Touching a woman with your hand causes her body to release a powerful hormone called Oxytocin which instantly shoots more testosterone into her bloodstream and increases her libido. Oxytocin also causes her to feel a bonding with a man and to feel good around him. It makes him seem more friendly than a stranger.
Even for a woman who "never feels like sex" and acts cold, a few touches can make her horny for sex. It does not matter where (or how) much you touch her - even a small touch on her arm is enough to release oxytocin hormones into her bloodstream and "warm" her up to you.
Oxytocin gives her the desire to be touched even more, producing yet even more oxytocin - a reinforcing cycle of sex hormone escalation.
This oyytocin touch response is much more powerful for women than it is for men. Oxytocin requires estrogen to work. Without estrogen it does not work. Women have more estrogen in their bodies than men.
Bulls, have you ever noticed how a woman you have not noticed before, touched you on the hand or shoulder, and suddenly you started to think differently about her, in a sexual way perhaps? Well, in women the affect is ten times stronger.
Don't underestimate how one or two well-placed touches can make her start thinking about you, or even getting wet between her legs without being able to stop it happening.
For a man to make this work, be the kind of guy who is comfortable touching women from the moment you meet them. Act as if touching them is a normal thing to do all the time and women will accept that.
But don't start touching a woman all of a sudden after a few weeks of getting to know them, or it will feel weird to her, so start from the very first time you meet her.
Begin with small touches on her hands or arms to make her oxytocin hormones kick in. As you progress, play footsies with her under the table.
Take her hand when you walk together. Never ask to hold her hand, just take it.
Tell her to sit on your lap and stroke her thighs gently (again don't ask, just do it). Don't rush the touches, your aim is to make her wet.
Never ask a woman if you can touch her as it is far too creepy. A real man just does it naturally as he is always very confident in what he wants.
Sometimes, a woman just wants to be friends, but playful touches can help her to change her mind as the oxytocin starts flooding through her body as you become more playful, teasing and flirty. Her resistance melts away.
At first, you can pretend you have no interest in being more than a friend, so this lets you tickle her oxy and testosterone into action in small doses over a day or so until it becomes very natural to accidentally touch her in ways she won't initially see as being sexual.
When you first meet her, you can shake her hand and brush her arm. She won't object to that if you have a welcome smile on your face and friendly words. She will have a good first impression - and at leisure you can take your opportunities to give her an oxytocin charge up when you are ready to move to the next level.
While you are ramping up her oxytocin a notch at a time, let her feel that you are a man who has many options in life and you could easily be talking to another woman.
Even for a woman who "never feels like sex" and acts cold, a few touches can make her horny for sex. It does not matter where (or how) much you touch her - even a small touch on her arm is enough to release oxytocin hormones into her bloodstream and "warm" her up to you.
Oxytocin gives her the desire to be touched even more, producing yet even more oxytocin - a reinforcing cycle of sex hormone escalation.
This oyytocin touch response is much more powerful for women than it is for men. Oxytocin requires estrogen to work. Without estrogen it does not work. Women have more estrogen in their bodies than men.
Bulls, have you ever noticed how a woman you have not noticed before, touched you on the hand or shoulder, and suddenly you started to think differently about her, in a sexual way perhaps? Well, in women the affect is ten times stronger.
Don't underestimate how one or two well-placed touches can make her start thinking about you, or even getting wet between her legs without being able to stop it happening.
For a man to make this work, be the kind of guy who is comfortable touching women from the moment you meet them. Act as if touching them is a normal thing to do all the time and women will accept that.
But don't start touching a woman all of a sudden after a few weeks of getting to know them, or it will feel weird to her, so start from the very first time you meet her.
Begin with small touches on her hands or arms to make her oxytocin hormones kick in. As you progress, play footsies with her under the table.
Take her hand when you walk together. Never ask to hold her hand, just take it.
Tell her to sit on your lap and stroke her thighs gently (again don't ask, just do it). Don't rush the touches, your aim is to make her wet.
Never ask a woman if you can touch her as it is far too creepy. A real man just does it naturally as he is always very confident in what he wants.
Sometimes, a woman just wants to be friends, but playful touches can help her to change her mind as the oxytocin starts flooding through her body as you become more playful, teasing and flirty. Her resistance melts away.
At first, you can pretend you have no interest in being more than a friend, so this lets you tickle her oxy and testosterone into action in small doses over a day or so until it becomes very natural to accidentally touch her in ways she won't initially see as being sexual.
When you first meet her, you can shake her hand and brush her arm. She won't object to that if you have a welcome smile on your face and friendly words. She will have a good first impression - and at leisure you can take your opportunities to give her an oxytocin charge up when you are ready to move to the next level.
While you are ramping up her oxytocin a notch at a time, let her feel that you are a man who has many options in life and you could easily be talking to another woman.
