Hi all,
The other day my wife asked me to pull the clean washing out of the machine so she could put the next basket in. I did but as the next basket was there, I proceeded to put this load of dirty clothes in.
She then noticed what I was doing and shouted "I said id do that!" I just carried on but something seemed strange about her comment and she looked nervous!? Well, I started to get immediately suspicious and I found a pair of her black knickers, heavily cum stained. Three large dried patches merged together filling the gusset area. I was so gobsmacked and yet breathless with arousal. She did not see this, so I kept quiet. Weve not had sex for some time and average about once a month.
As you can imagine, it's not left my mind. I actually sent her a long email really re inforcing to her my feelings on her taking on another man or men for better sex. I was very thoughtful in my wording and made it very clear that me watching and wanking off is not the main thing. I wrote that id be happy if she did this at whatever level or regularity, and also with whatever involvement she wished to give me. Anything from being in the same room to being at home and then doing nothing more than asking if she's had a great time then wanking myself, if she was too tired etc. It was a very long email I sent and I asked her to think before answering or talking to me. She seems to be very happy since but has not mentioned it yet. I'm really stuck for what she's thinking????? How long can we go before having a serious conversation?
Could it be anything other than sperm I saw??? I really don't know what to do next.
In the past she has said that even though talking about it is exciting, she just doesn't wish to do this. Although she's never ruled it out completely.
I went snooping a little which really isn't me, but found a vibrator I didn't know she had. I gave her money to take to an Anne Summers party fairly recently, and I think she's bought this then. She's obviously used it, as it was under our bed on her side.
What do I do and how long should I go before saying anything????
Thanks
The other day my wife asked me to pull the clean washing out of the machine so she could put the next basket in. I did but as the next basket was there, I proceeded to put this load of dirty clothes in.
She then noticed what I was doing and shouted "I said id do that!" I just carried on but something seemed strange about her comment and she looked nervous!? Well, I started to get immediately suspicious and I found a pair of her black knickers, heavily cum stained. Three large dried patches merged together filling the gusset area. I was so gobsmacked and yet breathless with arousal. She did not see this, so I kept quiet. Weve not had sex for some time and average about once a month.
As you can imagine, it's not left my mind. I actually sent her a long email really re inforcing to her my feelings on her taking on another man or men for better sex. I was very thoughtful in my wording and made it very clear that me watching and wanking off is not the main thing. I wrote that id be happy if she did this at whatever level or regularity, and also with whatever involvement she wished to give me. Anything from being in the same room to being at home and then doing nothing more than asking if she's had a great time then wanking myself, if she was too tired etc. It was a very long email I sent and I asked her to think before answering or talking to me. She seems to be very happy since but has not mentioned it yet. I'm really stuck for what she's thinking????? How long can we go before having a serious conversation?
Could it be anything other than sperm I saw??? I really don't know what to do next.
In the past she has said that even though talking about it is exciting, she just doesn't wish to do this. Although she's never ruled it out completely.
I went snooping a little which really isn't me, but found a vibrator I didn't know she had. I gave her money to take to an Anne Summers party fairly recently, and I think she's bought this then. She's obviously used it, as it was under our bed on her side.
What do I do and how long should I go before saying anything????
Thanks
