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So I caught Chris jacking off, I acted mad and told him to go get his box. He said I never made a rule against it so I informed him I just did and to get his box. He pulled out women s underwear. We went to the store and found a pair that would fit him.. I made him go to checkout on his own and he got some funny stares. I then made him change into them in the car. Then we spent the day at his buddies house I could tell he was uncomfortable lol.
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Hi Ms. Realgirl,
Given your post #19 of 11 Jan. 2011:
See below re. some potential additional rules.
Very good. In connection with informing Chris you might "use [your presumably-larger new dildo] on him," you might consider also informing Chris that in addition to wanting a "cock" considerably larger than his teeny weeny, henceforth in your relationship YOU will do the fucking and HE will be fucked, whenever you feel like it... which may be frequently.
For a guide to fucking your man, see:
Take It Like A Man - Pegging and Strap-On Sex
Good response. BTW, somewhere in the site on FLRs I suggested it says that men who want or crave FLRs usually masterbate almost every day. (Having quoted that assertion, I should mention the author almost certainly has it wrong. She should have said: "Ninety percent of men admit they masturbate frequently, and the other 10% are lying.")
In any case, as the woman and boss of your relationship, it was entirely proper for you to become angry when you caught your man beating his weenie... because, of course, ALL of his sexual energy and activities should be oriented toward pleasing you. Thus, a "rule" you could give Chris would be: when he wants to beat his weenie, he MUST ask your permission. If you choose to grant your permission, he will then do it under your supervision in a way that amuses you, as directed by you. Furthermore, he must ALWAYS ask your permission before he cums. If you do not grant him permission to cum, he must refrain until you do.
For example: many women (as I understand it) find it pleasurable to watch a man masturbate at their feet. If that appeals to you, you could order Chris to take off his clothes, then... remaining fully clothed yourself... sit down in your easy chair, relax, and order him to kneel before you. When he's on his knees, order him to begin beating his weenie and do so with his eyes cast downward, looking down at your feet.
When he asks your permission to cum, order him to cum into one of your extended hands, then feed it to him and require him, as usual, to lick up and swallow his cum. Or alternatively, order him to cum on your boots (or pumps or bare feet), then lick it up and swallow it. In either case, after he has eaten his cum, you could point downward at your boots and say, "Kiss" such that he finishes by bowing down before you and kissing and licking your boots until you say, "That will do" (or words to that effect).
This also was a good way to respond to Chris outrageously beating his weenie without your permission.
That was a nice touch. Another slightly different way to handle it, which would be in your "public humiliation" category, would be:
When you require Chris to buy another pair of panties, accompany him to the women's lingerie store (as you did), then select a pair of panties that appeals to you, then hand them to him and have him hold them in front of his waist and crotch while you stand back, look, and decide whether you like them, and maybe do this several times with several different types and styles. Then, have him go to the checkout (as you did), but stand behind him as he steps up to the cash register. Then, when the checkout woman rings up his panties, have him turn to you (standing behind him) and you give him the money to pay (say, a $20 bill). Then, have Chris give the money to the checkout woman and, when she returns his change, have him turn around and give the change back to you. Finally, leave with Chris carrying his new panties in a small bag. You would have to outline this scenario to Chris in advance, of course, so he'll know what you expect of him. (You could also have him give you the $20 in advance to pay for his new panties.)
Perfect! Speaking of which, another rule for Chris could be: whenever you go somewhere together, you will drive and he will ride in the passenger seat (unless you tell him to drive), AND he will always open and close your door for you when you're departing, before walking around to the passenger side of the vehicle, and after you arrive.
The symbolism of this rule, should you choose to adopt it, would be that it will indicate that in your relationship, you are in the drivers seat. It should apply, needless to say, regardless of whether you are using Chris' or your vehicle.
Chris was probably terrified that you would casually mention to his buddy that he was wearing panties or, worse, that you had "pantied him."
—Custer
Hi Ms. Realgirl,
Given your post #19 of 11 Jan. 2011:
realgirl said:
See below re. some potential additional rules.
realgirl said:
Very good. In connection with informing Chris you might "use [your presumably-larger new dildo] on him," you might consider also informing Chris that in addition to wanting a "cock" considerably larger than his teeny weeny, henceforth in your relationship YOU will do the fucking and HE will be fucked, whenever you feel like it... which may be frequently.
For a guide to fucking your man, see:
Take It Like A Man - Pegging and Strap-On Sex
realgirl said:
Good response. BTW, somewhere in the site on FLRs I suggested it says that men who want or crave FLRs usually masterbate almost every day. (Having quoted that assertion, I should mention the author almost certainly has it wrong. She should have said: "Ninety percent of men admit they masturbate frequently, and the other 10% are lying.")
In any case, as the woman and boss of your relationship, it was entirely proper for you to become angry when you caught your man beating his weenie... because, of course, ALL of his sexual energy and activities should be oriented toward pleasing you. Thus, a "rule" you could give Chris would be: when he wants to beat his weenie, he MUST ask your permission. If you choose to grant your permission, he will then do it under your supervision in a way that amuses you, as directed by you. Furthermore, he must ALWAYS ask your permission before he cums. If you do not grant him permission to cum, he must refrain until you do.
For example: many women (as I understand it) find it pleasurable to watch a man masturbate at their feet. If that appeals to you, you could order Chris to take off his clothes, then... remaining fully clothed yourself... sit down in your easy chair, relax, and order him to kneel before you. When he's on his knees, order him to begin beating his weenie and do so with his eyes cast downward, looking down at your feet.
When he asks your permission to cum, order him to cum into one of your extended hands, then feed it to him and require him, as usual, to lick up and swallow his cum. Or alternatively, order him to cum on your boots (or pumps or bare feet), then lick it up and swallow it. In either case, after he has eaten his cum, you could point downward at your boots and say, "Kiss" such that he finishes by bowing down before you and kissing and licking your boots until you say, "That will do" (or words to that effect).
realgirl said:
This also was a good way to respond to Chris outrageously beating his weenie without your permission.
realgirl said:
That was a nice touch. Another slightly different way to handle it, which would be in your "public humiliation" category, would be:
When you require Chris to buy another pair of panties, accompany him to the women's lingerie store (as you did), then select a pair of panties that appeals to you, then hand them to him and have him hold them in front of his waist and crotch while you stand back, look, and decide whether you like them, and maybe do this several times with several different types and styles. Then, have him go to the checkout (as you did), but stand behind him as he steps up to the cash register. Then, when the checkout woman rings up his panties, have him turn to you (standing behind him) and you give him the money to pay (say, a $20 bill). Then, have Chris give the money to the checkout woman and, when she returns his change, have him turn around and give the change back to you. Finally, leave with Chris carrying his new panties in a small bag. You would have to outline this scenario to Chris in advance, of course, so he'll know what you expect of him. (You could also have him give you the $20 in advance to pay for his new panties.)
realgirl said:
Perfect! Speaking of which, another rule for Chris could be: whenever you go somewhere together, you will drive and he will ride in the passenger seat (unless you tell him to drive), AND he will always open and close your door for you when you're departing, before walking around to the passenger side of the vehicle, and after you arrive.
The symbolism of this rule, should you choose to adopt it, would be that it will indicate that in your relationship, you are in the drivers seat. It should apply, needless to say, regardless of whether you are using Chris' or your vehicle.
realgirl said:
Chris was probably terrified that you would casually mention to his buddy that he was wearing panties or, worse, that you had "pantied him."
—Custer
Ignore the haters. I posted my experiences with my ex and was met with requests for pics otherwise I was lying.
Some people dive right in. My first experience involved a video camera and my ex jamming her friends cock down her throat.
You are sexy as hell. I thought my ex may have been one of the hotter women who take part in this lifestyle but you are def top notch. What I would give to have another sexy lady into such a lifestyle.
Continue on with stories!
Some people dive right in. My first experience involved a video camera and my ex jamming her friends cock down her throat.
You are sexy as hell. I thought my ex may have been one of the hotter women who take part in this lifestyle but you are def top notch. What I would give to have another sexy lady into such a lifestyle.
Continue on with stories!
Additional punishments could be - wearing pantyhose to work, or - cock sucking practice with the dildo (for 5 minutes at a time?). Depending how far You want to push, You could make him use the dildo on himself. I was also thinking that if he has to eat his cum each time, what if You had him shoot his load onto the dildo and lick it off? Just some ideas, can't wait to hear how its going.
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Hello Realgirl you hot little fox you. You own him and now its time you took that little tight table pussy of yours and get a 9" REAL COCK. But what ever you do there is a whole bunch of us out here pulling for you to get a REAL DICK. Have fun and be real good girl (if you know what i mean) and make some unexpecting dude the happiest and luckiest pussy eater in the world.realgirl said:
okdeacon ps You are are real cutie and a prime keeper lady. I follow your posts from the "holloween" thread.
Although I personally do not like the humiliation thing, but I must say that I'm becoming a fan of yours in some ways.
I think that you should continue with the threesome idea. At first, this may be a role-playing game, and later, for real
You should cut down his orgasms and then when he's really horny let him put this punishment into the box before you let him fk you. Like a win-win situation- he gets his and you get yours - as if it would have been your bf himself who has been allowing you to do it
sry for my poor English
Although I personally do not like the humiliation thing, but I must say that I'm becoming a fan of yours in some ways.
I think that you should continue with the threesome idea. At first, this may be a role-playing game, and later, for real
You should cut down his orgasms and then when he's really horny let him put this punishment into the box before you let him fk you. Like a win-win situation- he gets his and you get yours - as if it would have been your bf himself who has been allowing you to do it
sry for my poor English
we text a lot mainly about this topic he really wants to fuck me hehe and we send lots of pictures back and fourth.
Chris has not been asking to masturbate so Ill ask him tonight and post a little later about it.
They were pink and lacy lol
I don't know why I enjoy the humiliation thing and sometimes it bothers me... but Im trying to be comfortable in what I enjoy.. Ill prob implement your idea Iwashere Ill let you know =)
and okdeacon I bet you are "pulling" for me hehe
Chris has not been asking to masturbate so Ill ask him tonight and post a little later about it.
They were pink and lacy lol
I don't know why I enjoy the humiliation thing and sometimes it bothers me... but Im trying to be comfortable in what I enjoy.. Ill prob implement your idea Iwashere Ill let you know =)
and okdeacon I bet you are "pulling" for me hehe
Be careful with the humiliation. I too thought that it might be cool, until my wife to tried it out on me. I could not stand it, went off the mood and got angry with her. Apparently I'm too alpha for that. But i think sharing would still be interesting, I hope
My wife got a conditional permission from me for about a year ago, but so far she has not wanted to use it. She said that she does not want to do it, not even for my birthday present, because it is not a turn on for her.
We are about 9 years together and have s on a regular basis. We do role-playng but thats all.
I hope that you will have more luck on this
My wife got a conditional permission from me for about a year ago, but so far she has not wanted to use it. She said that she does not want to do it, not even for my birthday present, because it is not a turn on for her.
We are about 9 years together and have s on a regular basis. We do role-playng but thats all.
I hope that you will have more luck on this
So I asked Chris if he had been and he said no... So I looked at his internet history and it was free of porn.. I asked him why he hadn't ask to jack off he said it was embarrassing I told him its what turns me on. I then asked him if he likes when I embarrass him he said I don't know so I told him I want a yes or no answer. He said yes.
As a reward he got a blow job and one hot ass fuck. Of course he had to clean up after.
As a reward he got a blow job and one hot ass fuck. Of course he had to clean up after.
