Yea, it's been a real learning experience. We definitely screened carefully. He said he understood the rules we laid out, would follow her lead at every turn, etc. And for the most part, he did, but then got too pushy and tried to get us to go against our own rules. Will spare the details, but the vibes got bad from that point on, and it was a quick realization that this wasn't going to be right. If you give him an inch, he'll take a mile -- this is what it was starting to feel like.
Thank you all so much for the support and advice. I read them all and def do and will heed them.
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Thank you three for checking in and sharing advice!
So glad wifey is not soured by this. Just a little hurt, and a lot disappointed. Like I said, we're moving on...!