My wife has a boyfriend. We are working together to find more of a pure lover for her as well. (It's irrelevant here, but I also like men.)
She is in her 40s, intelligent (3 languages), good career, beautiful(!), and is great in every way. We are friends and talk a lot, and have been married for 10 years.
Nevertheless, I have come to believe that she carries some guilt or shame about her sexual desires and her actions.
Of course what she does is all up to her (or maybe a bit to me and her lovers). I think her feelings are not valid, but you can't just TELL someone to not feel something.
I wonder if someone can point me to some material that might help her think through these thoughts. Something that affirms a woman's right to enjoy her body. Open's her eyes a bit about what's possible. Maybe even help her understand cuckolding, since even after several years, she doesn't "get" my enjoyment of it.
I've read "The Ethical Slut".
I've enjoyed novels about cuckolding like "The Act of Love" (Howard Jacobsen).
What else do you recommend? It doesn't have to be an actual book (and shouldn't be a collection of erotic stories or personal experiences).
K
She is in her 40s, intelligent (3 languages), good career, beautiful(!), and is great in every way. We are friends and talk a lot, and have been married for 10 years.
Nevertheless, I have come to believe that she carries some guilt or shame about her sexual desires and her actions.
Of course what she does is all up to her (or maybe a bit to me and her lovers). I think her feelings are not valid, but you can't just TELL someone to not feel something.
I wonder if someone can point me to some material that might help her think through these thoughts. Something that affirms a woman's right to enjoy her body. Open's her eyes a bit about what's possible. Maybe even help her understand cuckolding, since even after several years, she doesn't "get" my enjoyment of it.
I've read "The Ethical Slut".
I've enjoyed novels about cuckolding like "The Act of Love" (Howard Jacobsen).
What else do you recommend? It doesn't have to be an actual book (and shouldn't be a collection of erotic stories or personal experiences).
K