Hi Ms. Sarah,
Thank you for your interesting post and photos, especially the one showing your sissy actually squirting. Good timing!
SarahwantsBIGcock said:
One of the reasons I am reluctant to put my fiance into a chastity device is because of the way he cums. He squirts like a real sissy! Producing a lot of cum is traditionally viewed as a sign of masculine potency, but its the way he squirts uncontrollably all over the lingerie I make him wear that seems so sissified.
Nothing wrong with that. Requiring her fiance or husband to wear a chastity device is not necessarily best for every woman. You should handle your man in the way you want to and in the way(s) that seem most satisfying for you! If sissifying your man, requiring him to wear women's lingerie and dresses when it pleases you, and using your magic hand to force him to ejaculate in his panties turns you on, hey... go for it!
SarahwantsBIGcock said:
While I think the idea of orgasm denial is hot, I do feel that this would also be denying me much satisfaction and amusement. It reminds me also that there was something much more manly about the way my past (better-endowed) lovers came.
Well, you definitely should not deny YOURSELF sexual satisfaction and erotic amusement.
SarahwantsBIGcock said:
Last night, I had him in panties,fishnets and nightie kneeling in front of me.
Very good... obviously, you are relating to your man in appropriate ways and have him on track...
SarahwantsBIGcock said:
I began playing with his thumb sized dick, then ordered him to finish as I watched. He looks so submissive, humiliated and desperate to please that I almost pity him. He's completely in my control.
Excellent! You appear to be on your way to a mutually-satisfying marriage. I gather you're among the women who like watching their man masturbate at their feet. You might consider relaxing in your easy chair (fully dressed, of course) and requiring your sissy to kneel before you (as you described), then holding out your cupped hand and having him ejaculate into your hand, then feeding his cum to him and requiring him to swallow it all.
Or alternatively, you might consider having your sissy ejaculate onto your FMBs (or pumps or bare feet), then requiring him to lick up his cum and swallow it.
SarahwantsBIGcock said:
Cucks, bulls and most importantly wives, what are your thoughts on chastity, denial and the fact that it means not having the joy of seeing his laughable erection and the way he squirts for me?
Why not "have your cake and eat it too"? Suppose you were to lock up your sissy's teeny weenie in a suitable male chastity device. As his sole key holder, perhaps you could wear his key on a chain around your neck to remind him of your authority. That would ensure he would not beat his weenie behind your back without your permission, and that would certainly ensure he would not pursue other women.
Then, whenever you wish to be amused, you could require your sissy to dress up, unlock him, and require him to beat his weenie while kneeling before you, ejaculating into your hand or onto your feet (per the above). Or, you could use your magic hand to force him to ejaculate into his panties.
You could do this anywhere from one to several times per week, locking your sissy up again afterwards each time, depending on how frequently you wish to be amused in this fashion.
If it is your desire to be amused in this way every day, of course, that would make a chastity device for your sissy less convenient and more problematical.
—Custer