HI
This is my first time posting here, though i have read a lot this forum, so i start with question and end with question but with desire
i would first ask someone who had wife catched on virtual cheating (or at last she claims that).
I got by the hand my wife after 10 years of being together.
At first she refused it is taking place.
When i have shown have photos, she told me it was only meaningless and waste of time - all because she has felt lonely and need attenion (she is at home while i work 10 hours/day sometimes).
She sent him nude pics, he sent her pics of his dick. He asked her, what you want to do with it? After he sent photo of his dick, and she wrote him back, kneel and suck it all with balls. When i wanted her to show me that this realion is over she refused because she told she fells ashamed of what she did (and started crying).
But i see also now (after she got caought) different signs - like she has often muted phone -like it is more hidden more frequent, but present.
Also i dont believe that such relation that lastet at least 5 months, could be ended day by day, just by deletig number or say goodbye and "both will understand", as he knew she is married.
She claims they did not meet, beacause he lives 700 km away. (But he knows more/less her adress).
She admited that she likes older guys (she is 31 and he by photos might look that he is like 44-45).
Our sex life died at least 18 months ago. 24 months ago she said she has no sexual needs (she watched porn everyday, but hided it from me)
Now the weirdest thing!
During this week, our sex life began to revive again, though she did not show any sexual initiative. I have had to start anything.
I wanted her to tell me about her sexual fantasies. She talked about having sex with two guys. In her fantasy, she want to feel hot sperm pulsate in her pussy and in a stringy penis in her mouth. Aaaand, ... It turned me on!
How can I make her fantasies more honest I know that despite this she is ashamed to watch very strong BDSM, especially related to bondage. Although I'm understanding, and I know fantasy is fantasy often. So I never laughed at any of her fantasies, especially how eagerly she spoke about them at the beginning of their marriage.
And do you feel she continues on cheating with this guy? Or should i believe on her word? Do you predict, because i quess noone could be 100% sure - was it her first time?
Why i ask this? Because i want to stop ordinary cheating abd make her to reaveal more of her fantasies (the darker and darker ones) and realize part of them. I would like to participtate in these threesomes, or gangbangs (4-5 dicks) along with her female-friend, but i dont want just simple ceating (even viral cheating) with normal denial from her with a strange guy (strange looking also), ordinary penis size and also judging by the photos of his room, there is no big incomech-that is is complete turn off for me!
BTW. I dont know if it is relevenant but she claims she has daddy issues.
This is my first time posting here, though i have read a lot this forum, so i start with question and end with question but with desire
i would first ask someone who had wife catched on virtual cheating (or at last she claims that).
I got by the hand my wife after 10 years of being together.
At first she refused it is taking place.
When i have shown have photos, she told me it was only meaningless and waste of time - all because she has felt lonely and need attenion (she is at home while i work 10 hours/day sometimes).
She sent him nude pics, he sent her pics of his dick. He asked her, what you want to do with it? After he sent photo of his dick, and she wrote him back, kneel and suck it all with balls. When i wanted her to show me that this realion is over she refused because she told she fells ashamed of what she did (and started crying).
But i see also now (after she got caought) different signs - like she has often muted phone -like it is more hidden more frequent, but present.
Also i dont believe that such relation that lastet at least 5 months, could be ended day by day, just by deletig number or say goodbye and "both will understand", as he knew she is married.
She claims they did not meet, beacause he lives 700 km away. (But he knows more/less her adress).
She admited that she likes older guys (she is 31 and he by photos might look that he is like 44-45).
Our sex life died at least 18 months ago. 24 months ago she said she has no sexual needs (she watched porn everyday, but hided it from me)
Now the weirdest thing
!During this week, our sex life began to revive again, though she did not show any sexual initiative. I have had to start anything.
I wanted her to tell me about her sexual fantasies. She talked about having sex with two guys. In her fantasy, she want to feel hot sperm pulsate in her pussy and in a stringy penis in her mouth. Aaaand, ... It turned me on!
How can I make her fantasies more honest I know that despite this she is ashamed to watch very strong BDSM, especially related to bondage. Although I'm understanding, and I know fantasy is fantasy often. So I never laughed at any of her fantasies, especially how eagerly she spoke about them at the beginning of their marriage.
And do you feel she continues on cheating with this guy? Or should i believe on her word? Do you predict, because i quess noone could be 100% sure - was it her first time?
Why i ask this? Because i want to stop ordinary cheating abd make her to reaveal more of her fantasies (the darker and darker ones) and realize part of them
. I would like to participtate in these threesomes, or gangbangs (4-5 dicks) along with her female-friend, but i dont want just simple ceating (even viral cheating) with normal denial from her with a strange guy (strange looking also), ordinary penis size and also judging by the photos of his room, there is no big incomech-that is is complete turn off for me!BTW. I dont know if it is relevenant but she claims she has daddy issues.
