My shy wife
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Love her, but what is your agenda here? have you shared her? Has she been blacked? Is she, are you ready to adopt the "lifestyle"?
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E-mail me: www.caesars_lair@yahoo.com
Well since you asked . . . I am a wannabe and she is the typical reluctant wife. She is aware of my desires, but doesn't take them too seriously. I do like sharing her pics and hearing how much you guys like them. I am trying to convince her to take advantage of my nature, but because I am so devoted to her I have to go at her pace. At least she has learned to appreciate the attention she gets and she will tell emwhen guys flirt or check her out, so we have made some progress, but its been slow going.
As said so often
Don't over do, don't push, you have to use a bit of old fashioned phys. she has to be comfortable with your trust and her own level of trust in herself. Never hurts to share exciting true life stories you get from here or other sites, if you know a couple that you can meet that has been doing this a while not for sex but to work it into converstation that might help. One big thing is go in to it with complete honesty, let her know your willing to and must have guidelines you both can live with. One thing I have found, don't be fooled by a lot of what you read, there are always exceptions and kinky people of all kinds, but most of the people I know personaly that are into swinging, open life styles, hotwifing, the wifes do not want a gay husband, a little bi maybe, but they don't want him wearing chasity belts and are not about seeing there husband with another man or woman for that matter. For example, my wife let me spend weekend with a female freind while she had a male freind with her, we talked on phone every evening shared stories of what we were doing, two things she wanted to hear from me, was the other woman was not as good or hot as her, and I loved her. She has no desire to see me with another female. There are exceptions to this, but I think you will find the woman wants it to be about them doing this for themselves and convinces herself she is doing it for you too. In my book and experinces if she cuts you off then there is trouble in the kitchen, because its about sharing, trust and love, and if you start that crap about not wanting to do her but just let other men, unless you have a medical reason for that, then there is trouble at the bucher shop. Soon, very soon, your just sharing a house, roomates and women don't get married to be a roomate. So again don't push, you have to sell this over time, good luckmcath01 said:
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