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Need advice...new girlfriend and a woopsie by her...

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Cheat2plz

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Hello.... To summarize things, my ex girlfriend, best way to explain it...was a major cock *****. She had an ability to find guys with huge dicks to fuck her all the time. She had a fascination with one particular guys cock and the way he fucked her. 6 years of fun like this and we finally separated. We were never going to take the next step and get married.

I slent almost 4 years single. Couple short relationships, boring sex and no chemistry. Fast forward to fall 2012, I meet a great girl. Things were hot and heavy at first but we both slowed it down and wow, it's been a great start to our relationship. Everything has been great including sex. As time has gone on, with some alcohol in her system, she has volunteered some information. Turns out when she was a teenager, she was a bit of a slut. She says 'i did a lot of stupid shit, but I had fun..' And 'im not real proud...wish I did things differently'.

I didn't press for any details, I just re-assured her that she was young, it was a learning experience and I'm glad she had fun. Over time, she has divulged some details without having to ask. She revealed she fucked a good buddy of mine during her teenage years and that he had a tiny dick. Then revealed she let someone fuck her on a picnic table at a lake and that it really hurt because slivvers suck! Hah! I still didn't press for details and hoped she was getting more comfortable with telling me these stories.

More time goes by and she starts asking about my past. I haven't slept with many women, however I am fit, good looking and fun to be around, I was a crazy outta control adrenaline freak not chasing pussy until I was in a long term, sexually intense relationship. Luckily she never got jealous but I did NOT tell her about my ex past and our experiences of a cuckold lifestyle. I think leaving this out and slowly revealing our pasts will work best.

About 2 months ago, she took some OLD disposable cameras to Wal-Mart to be developed. I got home from work a little late and she was just opening the packages to go through the photos. I'm peering over her shoulder a bit, notice she is acting a little weird and starts yammering about a particular photo she knows is in there, but I noticed she grabbed 5-6 photos and just quickly shuffled them to the back. I leave the room for a minute or two and come back and she found what she wanted to show me, some stupid family photo I couldn't have cared less about. A few hours later she was getting ready to work the overnight shift at her place of work. She leaves...and naturally I'm curious about what she shuffled in the photos. So I start looking and I see nothing weird...until I find the card with all of the developed photos with a number for easy duplicates. The picture is maybe 1/4" x 1/4" and hard to see, but I notice she is naked, one tit ******* and her legs kind of crossed. I keep looking at notice another photo has her ex boyfriends little dick with some body parts of hers/his that aren't easily identifiable with such a small thumbnail. I rifled through the pile of photos and found nothing. I instantly grabbed the negatives and found what I was looking for - worst comes to worst I could find someone to develop these. But...the photos MUST be around? I saw her break the seal on the envelope...so I pull the one layer of paper towel off the garbage and HAH! Here are the photos... Needless to say I took the garbage out to the garage barrels and conveniently kept these photos for my own viewing pleasure.

Now fast forward to this past weekend. She was working the overnight shift and I was home after working on the house all day, loaded up with a half dozen cold ones or so, I send her off a text flirting a bit, send her a picture of my cock and the dirty talk begins. Eventually I start asking about her past..and she is answering every question - but I don't tell her I'm getting turned on. In return she is asking me questions also. I learned she fucked 10 school mates in her senior year, then I asked who had the smallest & largest dick that she fucked. My good buddy ended up up with the curse of the small dick and she said 'joe' had a big fat dick. I read this and thought to myself wait a minute...my ex's favorite cock was a guy we will call 'joe'. So I ask her and she confirms, yes, it is this joe. I told her a little bit of a 'fib'. I told her I was snooping on my ex's phone and found pictures of her sucking his huge dick. She asked how I felt, I explained I was okay with it, wish she told me about it and maybe we could've turned it into a fantasy etc etc......
 
She asks if the pictures were hot and I said yeah, it was pretty wild seeing my girlfriend at the time sucking someone else off. This was kind of the end of the story for the night. We talked a little but didn't get any more in depth or continue on to another story.

The following day we lightly brushed upon the subject, but I feel like we are both holding back.

I think I am going to ask for a list of names for her past partners...as for those pictures I've found, I've repeatedly asked her if she has ever taken nude photos for anyone or filmed herself fucking anyone and she often says "not that I remember". I'm trying to find a way to bring this up without seeming pissed or awkward. I'm thinking I may grab the bunch of photos with her to make some picture frames and stumble upon the card with the thumbnails.....

I need advice on how to further this along and help her be comfortable to continue talking about this, enough that we can discuss maybe getting her fucked by someone else. I used to arrange dates for my ex, often watching or recording/taking photos

We already have great sex, but this girl is orgasmic beyond any I've ever experienced. She will cum 5+ times in 20 minutes, scream and twitch and almost fall off the bed. I am 7" but not all thick and I know from watching my ex fuck (she had almost identical sex reactions), she would lose her mind experiencing being fucked in front of me and doing things that others would feel we shouldn't...if they knew.
 
I suggest you talk with her and be honest and open. A frank discussion about her cuckolding you is the best approach - list the pros and cons. I think she would be open to it
 
Stay away from the names, it doesn't matter if you want her to be a slut. It may seem like you are holding her accountable for years ago. Just focus on her enjoyment, what she enjoyed, what she didn't. Would she want that uninhibited enjoyment again? Don't press for names, just go generic, Joe Sam, George, etc
 
missmissy said:
Stay away from the names, it doesn't matter if you want her to be a slut. It may seem like you are holding her accountable for years ago. Just focus on her enjoyment, what she enjoyed, what she didn't. Would she want that uninhibited enjoyment again? Don't press for names, just go generic, Joe Sam, George, etc

This. Don't under any circumstance make it sound like you're grilling her, accusing her, or trying to get even or keep score. It will turn her off the idea and drive her miles away. Just casually mention it here and there, act curious but not obsessed. And don't do it all at once, a story or two here and there will keep it from feeling like an interrogation. Be patient.
 
Cheat... Thanks for sharing your story. You need to look at yourself first and make some decisions about your lifestyle. You've chosen to have a relationship with two very similar women. The first openly cheated on you and your current girlfriend is either cheating now or is likely to cheat on you. Are you comfortable having a relationship with a woman who is highly sexed, prefers large cocks, and cheats on you? If yes, then you must begin opening up communication with her. There will be very emotional moments and communication is the only way to work through it. Fantasizing with her about fucking other men may be a good start. Then, begin exploring the move from fantasy to reality.
 
Well,sorry to say this as you will think I am slamming you, but please believe I am not.

My only reaction to your story and the culminating question of "How do I talk to her?" is one of ...Seriously?

If you really were interested in starting a dialogue with her, maybe you should have forgone the snooping in her shit and just ASKED HER "Hey hon, what were those pictures you kinda hid from me?"

THAT would most definitely have led to a discussion that SHE was comfortable in in some fashion. In fact, it would have given her control over the talk and the speed of "revelation" to you, while still letting you let her know that you want to know details and SHARE them with her.

I assume you are rather young, so I am giving you the benefit of that when I tell you: SHARING requires that you not spay or snoop; DISCUSSION requires 2 people (again, snooping does nothing to forward this); and a REAL SOLID relationship of ANY kind- standard or cucked- requires HONESTY and NOT SNOOPING.

But if you are the type that reads her texts while she's in the shower, looks thru her emails, ect....then all this will go right over your head anyway.

Good luck-
Rocky & Sissy
 
Dargirl, appreciate your advice. Unfortunately, in the heat of the moment, often times we do not make our best decisions. It happens. Experience within our still new relationship will help.

I don't plan on bringing up the pictures. However I would like to further our discussions around previous partners. I am not looking for full names, but I am excited to hear about her experience with all 10. As of now she has told me names (some full and others first only) of 4. I just want to help her become familiar with sharing intimate details, as when we have talked ahe really really seemed to enjoy it.

This girl is not only fun in bed, but a great person overall. I truly look forward to a great future with her. We're going to have fun....with time and patience. I wish I could post the pictures I found in the garbage that day.
 
Lots of jokes thrown around today, she teased me about a rather slutty girl I had sex with a few years ago. Made reference to how I must've loved sticking my dick in a huge hole... So I teased her about fucking my short buddy with the little penis.... Just some friendly conversation and teasing. A couple days ago we talked about porno & how it's not about wanting to have sex with the people featured in the film, but to fantasize about that situation with the person you love & are attracted to.
 
Cheat2plz said:
Lots of jokes thrown around today, she teased me about a rather slutty girl I had sex with a few years ago. Made reference to how I must've loved sticking my dick in a huge hole... So I teased her about fucking my short buddy with the little penis.... Just some friendly conversation and teasing. A couple days ago we talked about porno & how it's not about wanting to have sex with the people featured in the film, but to fantasize about that situation with the person you love & are attracted to.

Sounds like some good stuff! Keep it up, you'll get an opportunity to ask/talk about your questions.
 
she shouldve opened up by now with all the questions already. i asked my girl how many guys have you been with? what were they race wise? who had the biggest dick? and she opened up like a book and thats when we started with this fantasy.
 
Cheat2plz said:
We already have great sex. This girl is orgasmic beyond any I've ever experienced. She will cum 5+ times in 20 minutes, scream and twitch and almost fall off the bed. ....

Sounds like you have a great sexual relationship with a really hot woman...

Cheat2plz said:
I need advice on how to further this along and help her be comfortable with continuing to talk about this, enough that we can discuss maybe getting her fucked by someone else.

...so, you don't need any advice. Just keep on keepin' on.

I'd resist the urge, though, to keep pressing her about who all her past lovers were. You'll never know, in any case, whether she's being truthful and has given you a complete list, or a list consisting of "most" of them, or has told you about only a small percentage of the men she's fucked.

I'd also suggest resisting the urge to elaborate on your past sexual adventures with your ex-woman, since that might put her off. She may interpret that as boasting or trying to make her feel inferior. It may be more effective to proceed by suggesting exchanging "fantasies," then easing into telling her about being turned on by a "fantasy" about watching her fuck another man in front of you. That would enable you to assess her responses and ease off if she doesn't respond favorably.
 

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