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Tell us about your bully. Who is he in relation to you? What kinds of things does he do that cause you to view him as "your bully"? Can you minimize his affects on you by declining to have anything to do with him? Or, are you ****** to put up with him on a daily basis — because, for instance, you have to work with (or for) him?
And, what is your woman friend's relationship to you and to "your bully"? Does she even know him, and if so, does she know that you view him in that way?