How to get your wife to cuckold you - your ideas?

[Julie0778]

You want your wife to cuck you? Here's something you might consider doing. Find a guy she likes and spend time with him with her around. If he can make her laugh and she grows to like him, there's a good chance he can bed her. You might even have conversations on how he has a crush on her, let her know that he's interested in her sexually, although he's too much of a gentleman to make a move. If you want her blacked, then pick a charming friend who is black. Let them spend some time alone if you can. Forget he was supposed to come over. Have to run out for a minute to pick something up, but take longer than you expected. A little wine, well maybe several glasses, and if you've talked about fantasies and she knows you're okay with it, she might just spread her legs for his black penis. I guess what I'm really saying is that most women don't want to let complete strangers or something they don't like fuck them. Not really. If she does fuck one black man, it would be way easier for her to pull her panties down for another and then if she likes it, she has discovered on her own, without pressure from her husband, that she enjoys this lifestyle. Bottom line: She is much more likely to fuck a man she likes.

 

[siss4it37]

or did what I did my wife is a cop and i stopped giving her sex three months before her Christmas party then let her catch you wearing panties ! but be careful what you wish for .

 

[Julie0778]

There are a few things to consider if your goal is a hot wife and I'll consider the case that you want her blacked too.
1) Pick a girl to marry that has a sexual history with black men. You need to be successful enough that you can take care of her financially. Have it all open before you get married by asking her details of her interracial sex history and there will be no doubt she will do it after marriage too.
2) You've already married a woman and she doesn't seem very adventurous sexually and you feel like she would never in a million years fuck black men. You might be right, but you might not. Most women have the POTENTIAL to be way more sexually adventurous than you might imagine. But getting to that end goal of a stiff black penis ejaculating inside your wife will take time and baby steps to get there. The Wright Brothers didn't try to go to the moon on their first try. Here are some steps you can try:

• Bring it up in a non-threatening way. Ask her for her favorite sexual fantasies. Then shyly tell her your secret one (she is blacked). Tell her it's a very embarrassing fantasy and please, I trust you, never tell anyone and I don't really want it to actually happen, but I would love if you would humor me and talk it through or play act it with me.
• If you can make it just about the two of you. A secret never to be shared. You just might get her to act this out with pretending to be blacked, or her talking about a black man that made love to her or ***** her or whatever fantasy while you two fool around.
• Once she sees she can use this special secret to sexually arouse you, it becomes like wearing sexy lingerie or stockings or that cute short skirt or dress or shelf bra. It becomes something she used to make her feel sexy. She learns talking about it makes you hard.
• Find a black guy she likes in real life. Make him the focus of your secret shared fantasy. Promise you will never tell him or anybody....it's SOOO embarrassing! She will get more an more wired to associate him with sex, plus she already likes him. If she starts going into the details of the fantasy and you find she get really wet, really, really wet when you talk about the fantasy of sex between her and him, you know she would actually let him fuck her.
• Now, you have to play matchmaker. Your goal is simple. He puts his black erect penis in your wife's pussy and ejaculates inside her. She wants it to happen. If you picked the right kind of guy in the beginning, he would certainly want an easy piece of ass. If he can come over and she's had about four glasses of wine in her and you keep track of her period and know it's about the time she's ovulating, she will want him so badly, it will happen.

With all of that said, you might not ever get very far, but you have a chance if you take baby steps, are never pushy and try to make it a shared thing with your wife.

Good luck!

 

[atb147]

Let me shre my experience. My wife is shy and says that she doesn't like sex. However a few years ago I foubd some chats and photos in her phone revealing that she was having an affair with another woman. They were lovers. She denied, but the change in behaviour, clothes and all the chats were clear proof that I was cheating. When we were having sex she was rubbing her pussy to my body like the lesbians do. It was interesting experience.
However, I wanted to make her having sex with another man. For the last year I was avoiding her and even was rude at some times. A cuple of motnhs ago she was started showing me that she is very horny and wants to have sex. I was maintaining my beahavior. A cuple f weeks ago she told me that the electrician came to fix some issues. I wasn't at home. Her behaviour chaned again. She became more aggressive than usual. Her best freind told me that my wife was having sex with the electrician. I plan to make sex with her for a few months and repeat the strategy. It is worth it, Our sex live is much more passioante after she is cheating.

 

[stevemwm]

That's four lines. Enjoy the ignore!

Awww you didn’t like the reply so you ignore lol.

 

[Goin2WeFestCpl]

Start with a dildo. One bigger than you. You and the dildo take turns fucking her. I usually eat her out, then fuck her, when im about to nut, pull out and use the dildo on her. Fuck her good with the dildo while licking her pussy. When you are ready its your turn to fuck her again. Fuck her and blow your load in her. Get down there with the dildo and lick that pussy clean . Alot of sexy pillow talk, porn, communication. Stretching her out with bigger and bigger dildos. Make her fantasize and want more cock. May take years but can be done.

 

[throwback]

There are a few things to consider if your goal is a hot wife and I'll consider the case that you want her blacked too.
1) Pick a girl to marry that has a sexual history with black men. You need to be successful enough that you can take care of her financially. Have it all open before you get married by asking her details of her interracial sex history and there will be no doubt she will do it after marriage too.
2) You've already married a woman and she doesn't seem very adventurous sexually and you feel like she would never in a million years fuck black men. You might be right, but you might not. Most women have the POTENTIAL to be way more sexually adventurous than you might imagine. But getting to that end goal of a stiff black penis ejaculating inside your wife will take time and baby steps to get there. The Wright Brothers didn't try to go to the moon on their first try. Here are some steps you can try:

• Bring it up in a non-threatening way. Ask her for her favorite sexual fantasies. Then shyly tell her your secret one (she is blacked). Tell her it's a very embarrassing fantasy and please, I trust you, never tell anyone and I don't really want it to actually happen, but I would love if you would humor me and talk it through or play act it with me.
• If you can make it just about the two of you. A secret never to be shared. You just might get her to act this out with pretending to be blacked, or her talking about a black man that made love to her or ***** her or whatever fantasy while you two fool around.
• Once she sees she can use this special secret to sexually arouse you, it becomes like wearing sexy lingerie or stockings or that cute short skirt or dress or shelf bra. It becomes something she used to make her feel sexy. She learns talking about it makes you hard.
• Find a black guy she likes in real life. Make him the focus of your secret shared fantasy. Promise you will never tell him or anybody....it's SOOO embarrassing! She will get more an more wired to associate him with sex, plus she already likes him. If she starts going into the details of the fantasy and you find she get really wet, really, really wet when you talk about the fantasy of sex between her and him, you know she would actually let him fuck her.
• Now, you have to play matchmaker. Your goal is simple. He puts his black erect penis in your wife's pussy and ejaculates inside her. She wants it to happen. If you picked the right kind of guy in the beginning, he would certainly want an easy piece of ass. If he can come over and she's had about four glasses of wine in her and you keep track of her period and know it's about the time she's ovulating, she will want him so badly, it will happen.

With all of that said, you might not ever get very far, but you have a chance if you take baby steps, are never pushy and try to make it a shared thing with your wife.

Good luck!

These are great tips. been slowing working with my own wife, but you have given me a perspective to look at too. Thanks! Hopefully my wife can acquire a lover soon

 

[Debshusband]

The hardest part is getting started. Even if she's already cheating on you she'll deny, deny and deny some more. How do you tell your wife what you REALLY want and more importantly, get her to play along?

How true. My wife cheated for so long I just live with it. I used to confront her, she would deny. We did have some 3 ways with other guys, she said she didnt like it. So, she keeps fucking around and thinks I dont know.

 

[007cfc]

I started by playing games, getting her to point out guys she'd fuck... It was only a bit of fun after all!.
Then I'd mention it as I was fucking her, telling her how much other men would love to fuck her...
I then moved on to suggesting she tried it for real, telling her I'd let her.
Be prepared for a period of having a confused wife, a wife doubting your love for her etc, after all your telling her to go against the vows she's made, she will still see it as you suggesting she cheat.
All I wanted at this stage was to plant the idea in her head, I dare not expect any more than that.
I carried on playing the game of asking her to point out guys she'd fuck, then reminding her that she could if she wanted.
I'd remind her in bed, usually when she was at her most aroused, asking her if she fancied a new cock inside her, I'd done my bit, I knew the idea was growing on her.
I asked her to remember her gift whilst seeing and talking to guys that she met whilst out and whilst in work. This sounds obvious, but my wife spent 19 years oblivious to the men around her, she never cheated and never would, so most men were almost invisible
to her.
She eventually became more comfortable telling me when guys were hitting on her, they always did, but it never meant anything because she wasn't on the market so to speak.
I kept finding subtle ways to remind her, convince her she could, almost encouraging her.
The last piece of the plan is something I wouldn't suggest as it was risky, but I took that chance...
I found a site (newbie nudes), made a profile in a way I thought she would, simply stating she was a wife allowed to play.
I put up a few tasteful pics, absolutely no face pics, and with a false name. There was no way they could be linked to her.
The messages soon came flooding in, so I plucked up the courage to tell her.
Obviously she was a little angry, so I simply gave her the sign in details and suggested she just enjoyed reading the messages.
She has always found fault with her own body, so I wanted her to see what men thought of her, and how many wanted her.
She eventually started replying, and spoke to one guy over a period of a few months..
She showed me the message that was him asking her outright to finally meet her. It took a while, but by her side, she plucked up the courage to invite him to our house.
It worked, he spent the night fucking her in our bed, I had the frill of listening to him fucking my wife, and I will never forget listening to him frantically shooting his seed deep inside her.
It didn't stop there, 5 other guys went on to fuck my wife.
A few years have since past, she didn't go past 6, she starting not liking her own body again, but we are now talking about it again, and I'm seeing her interest growing again.. I can't wait!

 

[throwback]

I started by playing games, getting her to point out guys she'd fuck... It was only a bit of fun after all!.
Then I'd mention it as I was fucking her, telling her how much other men would love to fuck her...
I then moved on to suggesting she tried it for real, telling her I'd let her.
Be prepared for a period of having a confused wife, a wife doubting your love for her etc, after all your telling her to go against the vows she's made, she will still see it as you suggesting she cheat.
All I wanted at this stage was to plant the idea in her head, I dare not expect any more than that.
I carried on playing the game of asking her to point out guys she'd fuck, then reminding her that she could if she wanted.
I'd remind her in bed, usually when she was at her most aroused, asking her if she fancied a new cock inside her, I'd done my bit, I knew the idea was growing on her.
I asked her to remember her gift whilst seeing and talking to guys that she met whilst out and whilst in work. This sounds obvious, but my wife spent 19 years oblivious to the men around her, she never cheated and never would, so most men were almost invisible
to her.
She eventually became more comfortable telling me when guys were hitting on her, they always did, but it never meant anything because she wasn't on the market so to speak.
I kept finding subtle ways to remind her, convince her she could, almost encouraging her.
The last piece of the plan is something I wouldn't suggest as it was risky, but I took that chance...
I found a site (newbie nudes), made a profile in a way I thought she would, simply stating she was a wife allowed to play.
I put up a few tasteful pics, absolutely no face pics, and with a false name. There was no way they could be linked to her.
The messages soon came flooding in, so I plucked up the courage to tell her.
Obviously she was a little angry, so I simply gave her the sign in details and suggested she just enjoyed reading the messages.
She has always found fault with her own body, so I wanted her to see what men thought of her, and how many wanted her.
She eventually started replying, and spoke to one guy over a period of a few months..
She showed me the message that was him asking her outright to finally meet her. It took a while, but by her side, she plucked up the courage to invite him to our house.
It worked, he spent the night fucking her in our bed, I had the frill of listening to him fucking my wife, and I will never forget listening to him frantically shooting his seed deep inside her.
It didn't stop there, 5 other guys went on to fuck my wife.
A few years have since past, she didn't go past 6, she starting not liking her own body again, but we are now talking about it again, and I'm seeing her interest growing again.. I can't wait!

Great tips. Great ideas . I’m going to start implementing some of this in my game to get her forward into the next stage.

 

[Julie0778]

I started by playing games, getting her to point out guys she'd fuck... It was only a bit of fun after all!.
Then I'd mention it as I was fucking her, telling her how much other men would love to fuck her...
I then moved on to suggesting she tried it for real, telling her I'd let her.
Be prepared for a period of having a confused wife, a wife doubting your love for her etc, after all your telling her to go against the vows she's made, she will still see it as you suggesting she cheat.
All I wanted at this stage was to plant the idea in her head, I dare not expect any more than that.
I carried on playing the game of asking her to point out guys she'd fuck, then reminding her that she could if she wanted.
I'd remind her in bed, usually when she was at her most aroused, asking her if she fancied a new cock inside her, I'd done my bit, I knew the idea was growing on her.
I asked her to remember her gift whilst seeing and talking to guys that she met whilst out and whilst in work. This sounds obvious, but my wife spent 19 years oblivious to the men around her, she never cheated and never would, so most men were almost invisible
to her.
She eventually became more comfortable telling me when guys were hitting on her, they always did, but it never meant anything because she wasn't on the market so to speak.
I kept finding subtle ways to remind her, convince her she could, almost encouraging her.
The last piece of the plan is something I wouldn't suggest as it was risky, but I took that chance...
I found a site (newbie nudes), made a profile in a way I thought she would, simply stating she was a wife allowed to play.
I put up a few tasteful pics, absolutely no face pics, and with a false name. There was no way they could be linked to her.
The messages soon came flooding in, so I plucked up the courage to tell her.
Obviously she was a little angry, so I simply gave her the sign in details and suggested she just enjoyed reading the messages.
She has always found fault with her own body, so I wanted her to see what men thought of her, and how many wanted her.
She eventually started replying, and spoke to one guy over a period of a few months..
She showed me the message that was him asking her outright to finally meet her. It took a while, but by her side, she plucked up the courage to invite him to our house.
It worked, he spent the night fucking her in our bed, I had the frill of listening to him fucking my wife, and I will never forget listening to him frantically shooting his seed deep inside her.
It didn't stop there, 5 other guys went on to fuck my wife.
A few years have since past, she didn't go past 6, she starting not liking her own body again, but we are now talking about it again, and I'm seeing her interest growing again.. I can't wait!

So many women are insecure about their bodies. I'd say almost all of them. While what you did was certainly risky in terms of your relationship with her, it did let her know that she is sexy and desirable, which is a great feeling to have. Want your wife to cuckold you? Her self-confidence certainly is a big first step.

 

[Cuckedboipussy]

I told my wife I had a fantasy of her fucking another guy 1 evening and by next morning she fucked someone

 

[Daveupstateny]

Great tips thanks everyone

 

[wsh]

Due to work we knew there would be a long distance relationship for one to two years in which we would visit each other but spent in total only about three months per year together.
I told her that I do not want to cheat and that I also could not trust her anymore is she would cheat. So in order not to risk that something happens that could damage our relationship I suggested that we agree from the very beginning to have an open relationship for that time.
The rules had to be simple: Each of us can have sex with whoever he wants as long as he informs the partner.
She first did not like it and said that was an excuse for me to fuck other girls or visit prostitutes because she would not sleep with another men. Later she agreed, since she realized otherwise we might be tempted to keep secrets that could harm our relationship....

First six months nothing happend. Then I had an ONS with another girl. I told her. To my suprizse she was ok with it. Few weeks later she had an ONS, two weeks later the next one. Ok I thought, that was her way showing me, she can do the same.
But it was not over, she started liking it. She then had three affairs lasting from a few weeks until several months.
She joined one guy for a three day road trip. When I asked her whether they had sex she told me that they already started the first day and did it twice a day for all three days.
In total she was fucked by six differnt guys within the last 18 months. There was a time in between I wanted her to stop, she told me that I was the one who started it and now I had to live with it.

 

[wantstowatch]

I also would like to know the answer

Me too, If only it was as easy as some people say

 

[nomdeplume]

My wife's female BF stopped over one day last summer. My wife and I were both doing some landscaping work outside and I was in cargo shorts and no shirt. As we were talking she mentioned that if she was our unicorn she'd be sexually taking care of both of us! This was completely lost on my wife but not on me. I've thought about it quite a bit since then. How the hell can I get my wife or her GF to get things moving?

 

[wsh]

My wife's female BF stopped over one day last summer. My wife and I were both doing some landscaping work outside and I was in cargo shorts and no shirt. As we were talking she mentioned that if she was our unicorn she'd be sexually taking care of both of us! This was completely lost on my wife but not on me. I've thought about it quite a bit since then. How the hell can I get my wife or her GF to get things moving?

You are such a lucky guy. My wife would not mind if I had another girl, but since she is straight, I have even lower chances to find another women for sex than single men.

 

[toolman]

What a great post!
Totally agree with everything written particularly the last part.
My wife over a period of time has moved it along from doing it to please me, to taking control of our sex life.
Hell yes there are times even now some 16 years after our first experience I get jealous.
When we started it was with an ex of hers who was an extremely good looking confident guy who was double my cock size plus. Watching them that first time was intense and on more than one occasion it crossed my mind to stop it.
I'm glad I didn't because she needed it, our sex life went up significantly asci tried in vain to please her as he had but I had no chance and slowly encouraged her to see him more. She didn't need a lot of persuasion!
She has moved from there to meeting guys and telling me about her experiences afterwards on her return home. She has met guys from work( her boss has been seeing her 11 years!).
Our most intense experience was on holiday In tenerife.
We had a lovely boozy afternoon by the pool and two young guys eventually joined our chat and it got quite flirty. She leaned across to me and said " hope you don't mind lovely but it's time for you to go and have a nap!" Wow! We were on the same floor as them and I lay on my balcony I could hear the three of them playing. Was only away just over an hour but she totally enjoyed herself and loved telling me every detail.
Since then she plays mainly with her boss but every now and again she will flirt with a guy and disappear while we are out just because she can.
I've grown to love our life and yes we have disagreements I worry she sees her boss too often, but then moments later I'm encouraging her to see him!
The crazy mind of a cuck!

i love how this worked out for u2, and how good u are telling about it, super hot.

 

[toolman]

I was to embarrassed to just tell her my fantasy so I told her I dreamt about it. Revealed the details slowly while we fucked. Her withe two me. Neither one was me. Added some toys. Occasional porn with mfm or cheating scenario. Often interracial. Introduced chat rooms. So when I traveled for work she would get on and get off. I’d often log in anonymously and chat her up knowing what she liked and getting her to explore a bit further until she was pretty comfortable chatting and orgasming with others. Kept encouraging and telling her it wasn’t just a fantasy. Reassured at every turn. Until she finally went for it. Probably took 4 years to go from fantasy to actually doing it. Still isn’t going out fucking anyone. Has had two bulls. Looking for a third but she absolutely has to be connected to him for it to work.

are u glad u got past it and told her how much you wanted 2c her pleasured? please update new adventures, DM. me would b great.

 

[johndews]

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