are something I have never allowed my husband. They are however routine with my black lovers.
7. Some women find it exciting to feminize their cuckold husbands to keep them in a humiliated state. It’s not something I would enjoy but I know one woman who forces her husband to dress in full female attire whenever he is at home. It works for them.
8. Call your husband while you are with another man. Make him listen or have your lover tell him all the things he plans to do to you.


These are just a few ideas and suggestions I have accumulated from my own experiences. I would love to hear from men, women and cuckolds with any questions or suggestions they might have. Best of luck! Roxanne rrfanr@yahoo.com

 

[MDEnigma]

Great Post!!

Intelligent, truthfull and funny, great post!

 

[solowhtguy]

Hey Dawn. Great ideas to encourage more white ladies to go black. I'm a 24 yo white guy and since my gf left me for a black guy I'm getting all my sex alone. I often get jealous when I hear about white women putting out for black men and giving us white guys the cold shoulder but its something we have to deal with these days and make the most of it. Thanks. I'll be masterbating thinking about you.

 

[Homer]

Dawn,

I have taken your ideas and some of your words and make them into a "story." I'd like to dredit you. How doI do so? Just DawnMWF4Blk?

Thanks

 

[Homer]

Hotwives story

Dawn, others,

Here is the "story" I have written. Please give me feedback and suggestions on where to post it. Dark cavern, of course, but where else?

Thanks,


Homer

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GUIDELINES FOR HOT WIVES (MF, Irr, humor, preg)
[Based on text by DawnMWF4Blk]

By Evangelina Vargas
vargas111@yahoo.com

OK, you have heard about "hot wives" married women who take generally younger, black lovers. It sounds sexy but a little scary, too. You have lots of questions and uncertainties and wrote to my brother, Homer Vargas for advice. Well, he has asked me to reply because this is something better handled between us girls. “Been there done that.”

Probably your first question is "Why should I become a "hot wife?" There are many reasons but the most important one is, love. You have a husband whom you love. You want to please him, to make him happy. You think that he might like a "hotwife," but maybe you are not sure that's what he wants you to be. What if he thinks you are a slut? Put that out of your mind. If your husband loves you, he wants a hotwife. What he may not want is the consequences of getting what he wants. But that’s a problem for another day.

Love for your husband is not enough, however to become a hotwife. Although you may want to please him, it's also a matter of elementary justice. You deserve to be a hot wife. You have been at his side, encouraging him to make more money, telling him how to dress, doing more than your share of the housework, telling him stories in endless detail. He should love you above all other women and want you to be happy. Naturally, you cannot be happy with his pathetic attempts to please you with his teeny wienie when you could have a magnificent black cock and a real man that knows how to use it.

In addition, being a "hot wife" should be a mater of personal fulfillment. You are a woman and you want to be the best, the sexiest, the most feminine woman possible. Becoming a hotwife -- an ever hotter hotwife – for your lover will give meaning and purpose to your life, releasing you from self centeredness and ennui.

Then, too, being a hotwife is a very healthy lifestyle. To become and remain a hotwife, you will have to exercise daily, watch what you eat, maintain your body in top form. Dieting and physical fitness will not seem like a chore when you keep in mind you are honing your body for your lover's sexual gratification. You are his "sex object" and proud of being a damn good one!

But the most important reason is you! You need more sex than hubby can provide. You need excitement, adventure. You want to feel alive and desirable and desired by a macho bull that can make your body tremble and your senses shiver. And of course the best if not only way to experience this is by being “taken” by a black man.

Now that you understand the reasons to become a hotwife, the important question is “how.” How do you find and attract a young black lover? First, and this is almost too elementary to mention but many women miss this point, you need to show that you want SEX, to make love, have sex, fuck, screw, boff, shag, get it on, "do it" with him every chance he give you.

Almost more important than the frequency and nastiness (we'll get to that later) of sex is to make sure your black lover understands that you want sex it because HE is a macho sexy African god stud. You are not doing him a favor. These are not the little mercy fucks like you used to give your husband. You are fucking him because he turns you on. He makes you hot. He makes you want sex. He makes you NEED sex! With such a man, you are a sex slave to his black cock!

Now let's talk about what kind of sex to have with your lover starting with what kind not to have. It will NOT be the kind you had with your husband: once a week (if he was lucky) in the bedroom, missionary position, lights out, "think of England" while he squirted his watery seed in you. No! Your lover makes you so horny that you will want him to take you in the back seats of taxis, in nightclub washrooms, in dark corners at parties, in your husband’s home on the living room (shag <g>) rug, on the dining table, bending over in the kitchen, draped over the back of the sofa in the family room, in the shower and especially in the bed where your husband used to sleep. You enjoy receiving oral sex if he so chooses, but you have an almost irresistible desire to give oral sex (you swallow greedily) – “almost” because even for a bull, every load of cum in your mouth is one less in your needy pussy. With him you are multi-orgasmic, although you never came with your husband. Your lover’s black cock makes you a moaner and a groaner and a squealer and a screamer. You claw his back in ecstasy. You like it doggie style, riding his cock, legs bent behind you head or heels (6” stilettos) in the air. He can call you every filthy name in the book if it gets you a harder cock and a more cum pumped into your needy pussy. You put every porn movie ever made to shame.

Because you want to fuck your lover so desperately all the time, you will do whatever it takes to excite him, to entice him, to make him want to fuck you. This means taking the initiative, seducing him! (But you must never be demanding; he has other white wives to service and it is HIS prerogative who he fucks and when!) You will want to have a collection of sexy nightwear and scandalous casual wear that signal your constant horniness. Seldom is total nudity best. Always keep on a necklace, bracelets, and your heels during sex. Cleanliness is good and perfume is great, but never wash off the womanly scent of an aroused pussy.

Of course you do not stop being a hotwife when your lover is not around. A true hotwife would not be able to go through a long day without her man if she did not have toys to keep her sane. Large back dildos and vibrators will keep you simmering and ready for his return. Masturbation is also important to help you become or remain multi-orgasmic. And of course he likes to know that while he is away, you are missing him so badly you need a large cylindrical object up your twat.

Now the next point is not for everyone and not absolutely necessary to be a hotwife, but many hotwives are strongly bi. Girl/girl sex is a great way to pass the long lonely hours when your lover is off taking care of his other women, but it is also a great way to find other white wives to be enslaved by your lover. I have found nothing turns my lover on faster than seeing another little honey and me going at it fast and furious.

So far we have discussed what you need to do in private. Being a hotwife, however, is as much or more about how you behave in public as it is about what you do when you are alone with your lover (or with him and one or two other women). If there is one golden rule of hotwife public behavior it is: DRESS THE PART. When you go out, remember you are NOT dressing for yourself. You are no longer dressing for other women as most women are prone to do. You are not dressing for your husband. You are dressing to attract and please a black lover.

Dressing to please and attract a lover takes more time and work but take it from me, it will pay off tremendously in amount of attention you receive and how it affects your own "hotwife attitude". You should always keep in mind what the men you are trying to attract will probably like but in general follow this simple rule when choosing what to wear: "Think dress first, skirt second, and pants only as a last resort." This will be a radical change for many women but it's important to remember that black men prefer their women in dresses as opposed to pants. Dresses and skirts are sexier to black men and they provide easier access in erotic situations. You never know when you will have the opportunity to attract that certain man and you need to be dressed for the opportunity when it comes. The good news is that the hotwife lifestyle will probably make you feel like dressing up more and the more you wear dresses and skirts, the more you will find yourself wanting to.

Now I can already hear the objections. “Oh, Evangelina, I could never wear clothes like that. I’m too – fill in the blank – short/tall/round/thin/dark/light. Nonsense. The point is not to have women (skinny supermodels) make clothes look sexy; rather it’s to have clothes to make women (of all sizes and shapes) look sexy. Believe me, girlfriend, any woman in a short, tight dress and a top that shows some boobs looks good to any black man.

What you wear under your dress or skirt is as important as the outfit itself. All men love women in sexy lingerie, but black men more so. The colors and styles you may want wear will vary but in general, here are some suggestions and rules to follow:
1. Always wear matching or at least coordinated lingerie.
2. Choose thongs or French cut panties (crotchless) are best. Avoid white cotton unless you are going for the “Catholic Schoolgirl” look. If you are with men who know you, no panties is the best option.
3. Always wear hosiery. High tops and thigh highs are great for casual wear but stocking held up by corsets or garter belt are best for formal occasion. No pantyhose. If you are like me, you probably have worn pantyhose your whole life, but they are death to your image as a hotwife. It is practically impossible get fucked on short notice if you are wearing pantyhose. Black men detest them. Pantyhose say "I'm off limits" - not the message you want to send. Besides, it's pretty difficult even to finger your self or let a black man finger you, in the damned things. End of sermon. Stockings, however, will make you feel far sexier and more feminine and they provide your lover an easier access as well as a sexier sight. Once you get used to wearing them, you will probably have no trouble giving up pantyhose. Seamed stockings are the ultimate for attracting black men. You will always get a lot of attention in clubs if you wear them and if you dare to wear them in public in the daytime, men will drool.

The only shoes you should ever wear in public are high heels. This will take some getting used to as well but men love them. Three-four inches are fine for casual entertaining, but try for four-five inches for nights out. Anklets are a good sign in clubs that you are a willing hot wife looking for a black bull to fuck.

Jewelry is a must! It should be flashy, designed to attract the attention you deserve. Earrings should be large. Necklaces should draw all eyes to your cleavage. Always wear your wedding ring. Black men love to know they are taking another (white) man's wife! Bracelets and anklets show you are can be a happy member of your lover’s harem. A pierced navel makes a sexy statement: “I’ll do anything for sex with my black lover.”

Being a hotwife is more than just looks, it’s also how you act.

1. In a situation where you are trying to catch a black man’s eye; make sure to make plenty of eye contact with him and smile.
2. Show lots of leg. Cross and uncross your legs and bounce the top leg on the lower one, perhaps pointing the toe of your shoe. If you find that you are very attracted to him, eventually let the skirt ride high enough so that he can see that you are wearing stockings and garters. In clubs a woman wearing stockings and garters is taken as a sign that she is there to get fucked.
3. Apply and reapply lipstick. Black men want to see signs that you can't wait to suck their cock and lipstick is a great way to send that signal.
4. Never miss the opportunity to drop something and bend over – from the waist, never bend your knees. (That’s what those expensive sessions in the gym are for.)
5. Touch and smile.
6. When dancing (probably the closest you can get to having sex in public), move your lover’s hands to your ass and press close to him during slow dances. If you can feel his cock, he can feel your tits. Don’t be shy about letting everyone see you come on his finger. With white guys, let them handle the merchandise knowing what they can’t have it. Fast dances give you the opportunity to whirl and twirl and flash your panties or your bare cunt.
7. If a black man puts his hand up your dress; whisper in his ear and ask if him if he would like you to remove your panties.
8. If he compliments your dress; tell him you wore it hoping to meet a man like him.
9. Never miss an opportunity to tell him how sexy he is and how sexy and feminine he makes you feel.
10. Hang on your lover. Rub up against him. Nibble his ear. Gaze at him adoringly. Demonstrate to onlookers how eager you are for him to fuck you.
11. Do not hesitate to sneak off with your lover to do the dirty during a public event. Sex in public (except in all black clubs) may not be a good idea, but it’s sexy to be seen scurrying off with your lover because you can’t endure another minute without his big black cock in you.
12. When you depart a social event, make sure everyone knows it’s because you are horny and need your lover to take you home and fuck your little brains out before you rape someone.

I assume that for financial security or sentiment, you intend to remain married to your white husband. Once you have found a black lover, however, it is important to show hubby his place. You will no longer enjoy fucking him, if you ever did. Most hotwives, angry at years of sexual frustration, will cut him off completely. Some kind-hearted wives will occasionally give him a mercy fuck if he does something especially deserving. Of course you will NEVER again give him a blowjob, if you ever did, nor will you give him a full tongue kiss. You mouth, (and your ass), if not your pussy, is reserved exclusively for your lover’s cock. You should of course demand your husband’s enthusiastic lip service on your pussy after it’s been pounded by your black lover. Most husbands come to love this chore and crave to eat the cum of their wife’s black lover from her gushing pussy.

Never dress for your husband the way you do for your lovers. For him wear loose trousers, granny panties, and pantyhose under them with low heels. He needs to know a woman dresses to please real men; not him. Never miss an opportunity to have your husband help you get dressed for your lover. Making him buy lingerie or dresses for you to wear for your lover – the kind he used to buy for you that you refused to wear for him-- is also a good way to drive him wild.

Make him rinse out your lingerie and keep your wardrobe in order. Make him do housework when you are out with other men. Always tell him how wonderful your lovers are in bed, how large their cocks are, and how much you enjoy pleasing them.

Call your husband while you are with another man. Make him listen or have your lover tell him all the things he plans to do to you.

There are many other issues in how to treat your husband – should he be allowed to watch, should he be sissified, etc. -- but I cannot go into all of them here.

All of the above are fundamental to being a hotwife, but there is one thing that tops it all. Pregnancy! All those sexy things you wear – skirts, heels, stocking -- and the sexy things you do – dancing, teasing, flashing -- are twice as exciting when done by a woman with a belly bulging with her lover’s bastard child. You should realize that this is not an optional part of being a hotwife. You lover WILL want to bred you. It may not be immediate but the day will come when he will demand that your pills be flushed away so that he can fill your fertile pussy with his potent seed. If he had not seen in you the potential to make babies for him, he would never have chosen you. Even if your lover does not ordinarily like to have your husband around when he’s fucking you, ask him if he will let your husband watch the night he gives you his first black baby. Hubby is going to be taking care of this baby; it’s only fair he should get to see you begging your lover to put his black baby in you.

There are other ways to flaunt pregnancy by your black lover. Start wearing maternity clothes – outrageously sexy, revealing maternity clothes – as soon as the rabbit dies. Some women wear garments saying “Black Baby Inside,” but I think that’s a little tacky. Hint to your friends that you never intended to let him get you pregnant, but <giggle> once he decided, you could not refuse to have his baby. End of discussion. Now of course you are proud and excited to know you are going to have his black baby. Always say “this black baby” or refer to it by number, implying that this is just the first or most recent offspring; your lover may be planning to keep you in maternity clothes until you are 60. (Unlikely. After three or four babies, he is likely to become tired of you and move on to breed other white wives.) Hold, pat and rub your belly at every opportunity. Cultivate a dopey, fucked-out-of-it expression, especially when he takes you out in public, parading your pregnant belly for all to see and know that he is cuckolding your husband. Tell the wives of your husband’s friends how your libido has just gone through the roof. It will get back to their men who will want to shoot themselves in fear and frustration. And you may be able to recruit some of them into becoming hotwives, too.

A final word on age. You are never too old to become a hot wife. It’s even more important, in fact, if you have taken a younger man as your lover. Although your dresses may not be quite as short now as when you were in Jr. High fucking the black boys on the football team, the fact that a woman of thirty five or forty or fifty is besotted with and fucking a well hung black stud is hotter than any twenty year old in full slutwear. And this goes in spades once he has you pregnant. Imagine your gray-at-the-temples husband in the middle of a multimillion dollar negotiation when he pleads, “Can we roll this up pretty soon, TJ? My wife’s about to pop with our seventh kid and I want to see her black lover give her a good luck fuck!”

Happy hotwifing,


Evangelina

The end
Comments please to
Homer Vargas.

 

[Josetta]

This contains some excellent advice for a white couple to add sexual eroticism to make the bull more excited and a heavier creamer,

Dressing up is very important to enhance the mood of the seduction.