Have you been spanked?
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I love paddling myself.I have one that is a leather paddle with the word slut cut into the top leather so it leaves the words on his ass......I think a woman that is not spanking her man is not properly training him.....I like an electric fly swatter als
hhhh I love those wimpers it makes my panties wet......
Sassa
hhhh I love those wimpers it makes my panties wet......Sassa
Miss Sassa said:
Excellent, Ms. Sassa, you are on the right track. I encourage you to keep up your good work.
BTW, what is the nature of an electric fly swatter? I haven't heard of those before. Are they battery-operated, or do you plug them into a wall outlet? Do they have electrodes on the "business end" of the device, such that when they make contact with skin an electric current instantaneously flows from one electrode to the other?
Thanks in advance for enlightening me, and any discipline-oriented wives who may read your reply.
Hi Ms. Jamon,
Excellent, and congratulations! It sounds like you've taken firm control of your marriage.
Regarding your question ("What have I started?"): your husband's acceptance of spankings from you "at least 3 times a week" (very impressive!) suggests rather strongly he wants you to take the lead and become head of your household.... or that he would be amenable to a discussion of this and an assertion by you that it's time to change your relationship to a wife-led marriage.
To see the advantages to yourself in this, and — just as important — begin moving your husband in this direction, I suggest reading Ms. Elise Sutton's extensive website. If you find it of interest, you might also consider reading one or both of her books and/or subscribing to her e-zine, "Predominant." See:
Elise Sutton's Female Superiority Page
You might also find this site of interest, if you aren't familiar with it already:
Disciplinary Wives Club (DWC)
Good luck!
—Custer
jamon said:It took some convincing to get my hubby to let me spank him and now it's part of our playing at least three times a week. What have I started?
Excellent, and congratulations! It sounds like you've taken firm control of your marriage.
Regarding your question ("What have I started?"): your husband's acceptance of spankings from you "at least 3 times a week" (very impressive!) suggests rather strongly he wants you to take the lead and become head of your household.... or that he would be amenable to a discussion of this and an assertion by you that it's time to change your relationship to a wife-led marriage.
To see the advantages to yourself in this, and — just as important — begin moving your husband in this direction, I suggest reading Ms. Elise Sutton's extensive website. If you find it of interest, you might also consider reading one or both of her books and/or subscribing to her e-zine, "Predominant." See:
Elise Sutton's Female Superiority Page
You might also find this site of interest, if you aren't familiar with it already:
Disciplinary Wives Club (DWC)
Good luck!
—Custer
I like to hear that the Bull spanks the cuckold from time-to-time.
I also believe a mother-in-law should help her daughter decide and enforce the cuckold rules of the marriage.
A mother needs to ensure her daughter is getting adequate sex from her husband or alternatively by several lovers. It might be helpful for a MIL to measure the penis so she can have empathy with her daughter if there are complaints of poor performance in bed.
I also believe a mother-in-law should help her daughter decide and enforce the cuckold rules of the marriage.
A mother needs to ensure her daughter is getting adequate sex from her husband or alternatively by several lovers. It might be helpful for a MIL to measure the penis so she can have empathy with her daughter if there are complaints of poor performance in bed.
am spanked on regular bases. Mistress believes it keep my mind in a submissive thinking pattern. In fact because I made the huge mistake of questioning the amount of time she is spending with her current female lover. Mistress has now moved on to using a cane on me every night until I learn my lesson. Plus she has started to write humiliating things on be everyday so I have to see it all day long.
Very exciting thread! When I was a schoolboy I lived with my aunt and her boyfriend, both in their early 30's. They used to cane me for the slightest misdemeanour which at first I resented but realised it was making me very aroused! I then used to provoke situations which resulted in a good caning. They obviously enjoyed it as much as I. This lasted for about 3 years. The boyfriend actually popped my cherry. No doubt those early experiences have made me what I am today; a cuck who loves being whipped, caned and being subservient to some of my wifes bulls.
Mom administered all punishment:
I now know the infractions were sometimes real, and other times for her pleasure and to exert her dominance. Dad was brilliant but a total wimp to mother. My brother never received this treatment and gleefully watched my punishment. I was ordered to select three peach tree limbs and bring them to my mother, several trips might be necessary, I was then ordered to remove my pants, shorts, and often my shirt and undershirt. I was told to bend over and count the licks. If I moved or squalled or crenged, the lash did not count. Often my blood would cover my back and ass and drops reach the ground. The worst was having my brother or one of her friends see my punishment.
It made me hard?
I now know the infractions were sometimes real, and other times for her pleasure and to exert her dominance. Dad was brilliant but a total wimp to mother. My brother never received this treatment and gleefully watched my punishment. I was ordered to select three peach tree limbs and bring them to my mother, several trips might be necessary, I was then ordered to remove my pants, shorts, and often my shirt and undershirt. I was told to bend over and count the licks. If I moved or squalled or crenged, the lash did not count. Often my blood would cover my back and ass and drops reach the ground. The worst was having my brother or one of her friends see my punishment.
It made me hard?
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Hi Ms. Kimcarl,
Very good. Obviously you understood and appreciated the importance of being your husband's disciplinarian, and of him accepting that as an important component of your role as his boss-wife.
Not a wise reply, here in the land of "greater wealth for the wealthy and a gun in every pocket." (That is, if you live in the US.)
But, your description of your non-obedient man as your "ex husband" suggests his failure to accept your authority as the woman of your household may have led to the demise of his marriage to you. I hope you've done better since then.
—Custer
kimcarl said:
Very good. Obviously you understood and appreciated the importance of being your husband's disciplinarian, and of him accepting that as an important component of your role as his boss-wife.
kimcarl said:
Not a wise reply, here in the land of "greater wealth for the wealthy and a gun in every pocket." (That is, if you live in the US.)
But, your description of your non-obedient man as your "ex husband" suggests his failure to accept your authority as the woman of your household may have led to the demise of his marriage to you. I hope you've done better since then.
—Custer
when my ex-wife was getting booty from a co-worker and also scrogging another married guy 20 years older than her, I proved to be too belligerent which caused her to withdraw. I crawled to her naked and begged to be cropped. She agreed. It worked. I started to enjoy her ultra slutty sexuality and she ended up regularly hooking up with two more new guys while still fucking the two others. Wow. Not for everyone but helped me to really be able to see things her way, much to her delight.
Namsbitch,
Thanks for your interesting account.
Oh, oh...
Sounds like your marriage was enroute to a bad ending...
Very good. Clearly, you discerned the proper and appropriate action required to reestablish yourself in your wife's good graces...
Cool! So your submission to your wife blistering your ass with her crop increased her confidence, enabling her to realize her sexual satisfaction required 5 men, including you as her cuckold husband, and be confident this would meet with your full agreement and approval...
Sounds like a positive outcome for all. BTW, after your initial cropping did your wife regularly bend you over her knee, in the nude (while she remained fully dressed, presumably), and blister your ass with her crop? Or, was her initial disciplinary action sufficient to maintain your obedience and keep you in line throughout the rest of your marriage to her...?
—Custer
Thanks for your interesting account.
Namsbtch said:
Oh, oh...
Namsbtch said:
Sounds like your marriage was enroute to a bad ending...
Namsbtch said:
Very good. Clearly, you discerned the proper and appropriate action required to reestablish yourself in your wife's good graces...
Namsbtch said:
Cool! So your submission to your wife blistering your ass with her crop increased her confidence, enabling her to realize her sexual satisfaction required 5 men, including you as her cuckold husband, and be confident this would meet with your full agreement and approval...
Namsbtch said:
Sounds like a positive outcome for all. BTW, after your initial cropping did your wife regularly bend you over her knee, in the nude (while she remained fully dressed, presumably), and blister your ass with her crop? Or, was her initial disciplinary action sufficient to maintain your obedience and keep you in line throughout the rest of your marriage to her...?
—Custer
My ex-girlfriends lover would spank me all the time. He was much older than both of us- old enough to be our father.
He wanted to completely emasculate me in front of her, make her see me as a little boy, so he would undo my belt and pants, put me on his lap, tear down my underwear, and go to town on my bare ass until I'd sob like a child. He had big, rough hands and was quite strong. All the while he'd taunt me and talk to me like I was a little boy- afterwards, tears streaming down my face, he'd make me kiss him on his cheek and call him Daddy. It was a real mindfuck and it made it so that my girlfriend no longer thought of me as sexually viable, just a little boy to laugh at.
Before she left me, they both got into treating me like a pre-pubescent kid. The old man would sit me in front of the TV before taking her to the bedroom and turn on a children's program, ruffly my hair like a kid, even bring me little presents like candy or comic books. It was extremely humiliating, as you can imagine, but the conditioning worked- I respected and feared him, and never challenged his right to lay the pipe to my girlfriend.
He wanted to completely emasculate me in front of her, make her see me as a little boy, so he would undo my belt and pants, put me on his lap, tear down my underwear, and go to town on my bare ass until I'd sob like a child. He had big, rough hands and was quite strong. All the while he'd taunt me and talk to me like I was a little boy- afterwards, tears streaming down my face, he'd make me kiss him on his cheek and call him Daddy. It was a real mindfuck and it made it so that my girlfriend no longer thought of me as sexually viable, just a little boy to laugh at.
Before she left me, they both got into treating me like a pre-pubescent kid. The old man would sit me in front of the TV before taking her to the bedroom and turn on a children's program, ruffly my hair like a kid, even bring me little presents like candy or comic books. It was extremely humiliating, as you can imagine, but the conditioning worked- I respected and feared him, and never challenged his right to lay the pipe to my girlfriend.
Hey bitchboy,
several of my wife's lovers have spanked me in front of her, while scolding me like a child. The first guy to do it also put me in panties for my spankings, and before long when ever he would come over I would have to be in panties and a dress. More then once he would spank me, march me into the bed room and stick me in the corner, panties down, dress pinned up, crying, while he made love to my wife. It was very humiliating.
several of my wife's lovers have spanked me in front of her, while scolding me like a child. The first guy to do it also put me in panties for my spankings, and before long when ever he would come over I would have to be in panties and a dress. More then once he would spank me, march me into the bed room and stick me in the corner, panties down, dress pinned up, crying, while he made love to my wife. It was very humiliating.
