Need help/advise please

[kenedus]

A few years ago my girlfriend did a nude photo shoot with a former colleague of her, it turned out that he was in love with her, but apparently was not mutual.
Recently he contacted her again, and they would would like to do a new shoot! My stomach turned a bit when she was talking about it out of jealousy that another man might see her naked and her "orders" would give .. but I found it quite a horny idea ..
A considerable time nothing was said about it, until a few days ago;

She told me: "It would be the last weekend of May, that I go to him and spend a weekend with him, and they will be brainstorming about their" project. "My first reaction was:" You ask me for a weekend to spend with a guy who has seen you naked already, and on top of that had feelings for you ... no I don't think so. "
She seemed a little upset about my response, but I said a little later her I have nothing against the idea and that I trust her ...

Now I started thinking about it more and more and I started thinking that maybe this could be a first step ... from fantasy, to reality ...?

I do not know whether I am ready to .. fuck I really do not know ..
I have totally nothing against her posing naked for him agian, because I am an artist and since I was 15 I drew and photographed nude models ... I look with an artistic eye to such things ...

Hence this post: I need advice and help on how I would approach this in a good way and not screw this up for me and that she would be angry with me ...
Would I let her go, Would I let her pose nude, its a whole weekend to stay with him, ..? How do I tell her that I think that I think it's a horny tought, without her thinking I'm a dirty and perverted guy ...?

Any advice is welcome, but seriously of course!

Cheers

Kenedus

 

[guntersachsen]

Would I let her go, Would I let her pose nude, its a whole weekend to stay with him, ..? How do I tell her that I think that I think it's a horny tought, without her thinking I'm a dirty and perverted guy ...?

The way i would do that is simple(exact situation). Is there a document on the www, not too short and not too long, that discribe what a cuckold is? That thousand of people turned on from this? Maybe there is a difference between a "hardcore" and "softcore" cuckold, don´t know. Some people only get turned on by seeing wife/girlfriend being slutty with other men etc. and some like the hard way with humiliation, sensual kissing etc.

1 Day before the weekend starts i would give her the exact link to that document/website and would say to her that she should read that completely. Nothing more. Only read and never talk about it. I would not lend her to a porn site only to a documention about it.
Next day she will met him for the whole weekend and who knows what she´s doing with him...

Sry for my english but i hope you can understand what i mean. I think this is a good way to tell someone his fantasy. Don´t talk about it will give this an extra kick for the weekend.

 

[becontree2001uk]

Just play it cool, and tell her it is up to her and you will support her with whatever she wants to do. Mention the artistic merit of it and leave it at that! I hope she goes and gets fucked -You will then be a cuckold. Good Luck.

 

[kenedus]

The way i would do that is simple(exact situation). Is there a document on the www, not too short and not too long, that discribe what a cuckold is? That thousand of people turned on from this? Maybe there is a difference between a "hardcore" and "softcore" cuckold, don´t know. Some people only get turned on by seeing wife/girlfriend being slutty with other men etc. and some like the hard way with humiliation, sensual kissing etc.

1 Day before the weekend starts i would give her the exact link to that document/website and would say to her that she should read that completely. Nothing more. Only read and never talk about it. I would not lend her to a porn site only to a documention about it.
N.

Great advice, but I will be to scared to do that... to afraid it could or would backfire on me ...

 

[kenedus]

Just play it cool, and tell her it is up to her and you will support her with whatever she wants to do. Mention the artistic merit of it and leave it at that! I hope she goes and gets fucked -You will then be a cuckold. Good Luck.

Real nice advice, and I think I will be going with that, so I can break the topic to her, from an "artist-point-off-view".

Tnx

 

[kenedus]

Small update: she came home from work 2 days ago, and she was telling me about her plans for the rest of the month, and she still said very strong-minded that she will go and see him that weekend, ..

I got a bit nervous, and laugh it off, so... :s

FUUUUUCK, don't know what I will do, what to say, what to feel, ... don't wanna lose her,...

The thing is, that she doesn't know about my fantasy... I think so, ... 'cause in the past, she found some porn on my computer, about interracial and lots of Intergenerational porn...
She acted pretty weird about it, she said "I know guys watch porn, ... but I guess I tought you are different... guess I was wrong..." She was pretty disappointed in me for a few days...

The thing is, for now, I don't know exacly what they will do that weekend,
1/ will they plan a shoot ...?
or
2/ Will they allready make a new shoot..?

I know they have been talking trough sms but I don't know all the details...
But I think I want the second option!

Thanks for all the great advice, keep it coming 'cause I still feel very nervous of talking about the topic to her...


Cheers

Kenedus

 

[Saraha]

Kenedus
She needs to be with him for the whole weekend to put to rest a lot of stuff from the past. If he fucks her, so be it. She will fill you in on the details, and YOU WILL FORGIVE HER if she felt she needed to "mate for old times sake".

She might even want to see him regularly for more artistic stuff - and you need to be mature enough to let her do what her mind says she needs to do.

She knows what you mean to her, so trust her to get some itches sorted out of the way.

I am sure things will turn out for the best.

 

[kenedus]

if she felt she needed to "mate for old times sake".

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hey never had anything going, he wanted her but she didn't so...

Kenedus
If he fucks her, so be it. She will fill you in on the details, and YOU WILL FORGIVE HER .

I will forgive I guess, ... and I know now that I wil have the urge to cheat on her back...

She might even want to see him regularly for more artistic stuff - and you need to be mature enough to let her do what her mind says she needs to do.

She knows what you mean to her, so trust her to get some itches sorted out of the way.

I am sure things will turn out for the best.

TNX, great advice: I wil sort it out with her, and I wil try to mature about it!

Tnx guys for all the great comments and advice!

Cheers

Kenedus

 

[GordonPym]

I hope I'm still in time, since the WE is just here...

I had a similare experience roughly five years ago.
Only difference, she did not inform me ahead.
She sent me photos afterwards, as a birthday gift (you must know that I had been far away from home, for a long time).

I'm sharing the photos here. Go check what heppened, then decide.

If you still don't know what you want and can't make your mind (her to go, her not to go - her being fucked, her not being fucked) just flip a coin: you'll know what you REALLY want as soon as the coin flies, way before it is back in your hand !

The way i would do that is simple(exact situation). Is there a document on the www, not too short and not too long, that discribe what a cuckold is? That thousand of people turned on from this? Maybe there is a difference between a "hardcore" and "softcore" cuckold, don´t know. Some people only get turned on by seeing wife/girlfriend being slutty with other men etc. and some like the hard way with humiliation, sensual kissing etc.

Concerning the description of Cuckoldry I read an interesting post, not too short, not too long, on this forum, here (Pshycology of a Cuckold).

Last but not least, do they need a whole WE? That sounds a bit too long...
Let us know (and send us her pictures
- GordonPym

 

[Saraha]

A lot of guys enjoy playing team games and enjoying alcohol together, then they get married and miss the comradeship of the team effort. Cuckolds need the support of a team effort, so when some bulls come along and flirt with wifey, it can begin to feel as though they are part of a team providing what's missing in wifey's life.

Cucky no longer has to worry about his performance insufficiency, as long as the team effort makes his wife have daily orgasms. There is sufficient "horniness reserve" to nail his wife and provide maximum content with the marriage.

She sees her hubby as her hero, coz he has allowed her this wonderful sexual expression - and she knows from the bottom of her heart that she did the RIGHT THING in refusing to marry the macho guy who would never share her with anyone.

Macho men are filled with jealousy, so they often find their wife is moody and thinking that divorce is the only solution. Nothing worst than a jealous macho husband with a falling libido, who notices other men watching in the wings for him to get the flick out the door. No point having a trophy wife if you can't get your dickie inside OFTEN ENOUGH.

Bit rough when a macho husband has to keep reaching for the libo enhancers. He knows she needs help from the TEAM.

 

[duke9555]

A lot of guys enjoy playing team games and enjoying alcohol together, then they get married and miss the comradeship of the team effort. Cuckolds need the support of a team effort, so when some bulls come along and flirt with wifey, it can begin to feel as though they are part of a team providing what's missing in wifey's life.

Cucky no longer has to worry about his performance insufficiency, as long as the team effort makes his wife have daily orgasms. There is sufficient "horniness reserve" to nail his wife and provide maximum content with the marriage.

She sees her hubby as her hero, coz he has allowed her this wonderful sexual expression - and she knows from the bottom of her heart that she did the RIGHT THING in refusing to marry the macho guy who would never share her with anyone.

Macho men are filled with jealousy, so they often find their wife is moody and thinking that divorce is the only solution. Nothing worst than a jealous macho husband with a falling libido, who notices other men watching in the wings for him to get the flick out the door. No point having a trophy wife if you can't get your dickie inside OFTEN ENOUGH.

Bit rough when a macho husband has to keep reaching for the libo enhancers. He knows she needs help from the TEAM.

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yup Sara ...those big rough guys with the less than
satisfying dicks are in for a shock when their ladies
go hunting for sexual gratification other places besides
HIS bedroom and find it ............all their ostensible machismo
will not appease the lady in question
he needs a good beatdown from a bigger rougher sexier
lover to put him in his rightful place

 

[kenedus]

Nothing happend, she did not went on weekend to him, because she felt sick!



She is going to remake the "date" but don't know when yet...

Quite relieved she didn't go and also a bit dissapointed... mixed feelings...

Will keep you updated...

And I will try to check her cell messages for more info...

Cheers

Kenedus

 

[vladdy]

Well you gotta take the chance it sounds like... Now would be an opportune time to get her out there and spending some time with another guy. If she had in the past posed for this guy without being with him sexually then there is a good chance that she won't do it this time around. Maybe she wants to be with him this time around, hence why she decided to go. Or maybe she had him before and is planning on it again.

If you have these fantasies than you may not have a time like this again.

I had a chance about five years ago to get an ex of mine to spend some time with another guy but I made sure she didn't, but now I wish I had not only allowed her to but given her a nudge in that direction.

 

[greymaster]

Hi Mate - as you know I'm always interested in what your sexy wife is up to, but didn't feel I could contribute on this thread before now.

Quite relieved she didn't go and also a bit dissapointed... mixed feelings...

THAT ^^^^^ gives you some real feelings and emotions to think about. Balance the disappointment that she didn't go with the fear of her going and come to some decisions before any more 'dates' are set.

Be well (and get some more photos yourself to share with us)