Cuckolding of her husband by a married woman is not an expression of equality...
lindacarnel23 said:
I mean is it a means for women to get back some of the promiscuous men have portrayed for long or is it just a means for women to act like sluts. I mean does cuckoldry really happen either in the "traditional" sense or in the more common sense of today?
This question seems sort of hard to interpret. I'll assume you're asking: "Are the married women of today who cuckold their husbands viewing them as representatives of all the men who have 'fucked around' on their wives during past centuries, and attempting to wreak revenge?"
The motivations of women who cuckold their husbands or LTR partners vary widely, I'll guess, so you would be best off to ask the individual cuckoldresses you know. Some of them may fall into this category, but I suspect not a great many.
The second half of your question appears to be: "Or, are the married women of today merely taking advantage of their increased ability — now that they're in the workforce to about the same extent as men — to pursue satisfying their sexual desires by cuckolding their husbands, more or less just as men have always done or tried to do by 'fucking around' on their wives?"
The answer to this question, I strongly suspect, is "yes." Mac has explained it well.
she_likes_2_be_touched said:
I personally like being a slut!! I can sneak around, flirt with and fuck who ever I want!! I will admit it I do get off on the "power" of it too!!
Good for you, Ms. She_likes_2_be_touched. Apparently you're in the second category. You like fucking, your cuckold isn't giving you enough of it, so you fuck other men while enjoying the delicious eroticism of knowing you're doing something that's socially taboo but HIGHLY pleasurable.
The feeling of power over your husband this gives you illustrates that your cuckolding of him is not a way of expressing equality. This, of course, is because in a genetic sense he has much to lose while you have nothing to lose and potentially something to gain. In wanting you to be faithful to him (if he does), your cuckold is saying he wants you to pass his genes combined with yours along to the next generation. In fucking other men, you are subjecting him to the risk that you will pass the genes of another man (not his) combined with yours along to the next generation. In addition, your cuckold may "lose" in the sense that he'll have to stay home babysitting, supporting and raising the children of another man (or men) while you continue to enjoy the pleasures of dating and fucking your lovers. Ergo, you win in a genetic sense regardless of whether your children are fathered by your cuckold or your lovers (and you may win big, if your lovers have better genes than your cuckold).
To put it briefly: in a "cuckold husband / hotwife" marriage, it is the wife who holds and wields power.