After being on my own for about 4 years I have,about 3 months ago,entered a relationship with a lovely female who I think, if I play my cards right, just might cuckold me. Nicky is 47 (2 years younger than me), blonde, good looking, and very sexually experienced and open minded. She has made no secret of the fact that she has had a lot of lovers, and likes to drop little things into the conversation, for example, while standing across from a top hotel she let it slip that she had been fucked in the hotel toilets - twice! Or talking about an ex boyfriend - "the only good thing about him was he had a big cock". At firs she would apologise but I let her know it didn't bother me so she no longer feels the need to apologise. She has told me that she cheated on her ex husband because " he done it first but I was better at it". This included fucking a guy in the kitchen while her husband slept upstairs. As someone who was cucked by his ex-wife for a 3 month period and has craved it ever since, all this has been music to my ears. At the moment due to work commitments I only see her weekends though she wants more, and has hinted that if it stays wekends only she may need to review her "exclusivity" to me, as she put it. Since I only see her weekends, she is always jokong with me to keep my hands above the covers and not masturbate when I'm not with her, so I suggested to her that we start a game where, when I leave her on a sunday she tells me how many times I am allowed to come during the week, and she was all for it. It can range from none to one to as many as I want, but for teasing reasons she prefers the none or low options. She also has the right to change it, for example I could be allowed one on a wednesday and she can text me and cancel it and I have to abide by her decision, which I do. I find rhis exciting, its like chastity without the device almost. And she is allowed to come as many time as she wants during the week as she says that will make it more powerful for me when I can't and I have to agree. My next move is to suggest she tells me a made up "confession" tale, about how maybe a guy offered her a lift home and how she invited him in and then a blow by blow account of everything they did. I have a feeling she will go for this, I also feel that once she has done it she is bound to ask me "how would you feel if I done it for real though?" and this is where I have to be careful. What do I reply? I don't want to rush and say "Yes baby go and fuck someone and tell me", I am thinking more of saying that I wouldn't mind if she had a kiss and cuddle and a bit of mutual touching, and then let her feel comfortable knowing that if anything ever does occur she can tell me and it will excite me. I want her to do it when she is ready, not when I try and force her, as reading these forums I realise sometimes there is nothing mor off-putting for a woman than a man trying to force her to fuck someone on his terms. Then if she starts to have little adventures and feels comfortable telling me it can then develop to full sex when she is ready,if she even wants to go that far,I will leave it up to her, I would be interested to hear from other members, particularly female, if they think I am heading in the right direction and if they have any suggestions.
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Well so much for the threesome plan! I asked her if she had ever had, or would like, a threesome and was told that sex should be between two people. Then I asked her what she thought about while masturbating and she told me that she thought of all the wild things we do together. She asked me what I thought about and I told her that sometimes I imagine her cheating on me and telling me all about it, however instead of asking me how I would feel if it happened for real she laughed and replied "You're not normal". So it looks like she will just be fucking other guys without telling me, I suppose I will just have to let my imagination tell me what she gets up to.
Don't quit
Cuckcas, don't bury yourself in a cave so fast, hell agree with her that you're probably not "normal" it's OK.. If I would have given up the first time I said something like that to my wife she said "You're all I need, baby" and six months later she was on her back being hammered by a man that wasn't her husband and we spent many years enjoying different adventures with different men. If you have been reading what is posted on this site, you'll see that you're not alone in your wife not wanting to spread her legs for another man just because you brought it up. Women need to be able to understand the who, what, where, why, when and how and again the WHY before they will get into this lifestyle. Be patient and be gentle with your wife as you continue to talk about this subject in the future, she is NOT going to leap in, she will slowly warm up to the subject if you aren't so blunt about it. GTR
Cuckcas, don't bury yourself in a cave so fast, hell agree with her that you're probably not "normal" it's OK.. If I would have given up the first time I said something like that to my wife she said "You're all I need, baby" and six months later she was on her back being hammered by a man that wasn't her husband and we spent many years enjoying different adventures with different men. If you have been reading what is posted on this site, you'll see that you're not alone in your wife not wanting to spread her legs for another man just because you brought it up. Women need to be able to understand the who, what, where, why, when and how and again the WHY before they will get into this lifestyle. Be patient and be gentle with your wife as you continue to talk about this subject in the future, she is NOT going to leap in, she will slowly warm up to the subject if you aren't so blunt about it. GTR
