Help please

[ZAPPATA007]

Hi all;
You have probably read that I was working on turining my wife of 12 years into a hotwife slowly and surely....
Surely; she has opened up slowly by wearing more revealing and taking more freedoms outside but always watching my reactions that I made sure were agreeing with that....
And lately she has been accepting to wear all the lingeries I bought her and even accepted taking pics of her
Then I bought her a dildo that she slowly started using more and more to the point of needing even when I fuck her....so when I start touching her she says right away" get the dildo" that I do and then use it on her so she can orgasm,,,,,,then she says "that is it I am done, you masturbate if you want to orgasm"...which I do while she lays there after cuming with the dildo
Now, she started making fun of my cock saying it is to small....is a very subtle way....but whenever an opportunity arises she makes sure to let me know that making it sound funny yet still using the damn dildo everytime I want to fuck her......
My dilemma is when I tell her to go and fuck another or something in that sens she slaways says something like you are nuts or out of your mind?......what do you think folks? am I wasting my time? shall I give this more time or shall I change startegy?...thanks for any input

 

[Dirty489]

Time. Don't rush. Don't push. Do keep asking occasionally.

 

[ZAPPATA007]

Well, no. I am not rushing at all and taking all my time with her...I need to do it properly and correctly so we can both enjoy.....any advice or hint would be welcome

 

[babyruthiezhubby]

Damn Mac. I gotta say, your as smart as a tree full of owls. That is some great advice.

 

[she_likes_2_be_touched]

Here here.......*Claps Hands*

Mac... you sure made ALOT of sense!! I could have not said it any better myself.

Zapp... modern society does not raise us women to think it's "ok" to lust and desire other men. Women who do that are demoralized and deamed SLUTS!!

When I first started I truely felt bad. I felt like my man was using me and was only after his pleasure. It took ALOT of talking...and more talking and we are STILL talking.

This lifestyle is a two way street.....He please me and I in turn wanna please him... and of coarse when I please him....he can't do enough for me!! Its a wonderful cycle

Build her up... tell her how sexy she is. How men notice her and how you think it would be a huge turn on to see another man lust after her!!! Sounds like she needs some confidence building as well. Yes Cucking is definately becoming more popular and it can be as little or as much as you want. Not all of us pratice cucking the same way!! Be patient and reassure her!

I know from experience that is what it took for me!

Cat

 

[slinky67]

Personally, i agree with Mac, i would show her proper forums as this one...focus more on the non-fictional pieces and less of the fantasy stuff for now.
And don't bother with any of the Hollywood cuck porn...terrible, doesn't reflect the true life of it at all...plus does nothing for wives who worry they have put on a few pounds or picked up a few stretch marks over time.
I would also recommend the book Insatiable Wives or the blog Insatiable Wives Blog
It does cover it on a more real life approach and it is quite a good read, not only about the kink itself, but why guys want this...which may help her understand you as well.
My partner also likes scandalouswoman.com ...it has more a spin on women's sexual empowerment, in a modern, sex in the city style way.

If all else fails, there are a lot of other elements in this lifestyle aside from having to watch her with a bull, eating creampies etc. cross dressing/or at least panty wearing, small cock humiliation, premature ejaculating ridicule, ****** eating your own pies etc. can all be fun in a safe, non threatening way, that may be middle ground for both of you.

Hope this helps

Cheers

Slinky

 

[ZAPPATA007]

...now she likes to pose for me in lingerie such as this.....not sure what you think?...