My wife says now that she might try this (another man; most of our talks have been about black). This needs to be someone over 35 or so; patient; hopefully taller than 5-11 and with a nice, fit body. And of course, well hung-- although she doesn't need a monster. She is petite and I'm sorry I can't show her pic here, but she is a fit, slim Asian of 53 years of age. This is for real, but I also will be honest and say, she's still scared and unsure so we'll have to play it by ear some.