Is it as hot if you dont have to convince her?

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Hi
I am new to the site, not new to the fantasy, though.
This is a question that intrigues me. Most often, a wife or gf is reluctant to cuckold her guy. Most women take a lot of convincing. I really love that part of this dynamic. The more reluctant the wife or gf is, the more erotic the whole idea is to me. Maybe it's because her reluctance signifies that she is more innocent, or conventional. There may be lots of reasons for it.
In any case, it's almost a letdown for me when I hear about a wife who just takes off into the cuckold lifestyle without any hesitation.
Does anyone else have the same take on this, or is it just me?

 

[Wishinghubs]

Not just you, I feel exactly the same way as you!

 

[BigdaddyToronto]

Different kinds of hot.
The slutty, cant control her sexual impulses around men type of hotwife is hot too.
In your example, the husband is still very much in control.
in the other example, the wife is calling the shots....maybe even relinquishing control to the boyfriend.