I am always curious about when and how guys initially became interested in the hotwife /cuckold concept. Since it is obviously so popular in our culture these days, I think about the various reasons men get so turned on by the idea of their wife taking another man (or men) to bed for extra-marital sex.
For me, this fascination began in the 90s when I was in my 30s and married just a few years at the time to my wife Kris. I would read a lot of porn in those days (pre-internet) especially Penthouse Letters. A lot of the stories started to take on a "wife-watching" theme, and I would get aroused reading about guys watching their wives fuck other men. My wife's interest in sex was not on par with mine, so I would jerk off a lot and fantasize about Kris having sex with other guys.
We went through some rough patches in our marriage, like most couples do, and Kris spent a lot of time hanging out with her male friends. A least one of these guys was gay, and I felt they were not a threat to our marriage. I would joke with Kris that the guys were probably trying to get her into bed and she would laugh and casually brush aside my concerns. One guy in particular (Mike) was having some personal problems and my wife would provide him with emotional support, with long talks over the phone and in-person. He ended up telling my wife that he loved her. She confessed everything to me, but assured me I had nothing to worry about.
A few weeks ago Kris and I got into a serious discussion and she became extremely emotional. She was going through some personal matters herself. She told me that she was married to the best husband a girl could ask for. I told her that I felt blessed to be married to her, and that she was the best wife in the world. Kris became upset and shook her head. Tearfully, she said "No, I have not always been". I did not push the issue at this point, and I never mentioned it again. I am wondering if she was on the verge of confessing something to me from back in those early days of our marriage and her relationships with her male friends.
As I have described on this site, all of Kris' sexual adventures over the past decade have been with my full encouragement and approval. So now I am wondering if she was having sex with Mike or the other guys back in the 90s. I have to admit I get turned on by thinking about her sucking Mike's dick to make him feel better, or letting him fuck her married pussy. And maybe she was falling in love with him too ? Either way, I am not sure if I am going to press her on this issue, since it was so long ago and she always swore nothing sexual happened between them. Last night I masturbated while thinking about Kris taking Mike's cock in and out of her mouth and making him cum really hard while I was at home jerking off to porn.
I would love to hear from other guys who can share their thoughts on my situation, and also provide details about how they first became interested in the hotwife /cuckold phenomenon.
Andrew
For me, this fascination began in the 90s when I was in my 30s and married just a few years at the time to my wife Kris. I would read a lot of porn in those days (pre-internet) especially Penthouse Letters. A lot of the stories started to take on a "wife-watching" theme, and I would get aroused reading about guys watching their wives fuck other men. My wife's interest in sex was not on par with mine, so I would jerk off a lot and fantasize about Kris having sex with other guys.
We went through some rough patches in our marriage, like most couples do, and Kris spent a lot of time hanging out with her male friends. A least one of these guys was gay, and I felt they were not a threat to our marriage. I would joke with Kris that the guys were probably trying to get her into bed and she would laugh and casually brush aside my concerns. One guy in particular (Mike) was having some personal problems and my wife would provide him with emotional support, with long talks over the phone and in-person. He ended up telling my wife that he loved her. She confessed everything to me, but assured me I had nothing to worry about.
A few weeks ago Kris and I got into a serious discussion and she became extremely emotional. She was going through some personal matters herself. She told me that she was married to the best husband a girl could ask for. I told her that I felt blessed to be married to her, and that she was the best wife in the world. Kris became upset and shook her head. Tearfully, she said "No, I have not always been". I did not push the issue at this point, and I never mentioned it again. I am wondering if she was on the verge of confessing something to me from back in those early days of our marriage and her relationships with her male friends.
As I have described on this site, all of Kris' sexual adventures over the past decade have been with my full encouragement and approval. So now I am wondering if she was having sex with Mike or the other guys back in the 90s. I have to admit I get turned on by thinking about her sucking Mike's dick to make him feel better, or letting him fuck her married pussy. And maybe she was falling in love with him too ? Either way, I am not sure if I am going to press her on this issue, since it was so long ago and she always swore nothing sexual happened between them. Last night I masturbated while thinking about Kris taking Mike's cock in and out of her mouth and making him cum really hard while I was at home jerking off to porn.
I would love to hear from other guys who can share their thoughts on my situation, and also provide details about how they first became interested in the hotwife /cuckold phenomenon.
Andrew