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A gal that used to work with my wife was into interracial BIG time.
She kept propositioning my wife to come over to her house, and she was going to call up a couple of guys she knew and have them come over and fuck my wife. My wife actually gave it a bit of consideration, but this coworker wanted to watch her, and that wound up killing the deal.
If my wife were to arrange a date with a black guy she knew, I wouldn't have any problem if it extended into the wee hours of the morning or if she was comfortable enough to spend the night at his house.
However, it's much more likely she invited a guy over to our house one night when I was visiting family out of state. She would want to keep that absolutely private, and that would be the safest way to ensure that.