jenkiss said:No magic "potion". My hubby has practically begged for the last 7 years and we are just now getting "started". I wasn't interested in the beginning, but I have to say I love the attention! Have a friend innocently hit on her..its a boost to the ego, then that night ask her about it while you are pleasing her..tell her how hot it was to see her flirt with another man. Now I wish I hadn't waited so long!