Babeneedsit said:
She's been mentioning more about slimming down these last few times we've had sex so she can be super hot to get my cock off better. But, im pretty sure she wants to do that so she'll feel like other guys want her.
You have it right, most likely. Becoming, or wanting to become, a hotwife is strong motivation for a married woman to pay attention to her diet, thereby keeping her weight down, and possibly joining a gym to improve her physical condition and appearance. A cuckold husband writing on another site (which no longer exists, unfortunately) put it this way: "When my wife goes out on a date, I get a break from salads and go out for a steak dinner. And, I don't have to worry about entertaining her. Other men do that." So, I suggest you encourage your wife to join a gym and take other measures to improve her health, weight and appearance.
Babeneedsit said:
We were playing with her big black dildo yesterday and it made her cum in 2-3 minutes. And, she sucked me off while she kept it in her. After she unloaded me she was excited about how she shot the big black dildo out of her pussy while it happened.
Very good. I hope your wife has given her big black dildo a name, so both of you can refer to it as if it's a real lover.
Babeneedsit said:
Then, she got up and said she's seen a porn where a chick did it with a big black cock and it was hot. Shes definitely down.
Very good. If your wife thinks visually... that is, if she can look at a man she finds attractive and (for instance) visualize him in the nude, with an erection, and fucking him... that's positive. Or, if she can visually remember a porn movie she saw somewhere (online?), and use those thoughts to turn herself on while she's fucking you... that should aid her with seducing a potential lover, when she gets to that point.
Babeneedsit said:
I'm not sure if we have the extreme cuck dynamic going.
Hey, whatever works for the two of you...
Babeneedsit said:
She's gonna be more of a hotwife vixen that wants 2 or 3 holes filled.
As the saying goes: "Predictions are difficult, especially of the future."
If you live in or near a fairly large urban area, you might look into when a hotel there will be hosting its next conference. (Large hotels often make their money hosting conferences... in between, they're largely empty.) If you take your wife to the hotel bar while a conference is in progress, you could sit elsewhere and keep an eye on what's happening, while your wife sits at the bar, or at a table next to or near, a man she finds attractive. If he offers to buy her a drink, she could accept. Then, after some conversation, if he asks whether she would "like to see his room" (or something equivalent), she could accept but excuse herself while she goes to the women's restroom to freshen up. Then, from the women's restroom, she could call you (for safety purposes) and tell you the man's name and which hotel room she and her lover-of-the-evening will be in. Then, you could continue waiting in the hotel bar while your wife formally makes you her cuckold. Afterwards, you could leave the hotel separately, then meet outside and take her home.